What should we pay attention to when dealing with Germans?

People who have been to Germany are deeply impressed by the beautiful and clean environment and orderly order here. When I first arrived in Germany, a German told me a joke, saying that God made Germany perfect in those days, and later created Germans in order to find a balance. Although it is a joke, it is not difficult to understand its meaning. Is it difficult to deal with Germans? What should we pay attention to in the conflict between thinking mode and culture? Speaking of Germans, we can immediately list a lot of their advantages, such as seriousness, orderliness, diligence, practicality and so on. But at the same time, we can also list many shortcomings of them, such as rigidity, resignation, conservatism and lack of flexibility ... If we can't deeply understand the German personality characteristics, we will often encounter difficulties in communication. Germans are a rational people, and they should always speak the word "rationality" in everything. Although Germany has a small population, various laws and regulations are quite perfect, covering all levels of society. Traffic laws and regulations are a microcosm. If you don't believe me, just walk around Germany and look at the traffic signs in Germany. It will be very detailed and clear at a glance. Perhaps this can explain why many foreigners think that Germans are rigid and inflexible, because everything has established rules and regulations to follow, and there is no need to find their own way. Therefore, living in Germany, we have to follow their rules in many things. Of course, I'm talking about things involving Germans, when our life circle intersects with them. For example, going out to work in Germany often requires an appointment. Whether you are going to see a doctor, going to other companies for business, or even meeting friends, you should say hello in advance and set a good time. Because of religious beliefs, shops in Germany are closed on holidays. We are unwilling and helpless. Germans have high demands on the environment. Personally, I feel that this is a nation with cleanliness. When I visit German homes, their spotless furniture and well-organized arrangements often make me feel afraid. If I invite them home according to this standard, I have to clean up. Not to mention the manicured lawn in the garden, there are almost no weeds. Therefore, if you invite Germans to your home, you must clean it up first. In addition, many Germans have unusually "sensitive" ears and are very sensitive to volume. If you make noise in a restaurant, you will immediately receive their surprised and confused eyes. On any occasion, talking loudly is a sign of uncivilization for Germans, not a sign of happiness (except weddings and birthday parties). If you live next door to the Germans, don't turn on the stereo too loudly, or turn on the roaring washing machine after 10 in the evening, or you will receive their complaints immediately. Most Germans love the quiet environment, and once someone tries to "destroy", they will be looked down upon. Germans talk about "reason" regardless of size, and the words are direct, sometimes it is unbearable, but many times they are talking about what happened, not personal attacks. In the company, German colleagues may argue with you about a certain workflow, but they will still talk and laugh with you the next day. They can separate things from people, and they won't stop seeing each other because of quarreling, which is admirable. Germans like to argue, and it seems that they really feel that the truth is getting clearer and clearer. China people value harmony and think it is impolite to directly refute each other in person, so they are unwilling to express their views. Actually, it's not necessary Germans usually appreciate people who have their own opinions. Besides, since Germans are so natural, we should let them taste their own medicine. The Germans I have come into contact with can be roughly divided into two types. One is stingy, thinking that only one's own opinion is the most correct. When you see that your point of view is different from his, you will try to persuade and educate you. If you can't convince you, say that you have been brainwashed by a government or someone, and there is something wrong with your cognition. It's not worth wasting your breath when you meet such a German. I often use rhetorical questions to answer: doesn't Germany advocate freedom, democracy and freedom of speech? Our views are different. Isn't this the embodiment of democracy? When this rhetorical question is thrown, it will suffocate those self-righteous Germans. Fortunately, I met more Germans with a second atmosphere. They really want to exchange views with you. Many older Germans learn about China and China culture from the media and books. For some questions, they really want to know the views of a real China person. They can listen to another point of view and communicate with you heart to heart. These people are mentors. They can open another window for us. When dealing with Germans, we must adapt to their straight thinking mode and dare to sayno. We often say, listen to the voice, but unfortunately the Germans can't hear it. If you can't do something, you should say no at the beginning, otherwise it will be "endless trouble." They will doubt your ability from your ambiguous answers and your integrity from your inaction. Talking about face with Germans is only bad, not good. Besides, there is no need to be polite to the Germans. In China, if colleagues or friends go out to eat together, one person will always pay the bill. In Germany, it is Dutch. If you invite German guests to pay the bill, you can only be a big loser. The Germans won't feel indebted to you and will invite you back next time. Especially when talking about work remuneration, you should confidently ask yourself how much you have earned. When I first arrived in Germany, I was too polite to ask for class fees or translation fees several times. Finally gave up and gave it to someone else. China people sometimes complain that it is difficult to deal with Germans. In fact, because you have used too many China ways to communicate with them, our wishful thinking may not be recognized and understood by them. When dealing with Germans, we should treat them as a mirror and communicate with them in our own way, just like driving in Germany. According to the traffic rules in Germany, we can guarantee the smooth traffic.