Civilization and etiquette I went to the first junior high school to write 1000 words.

The ancients said, "If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand." . In other words, if you don't learn "courtesy", you can't get a foothold in society.

So, what is etiquette? Simply put, etiquette is the code of conduct of self-discipline and respect for others, and it is the process and means to show respect and understanding for others.

Civilized etiquette is not only the embodiment of personal quality and education, but also the embodiment of personal morality and social morality. This is the face of the city and the face of the country.

Therefore, learning etiquette can not only strengthen personal quality internally, but also shape units (small families, enterprises and institutions, communities, big cities and countries) and lubricate and improve interpersonal relationships.

As a "state of etiquette" with a history of 5,000 years, stressing civilization and using etiquette are also important ways to carry forward national culture and show national spirit.

As far as Beijing is concerned, the most realistic thing is to welcome the 2008 Olympic Games. How to show the courtesy and restraint of Beijingers and China people, and how to show the civilization and friendliness of a state of etiquette have undoubtedly become an important task in Beijing's spiritual civilization construction in recent years.

We are in a society, and our identities and roles are constantly changing. We hate others one moment, and often become the object that others don't like the next. These are all caused by "irregular" behavior.

As tourists, we always spit, spit gum, trample on the lawn and scribble on cultural relics according to our own interests; When we were citizens, we hated spitting and doodling.

When we are pedestrians, we tend to walk as close as possible, no matter whether he runs a red light or not, we hate those who don't drive according to the rules. When we are driving, we always grab the driveway, get stuck in traffic jams, occupy non-motor vehicle lanes, and hate pedestrians who drive on the road without authorization.

As consumers, we often vent our personal grievances on the service staff and always say that they have a bad attitude; As service personnel, we always bring personal emotions to our work, but we always complain that our customers are too picky.

When we get along with colleagues, we always complain about their "informality", whether it is talking about money or borrowing things at work or in life; And we are often too lazy to pay attention to those "sections".

When we take the bus, we are always complacent about getting a seat. When we squeeze into or step on others, we never bother to say sorry. When we are squeezed or trampled, we always feel sorry for each other instead of saying sorry, and even add our fists and feet; When we are old and standing on a rickety car, we are always eager for someone to give us our seats.

When we were children, we were always unwilling to communicate patiently with our parents, always spending their hard-earned money generously, and always sending their questions to the sky loudly. For parents' birthdays, genius knows; As parents, we have never communicated with our children calmly. We are always busy with our work and say that we have given them too much care, which means that we have failed their expectations.

With the development and progress of society, people's spiritual needs and self-cognitive values are getting higher and higher, and they want to be understood and respected more and more. There is no doubt that in the current situation, etiquette is not the demand of individual industries and social levels, but the needs of the whole people.

The train runs fast, thanks to the headband. At home, if parents can take the lead; At school, if teachers can take the lead; In the unit, if the leader can take the lead; In the window unit, if the window staff can take the lead ... by extension, it is necessary to popularize civilized etiquette in China, if more than 10 million people in the capital10 can take the lead; If each of us can start from me, from now on. ...

Undoubtedly, it will be easier to promote and popularize our civilization and etiquette. Then our spiritual civilization construction will achieve rapid development just like the material civilization construction. We1300 million people's mental outlook will be completely new, and people will live in a friendly, tolerant, caring and warm social atmosphere!

Civilized etiquette emphasizes "respect first".

If you want others to respect you, you must respect others first.

Those bad habits are aimed at being quick for a while, but they lose their personality and dignity.

A person who doesn't even respect himself, will others still respect you?

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Civilization starts with me.

A small family is a big family. That's a country. So what is home? Composed of members. Therefore, people are the most important thing in a country. Only when everyone has the quality of civilization can the overall quality of this country be improved.

Not long ago, I read a report about Singapore, which is a country where English is widely used. Most slogans in public places in this country are written in English. But some polite slogans, such as "No spitting", "No smoking" and "No trampling on the lawn", are written in Chinese. Why? People replied, "Because most of these uncivilized behaviors are tourists from Chinese mainland." To this end, a middle school principal who visited Singapore said earnestly: "uncivilized behavior is also a national shame."

I don't know if you remember. Three years ago, CCTV reported that after the National Day, chewing gum residue was everywhere in Tiananmen Square. There are 600,000 pieces of chewing gum residue in 400,000 square meters of Tiananmen Square. In some places, there are 9 gum stains on the ground less than one square meter. The dense scenic spots are in sharp contrast with the sacredness and solemnity of Tiananmen Square.

The above two examples show that civilization is actually composed of details, and there is still a long way to go before we reflect on what we have done. There are some uncivilized behaviors around us, as well as some classmates. For example, in our campus, on the stairs, we can always see pieces of paper that are extremely discordant with our beautiful campus, especially in the classroom on Saturday and Sunday, food bags and instant noodle boxes can be seen everywhere. Some students even think that there are classmates and cleaners on duty to clean it anyway, so what's wrong with throwing it away; For another example, some students chase and fight in the classroom corridor and are used to walking around, pushing and shoving; There are also some students who abuse each other, call names, climb branches at will, and even some students deliberately damage the public property of the school. Many of our classmates put the study of cultural knowledge first, but often ignore the cultivation of social morality and civilized habits, which essentially shows a person's ideological quality. In fact, good behavior habits are the premise to ensure our smooth study and the foundation to build a healthy personality. Students who don't have good behavior habits at school may be undisciplined and don't pay attention to hygiene, which will disturb the learning environment of the class. On the contrary, if we develop civilized behavior habits, the learning environment must be good and orderly. Now, we are in the most critical growth period in our lives. What we do in this period will affect our own quality, and civilized behavior will help us improve our own quality. Therefore, first of all, we should be an upright person, a civilized and polite gentleman, and then we can become talents. We should not be machines that simply master knowledge and skills, but people with harmonious development of body and mind.

