How to treat the prevailing "wine table culture" in China?

The wine table culture we are talking about now is almost the representative of China's inferior culture, which can probably be manifested in specific and diverse drinking methods such as toasting, persuading and pouring wine. In particular, there is a famous saying that "if you don't drink it, you will lose my face."

Speaking of this sentence, I immediately thought of a friend of mine who was angry and acted because he was advised to drink. Wine table culture hurts people. My friend is allergic to alcohol, which is not obvious. After drinking one or two glasses, his whole body turns red, and he will break out in a rash in a few hours. But in a small place like ours, it is ridiculous to say that you are allergic to alcohol on the wine table. As for the symptoms of redness all over the body, in the eyes of some people there, it actually means "good volatilization" and "not getting drunk". So no matter how he explained it, he was advised to drink. I pushed it twice, but I couldn't push it three times and five times. The last time, my buddy went to work directly with someone else. We were drinking beer that day, and our buddy was very excited and said, drink. After drinking, he immediately fell to the ground and began to vomit. His eyes were red and bloodshot, and he twitched on the ground, which frightened a group of people. Especially the one who told him to drink, threw away the cup and began to apologize. He became famous in World War I, and no one dared to let him drink after that. But actually, my buddy only drank a little that day. He put the second half of the whole cup in his mouth, fell to the ground and spit it out. For people who are allergic to alcohol, it doesn't matter how much they drink, what matters is whether they drink or not, so he blushed and put on a good show once and for all.

For myself, I can drink. For those who have to give me wine, I always gather my friends to drink it back together. That kind of person always gives face and makes him drink until he vomits. ?