Why do many people now think they are unhappy?

We are familiar with the famous saying "It is not the lack of beauty in life, but the lack of eyes to discover beauty". Rodin said.

As for the little matter of "happiness", let's use this sentence: We don't lack happiness, but we lack the perception of happiness. In other words: it is not the lack of happiness in life, but the lack of eyes to discover happiness. It is not our fault that we lack the perception of happiness or the lack of eyes to discover it. Because the education we have received since childhood tells us: happiness is not easy to obtain. Happiness requires special efforts to win. It even requires throwing one's head and blood, sacrificing one's life. In short... It can only be obtained through hardship.

I went to a book club last week, and the guest shared an interesting story about Mr. Yang Zhenning. His alma mater invited Mr. Yang to give a lecture. When he saw the hanging slogan "The road to the mountain of books is the path, the sea of ??learning is boundless and the boat is hard work," he asked the principal to replace the slogan. Later, he changed "bitterness" to "pleasure" and changed it to "There is a road to the mountain of books, and diligence is the path, and there is no limit to the sea of ??learning, and joy is the boat."

Whether this is true or not, and without verification, I find this matter very interesting. I feel that it was a worthwhile trip to learn this little story from the reading meeting.

I have participated in several PEN conferences attended by well-known local calligraphers. I also want Arty to ask calligraphers for some calligraphy, and either collect them or frame them and hang them in the study to "encourage" her when she is in high school. As for "what to write", what I recall several times are not always "learning from the sea and working hard"? ! Yi Shu once wrote about a state: I earn money with a frown, and spend it with a frown, what fun is there? If you really wrote "There is a road to a mountain of books, a path to hard work is the path, and there is no limit to the sea of ??learning, there is a boat to make a boat" and hung it in the room, you would either turn a blind eye to it every day, or would it make the feeling of unspeakable suffering worse? How much fun is learning? Will you feel happy?

No wonder many high school students’ “performance art” after taking the college entrance examination is tearing up books—how much pain, hate, and suffering do they need to vent to books?

It really makes sense to think about Mr. Yang Zhenning returning to his alma mater to be a "one-word teacher." Sociologists have confirmed the fact that "the pyramids were not built by slaves" because unhappy and unhappy slaves could not have completed such a great project. Can an unhappy learner have a happy life? Can you have a good sense of happiness?

It rained sporadicly last night. I felt happy all of a sudden. I opened the window early in the morning to ventilate the air, and felt that happiness was like drizzle. It has been almost a month since the poplar tree hairs have been floating in the air. Every time I go outside and walk around, my eyes, mouth, and nose feel uncomfortable with the hairs, and there are tears and runny noses. A light rain will cause the poplar tree hairs to fall to the ground with the dust and will not harm humans.

When I was young, there was a very popular song that sang like this: Happiness is not drizzle, it will not fall from the sky by itself... But there is also a very popular song that sang like this: Where is happiness? ? My friend, let me tell you, it is not under the willow shade, nor in the greenhouse, it is in the hard work, and happiness is in your crystal sweat...

I know why there are always people who find it difficult to perceive happiness. , found happiness. It’s not that we lack happiness, but that the belief that “happiness is not easy” has been implanted in our brains, and that we lack the ability to perceive happiness.

Where is happiness? It is under the shade of willows and in the greenhouse. It is working and sweating.

Happiness, sometimes it is just a drizzle, falling from the sky by itself.

Happiness, it is in the present life.

Happiness, it is everywhere...the eyes are bright and the heart is warm. WeChat public account Ding Shiding ID: dsd555555