Representing the future of our nation, we have a lot to learn and inherit, but the most basic question is: how do we take over the baton of human civilization? Students, every time we broadcast an action, we will gain a habit; Sowing a habit will produce a character. Let's keep civilized manners in mind, talk to civilization all the time, and restrain our words and deeds with civilization. Never treat civilized behavior and habits as trifles. Let's start from now on, from ourselves, from small things, develop good civilized habits and be civilized students. Please mind our mouths, don't swear, don't spit everywhere; Hold our hands, no littering, no fighting; Keep our feet under control and don't trample on the lawn. I believe that with the joint efforts of all our teachers and students, a civilized and beautiful campus will be created.

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Civilized manners accompany me.

Nowadays, among young students, many people do not pay attention to the corresponding etiquette, and the concept of etiquette is weak, which leads to the ideological and moral decline. Some people don't respect others and are impolite at school; I don't know how to address others in society, and even swear at will; At home, the image of being unfilial to the elders, self-centered and doing whatever you want is not uncommon, and these phenomena have to cause us to think deeply. Teenagers should learn to respect others as a starting point when learning "etiquette". Etiquette itself is to respect people's external performance. Etiquette comes from words, and words come from the heart. Only by respecting people from the heart can we have proper manners and words. Respecting others is the necessary and primary attitude for people to communicate with each other. Learning "etiquette" should focus on practice. A person's manners can only be reflected in his words and deeds. If you don't talk about it, you can't say whether someone has "manners". On the basis of understanding the etiquette requirements, everyone should dare to show their civilized and polite image in daily words and deeds and in dealing with people at ordinary times. Some students usually know to be polite, but in public or when they meet unfamiliar people, their "etiquette" norms can't be brought into play, which shows their lack of confidence.

If you want to be a real gentleman, you must have a gentleman's demeanor, social morality and connotation; If you want to be a real lady, you need to have high personal accomplishment in temperament, speech and dress. In modern civilized society, etiquette has become the basis of establishing good interpersonal relationships. In this society, only by learning how to respect people and how to get along with people in a civilized way can people truly stand on their own feet, respect themselves and love themselves, and create a harmonious humanistic environment and civilized society.

Let's call for etiquette and civilization together, and call on our campus to have no curly hair, colored hair and various ornaments in the near future; Call for not leaving traces of cycling in our campus in the near future; Call on the students in our middle school to speak civilized language and do civilized things no matter where they are in the near future.

As the saying goes, "parents are the best teachers for children." However, I became a teacher for my mother and influenced the whole family with practical actions. In my mother's words, by changing my mother, I changed not only my mother, but also the people around her, including her colleagues.

It goes back to the winter of the year before last, when it was already very cold. It's very cold in winter in Beijing, so my family drove out to see a movie. Because Olympic officials come to visit Beijing, there are all kinds of plastic flowers everywhere in Beijing, which makes people feel a little warm in winter. We eat snacks and listen to music in the car, which is very comfortable. When I arrived in Dongzhimen, my mother threw the garbage bag filled with garbage outside along the window. It was too late for me to stop it. I asked my father to drive the car back to pick up garbage, and my mother said that the car could not be returned. Besides, there are so many cars on the road. What if I go back and collapse? Mom even said it would be nice to change it next time. But I was determined not to do it, and finally my dad brought the car back. Mother found the rubbish she had thrown away. Although it took a lot of time, the whole family thought I was right. On the way home, many garbage bags of different colors were hung on the trees on both sides of the airport expressway, and the whole family deeply reflected.

Since then, our whole family has become ambassadors of "stressing civilization and protecting the environment" with practical actions. Last week, my family climbed Xiangshan, enjoyed the red leaves and took a lot of food to have a picnic. After the picnic, everyone will collect the garbage separately, carry it down the mountain and throw it where there are trash cans. Such a thing will be done consciously in our family without my supervision. My mother touched me with practical actions. She often picks up the rubbish on the ground in public places and throws it into the trash can.

To be civilized and polite, everyone needs to start from me and start from small things. As small masters of the country, we have the obligation to help those who have not received a good education to learn and practice civilization. Because we are rich in material life today, we need to build a high level of spiritual civilization. Only in this way can our country become a strong and highly civilized country, and civilization can be admired by more people.

Once, I saw on TV that Germany, an ancient European civilization, called on the people of the whole country to be civilized and polite, and to find back the ancient etiquette of the Germanic nation. At the same time, for example, an old woman passed by this road. Although she was the only one on the road, she waited for the red light to turn green. The old woman replied, "I'm afraid the children upstairs will think they can pass when they see the red light." I sent this story to all my grandfathers, grandmothers, fathers and mothers. How important your words and deeds are to us. When you have uncivilized behavior, think about your children! Thought we were an ancient civilization!

I want to use this little experience to tell my classmates that our words and deeds can also influence and change adults! Try it if you don't believe me! Let's all be polite middle school students! In this way, our life can be better and our country can be stronger.