What is the helpless thing you experienced in your mother-in-law's house?

There are two things that make me feel helpless at my mother-in-law's house: every time I go back to my mother-in-law's house, my mother-in-law asks me to learn how to roll noodles with her, and I get along with my sister-in-law.

My husband likes noodles very much. Even if he eats noodles three times a day, he feels delicious, but he doesn't like rice. He can't wait ten years for a meal. After we got married, we moved out of our mother-in-law's house and had a single meal. Every time I eat noodles, I buy them from outside and cook them. Once my mother-in-law came to my house to give us something, and when she saw the noodles I bought, she said to me, how can I often eat noodles sold outside? They are neither delicious nor hygienic. From then on, whenever I go back to my mother-in-law's house, her mother-in-law will let me learn to roll noodles with her.

Although I also know that handmade noodles are delicious, I have always been very bad at cooking, and cooking is the biggest limitation. Learning to roll noodles is really more tiring than when I took the exam. Facing my mother-in-law, I can't say that I don't want to learn. I have to bite the bullet and do it with her. There are either too many noodles or too little water. Every time I look at noodles with different thicknesses, my mother-in-law always patiently lets me try again. Really speechless. I am so scared that every time I go back to my mother-in-law's house, I have to count my mother-in-law and father-in-law before I dare to go back to see them. Even my husband told me that the biggest contradiction between my mother-in-law and me is noodles.

What makes me most helpless is getting along with my sister-in-law, who is married now. Because of her bad relationship with her husband, they always quarrel. Most of her children live in her mother-in-law's house. I throw my children to my mother-in-law every day and go shopping and play mahjong by myself. When you have no money, ask your in-laws for it. Sometimes I think my in-laws like this little sister-in-law a little too much.

Every time I go back to see my in-laws, if I don't bring her and her son food and toys, she will give my husband and me a look and say that we are not worthy to be her brothers and sisters. My husband sometimes doesn't like her attitude towards me. When she reprimands her sister-in-law, she will take out the practice of crying, making trouble and hanging herself, saying that my husband and I bullied her in partnership. For such a sister-in-law, there is nothing but helplessness. In order to avoid unnecessary friction with my sister-in-law, every time I go home, my husband and I will buy things for her according to her requirements.

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Although many people say that almost all women have to face the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, my mother-in-law is really good at everything except always letting me learn to roll noodles. She doesn't interfere in my husband's life and respects our decision. For the doting sister-in-law, she is also our relative. Although she has many shortcomings, what we can do is to reduce the contradiction with her as much as possible. After all, family harmony is the most important thing.

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