Learning to drive and realize life: the really useful truth is actually very simple.

When I was a child, I grew up beside my grandmother in the country. I never play with toy cars, twisting cars, scooters and small bicycles. When I first went to school in the city, my father had a brand-new permanent brand men's bike. Once he went out to do business and asked me to push him back. I lost my balance as soon as I got started, and the car fell down, which made me completely embarrassed and became a big joke for the whole family.

As soon as I was stubborn, I decided to learn to ride a bike! When I ride smoothly, see if you dare to laugh at me!

The playground in June is sunny. Except for a few old people sitting in the shade chatting, only one of my girlfriends accompanied me to practice cycling on the huge playground.

My best friend holds the back seat of the car and then helps me ride slowly when I get on the bus. After riding for hundreds of meters, my best friend was exhausted, so I had to let her rest and learn to ride independently.

Don't tell me, I'm pretty smart. Walking around the playground for a long time, I basically mastered the boarding skills. But I get nervous when I sit on it. When I am nervous, the car shakes, and when the car flashes, I am even more nervous, so wrestling has become an inevitable outcome. Fortunately, the playground is land, but it is ugly and no one is injured.

I don't give up, get up, slide and ride. In this way, again and again, I struggled again and again on the playground in the afternoon, struggling with my bike and staged a wrestling tragedy.

My best friend looked at me in distress and could do nothing. As a child growing up in the city, she rides a bike very well, but she just can't teach me.

She said anxiously, "Oh, you have to find the feeling quickly, and you will find it!" " "

The problem is, I don't know how to find a feeling, let alone what it is. And she knows that feeling, but there is no way to express it in words.

Just when we were about to despair, an old man not far away said loudly, "Girl, don't be afraid. After getting on the bus, don't think about anything. Just look ahead and ride forward! "

I woke up from a dream and rode at once. Oh, my God, this time, after I got on the bus, I looked ahead, kicked my legs hard, and just drove on, and drove away ... It worked!

I'm so excited. I ride faster and faster, enjoying the feeling of flying for the first time in my life.

This sentence of the old man has made me enjoy it all my life.

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Soon after work, I began to learn to drive.

Unlike most people who take the C/KLOC-0 driver's license, I took the c2 driver's license directly. There is a simple reason. First, I will definitely buy the automatic version instead of the manual version. C2 suits me just right. Second, c2 driver's license is better than c 1, and you don't have to deal with the problem of dead fire when driving, which is what many novices are most worried about when they are on the road.

This decision cost me 500 yuan more, but it proved to be worth it afterwards. First of all, it is precisely because most students are unwilling or disdainful to report c2 and scramble to report c 1 that the c2 coach car is very tight, and students can only touch the steering wheel in a long queue. There are few female students studying c2, so they can easily enjoy the only c2 coach car. Secondly, probably because the people who study c 1 are too hot, the coach of c 1 has also become very hot. Swearing has become a common occurrence, and it is not uncommon for male students to be scolded and cried. C2' s only coach is gentle in temper and patient in teaching, especially for female students.

According to c 1 students, our c2 students successfully passed the exam and got the driver's license. As one of the most diligent students, I passed all the exams at one time. Even the most feared thing is to dump piles into the warehouse. I was reciting the secret of the left-hand and right-hand test taught by the coach, and I did it very smartly at once.

In this way, it only took me three months to get the most practical certificate in my life. In the future, when colleagues around me often struggle for a year and still can't get a driver's license, I can't help but think of that gentle middle-aged male coach and sincerely wish him well.

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But for some women, getting a driver's license and driving by yourself are two different things.

I practice driving in the driving school, and I sit next to the coach. When I stepped on the brake, I stopped at once. I have psychological support, so driving is natural. But once they drive independently, some women will panic and quit. One of my female colleagues, just because she was afraid, came back from driving test and left it at home for more than ten years, never driving a car.

I am one of these timid female drivers. I didn't dare to drive for six months after I got my driver's license. Riding a bike to work every day, buying a new car and inviting friends to run on the highway. Now I blush when I think about it.

Finally, the day came when the duck was driven off the shelf. My brother, whom I haven't seen for years, flew in from other places. When he arrived, he called me to meet him at the registration building. It's famous to take a taxi near my home. Seeing my parents' eager eyes, I gritted my teeth and picked up the car keys, loaded the three of us and drove past.

The thought that the safety of a family of three is in my hands makes my neck ache all the way. I slowly rubbed forward, causing the driver behind me to honk his horn all the way. It took me more than ten minutes to get to my destination, and when I stopped at the roadside, I found my hands and feet were sweaty.

Connect my brother, who is sitting in the passenger seat. As a senior driver and a former college student, he knew what was going on as soon as he saw me as a rookie. He didn't comfort me, but he mentioned three words to me out of turn-

My eyes lit up as soon as I heard it. I have been learning to drive for three months, and I know to look in the rearview mirror for the first time! I didn't even notice this thing in the car before! In fact, I haven't heard the coach mention these three sentences!

These three safe driving proverbs have really enlightened me, and my nervousness has subsided. I carried it while driving and went home smoothly. When you really master the true meaning of driving, driving is actually a relaxed and natural thing.

From then on, I can drive alone and take my time on the road.

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I can't remember the exam-taking skills taught by the coach now, but every time I drive on the road, I can't forget my brother's three sentences.

Calm down and think about it. The old man's words not only taught me to ride a bike, but also taught me a life attitude and concept. In fact, why not three sentences from my brother?

On the contrary, if a truth sounds complicated and profound, it is probably a path rather than a road. It may be useful, but it is almost useless. .