How is your relationship with your partner’s family? How do you deal with it?

The relationship with the subject’s family is like a family, very good.

Fall in love with others, love each other. If you love someone, you must accept the people around him, including his parents, brothers and sisters.

Treat the parents of those you love the same as you would your own parents. You should live like you treat your parents, but you should be careful when speaking and doing things. When dealing with your parents, it doesn't matter if you usually speak louder, louder, or even have a little temper, because your parents will eventually understand you, your parents will understand you, but the parents of the person you love will not understand. , and even think that you don’t know how to behave, are stupid, and don’t know how to respect your elders. That’s a huge responsibility.

The subject’s parents come to spend some time with him every year, which may last for ten days. During these days, I take the initiative to do housework with my wife. For example, when I come back from get off work, I go shopping for delicious vegetables, fish, meat, etc., dozens and dozens of them in my hands. When others see me in the yard, I take the initiative and my mother-in-law is here, cooking some delicious food, and buys them. I buy some dishes every day. After dinner, I immediately started to put away the tables and chairs and clean up. After finishing, I walked around the area near my home with my wife and my wife’s parents. I greeted people I met, introduced my wife’s parents, and asked them to take care of me in the future.

There are several solar terms every year. During the solar terms holidays, my wife, children, and I stay together. Buy delicious food, serve it every time you go, buy some wine and cigarettes, start early in the morning, go to your mother-in-law’s house, take out the food, cook a good meal, and invite your wife’s brothers and sisters , together, invite the wives and elders, gather around a table, lively celebrate a solar term, and communicate with each other's feelings. After dinner, I play long cards with my father-in-law. He has such a hobby. When leaving, I gave another red envelope myself, and then quietly gave another red envelope to my father-in-law. In my wife's house, my father-in-law usually likes to play small cards, but he is not in charge. After playing small cards, he has to eat at the market. One thing I want to say is that we haven’t brought anything since we got married. Except for the food, we all give red envelopes. Money on things is wasted. It may not be applicable. We only give red envelopes to my wife’s brothers and sisters during the Spring Festival.

The most difficult thing to deal with is one of my wife’s brothers, who is uneducated and has no skills. I often borrow money, sometimes several thousand, not much once, but I borrow it several times and never pay it back. It may be that there is no money to repay, or it may be that my family's financial situation is good and I refuse to repay. Last year, my wife and I reached a consensus. From now on, we should limit the amount of money we borrow to 500 yuan, and make it clear what we are borrowing money for and whether it is a legitimate use of the money. If you are really in difficulty, I will give you five hundred for free. You don’t have to pay it back, and don’t ask to borrow it. I'm not afraid of borrowing money, I want each person to have a home, and I also want him to develop a good habit of being thrifty, hardworking, and hardworking. Others may help you temporarily, but they cannot help you forever.