Only a month after the divorce, my ex-mother-in-law came to me: daughter-in-law, we were wrong. Come back, what shall we do?

Personally, since you have escaped from the besieged city, don't go back easily. You have to face a chicken feather when you go back. Why bother?

First, I'm divorced and I can't go back. A month after the divorce, the former mother-in-law came to apologize to her daughter-in-law. What does her ex-husband do?

Marriage is a problem between husband and wife. Whether it is marriage or divorce, it is the parties themselves, not the mother-in-law. Too much interference by a mother-in-law in the marriage of her son and daughter-in-law will only accelerate the decline of this marriage.

Marriage is no joke. Marriage needs to be cautious, and divorce needs to be cautious. I've been divorced for a month. The ex-mother-in-law's apology only shows that she knows that she is wrong. She ruined her son's wife's marriage, and it is not easy for her son to remarry. The cost of remarriage is higher than that of remarriage.

Being a mother-in-law is selfish and partial to her son. In the eyes of her mother-in-law, the daughter-in-law is always an "outsider" and a person who steals her son. In her mind, the interests of her son are greater than those of her daughter-in-law, and her son is heaven. It doesn't matter if she kneels for someone else.

I am divorced, the relationship has been dissolved, and my former mother-in-law can't go back to apologize. Many problems can't be solved by apologizing. If my husband had stood up for his wife, if he had stood up for his mother, if … unfortunately, there was no if, if I divorced, I would never go back.

Second, if you have left the besieged city, you should cherish your free life. You divorced, got rid of your nosy mother-in-law, got rid of your husband who has no position, and realized a free life. Then don't return to the marriage siege because of an apology from your former mother-in-law. They don't deserve your return. You deserve better.

The second half of my life is very long, and I need to consider and choose for my happiness in the second half. There are so many people in the world, so many single men, and many people appreciate and like myself. There is no need to waste youth, feelings and life on a man.

Cherish the free life, choose a partner you love and love yourself if you want to get married; If you don't want to get married, just enjoy being single.

Third, the mother-in-law must respect herself. Mother-in-law must not think that she is interfering in her son's marriage for her son's sake. Her son is an adult, and so is her daughter-in-law. They are all responsible for their own choices and their own lives. Mother-in-law must not interfere with her son's daughter-in-law with her own life experience.

And sons can be separated after marriage, and try not to live with their sons and daughters-in-law. You think it's bullying for a daughter-in-law to let her son cook, but in the eyes of a daughter-in-law, it's normal for her husband to cook as a sign of loving himself and his family.

Be sure to remember that your son is not only your son, but also the husband of his wife, the father of his grandchildren and the son-in-law of his son-in-law. We should not only consider the feelings of being a mother, but also the feelings of other people's wives, children and in-laws.

Finally: the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is decided by her husband. If the husband can stand by his daughter-in-law and refuse his mother to bully her daughter-in-law, then the mother-in-law will naturally not find her son unhappy. But there must be a timid husband behind every mother-in-law who bullies her daughter-in-law.