What will happen to people in the future if they don’t get married in this life?

Marriage cannot save a decadent life, as long as you are the master of your own life

All people, whether they have been poor or rich, will eventually reach the same destination. Turned into a handful of ashes, the clouds disappeared.

Since the approach and result are the same, the process becomes more important.

What kind of life you want, what kind of life you want to live, whether you are married or not is really different.

When you are married, you are not fighting alone. But this battle may be about teaming up to fight monsters, fighting together against the ups and downs of life, or it may be about finding an enemy for yourself, and the couple will torture each other for the rest of their lives.

It is our country’s tradition that men marry when they are older and women marry when they are older. This has been the way everyone has done it for thousands of years. But will everything be fine once you get married? The divorce rate that rises from time to time tells us, no.

When a man and a woman live together and have children, they have to face too many problems. It’s not like just finding someone at random can lead to good collaboration.

Someone asked why many young people of the right age no longer get married.

A highly praised reply on Zhihu is:

As long as there is a relationship that should be married, there is no age for marriage.

Marriages that marry just to get married are likely to be unhappy. So what is the reason for such separation? Just to make your experience become married or divorced?

As for young people not getting married, the first reaction of most of the older generation is: What should I do when I get old?

You didn’t live well when you were young, why should you think about what to do when you get old?

What’s more, does getting married and having children mean that you won’t be alone forever?

A few days ago, the eighty-year-old man in Nanjing who left a suicide note and had children was discovered by his neighbors three months after his death. And such examples are not uncommon at all.

The beauty of life lies in the wonderful process. Don’t waste your time and pursue the life you want bravely.

As long as you have wonderful years, it doesn't matter whether you get married or not.

When you can control your own life, you will be happy every day of your life, and you will have no time and no need to worry about your life after old age.