Should the marital conflict be cancelled?

Marriage should be abolished. For some men who commit crimes against women through marriage, hell to pay and hell to pay should not tolerate them.

The marriage behavior in the TV series Happy Story is a true portrayal of many rural customs. Some men openly commit crimes against women attending the wedding when they get married through others, but they engage in dirty criminal activities under the guise of joking.

Not long ago, a man in Jiangxi gave a bridesmaid of 14 years old to J. His behavior not only harmed others, but also successfully sent himself to prison. He divorced just after he got married. It can't be said that it is wonderful enough.

Occasionally, I will see some marital troubles eventually lead to crimes in the news, but in our Chongqing side, this situation is basically gone now, and all the marital troubles I heard were thirty years ago.

Thirty years ago, I was a little boy of five or six years old, and the Dabin family lived not far from my home. When Da Bin was just nineteen years old, he was a strong young man. On the 22nd of the twelfth lunar month, a family in the village married a daughter-in-law and asked Dabin to be the best man. The word best man didn't exist at that time. Actually, it's to help get married, just like the best man now. It is said that Dabin was young and vigorous, and his legal consciousness was also very weak at that time. Dabin's wedding team came to the woman's house, and the maid of honor of the woman's house came to stop it. Basically, it's like a wedding. It's about Da Bin. He saw so many girls joking with everyone, and many young men who went with him began to cater to these girls (basically holding hands, but not for more than an instant), but Da Bin was very excited and attacked these girls directly.

When Dabin grabbed these hands, everyone was shocked at that time. The two young girls who were attacked in the chest are cousins of the bride, so people can quit. The girl's father immediately knew about it, surrounded Dabin with people and beat him, and then sent him to the police station. So Dabin stayed in it for half a month before being released. This matter is well known in the whole town and has become the talk of people in their leisure time.

Basically, in Chongqing, even if you get married, the most you can do is to get the groom's father out with a pointed hat and parade around with a torch. The most outrageous thing is to let the father-in-law and the old man carry the daughter-in-law into the house. Although it is a bit vulgar, at least joking is within the scope of reasonable law, and there is absolutely zero tolerance for hooliganism towards girls through marriage.

Bad marriage behavior has a great relationship with the local public security environment and civilization. The worse the public security environment, the weaker the legal awareness, and the higher the incidence of crimes against women through marriage. Here, we cite some areas in B province and some areas in N province. No matter whether women are respected or not, we can see the public security environment, the civilization level of the people and the local popularization of law. On the one hand, we should pay attention to it, on the other hand, we should also pay attention to it.

Some opinions on punishing and putting an end to bad marriages

First, strengthen the publicity of law popularization.

When a bad marriage infringes on women in a region, it is basically certain that the publicity of law popularization in this region is not done well. The purpose of popularizing the law is to let people know what is illegal and what cannot be done. If they do this, they will send themselves to prison. When everyone can understand this truth, they will psychologically establish a red line between morality and the rule of law. When they want to invade women, they will carefully consider their illegal costs and finally dare not.

If we don't publicize the law, these people, like wild animals, will naturally do what wild animals do.

Second, severely punish criminals who violate women.

The best way to punish bad marriages against women is to severely punish these criminals and let them know that illegal acts against women will pay a heavy price. On the one hand, it can also play the role of vigilance and education, so that people who want to reach out can take warning and dare not act rashly.

Third, improve women's legal awareness of self-protection.

It is the most important thing to improve women's self-awareness of law. When a girl is violated by a man, she should call the police and inform her family in time to stop this vulgar marriage behavior at the first time.

Fourth, guide the civilized wedding banquet in a benign way.

With regard to the benign guidance of civilized wedding banquets, it requires local governments and propaganda departments to increase publicity, strengthen legal education, improve people's legal awareness and civilization, and women's federations everywhere should actively publicize the protection of women's rights and interests.

Bad marital behavior should and must be abolished. Whoever dares to invade women by taking advantage of others' marriage will be severely punished!