Do you know the meaning of "worshipping the door" and "cooking" respectively?

Marriage etiquette has different customs in different times. Obviously, there are more customs in ancient weddings than in modern ones. For example, in ancient times, there was a custom of worshipping the door and burning wooden boards at funerals. In modern times, there may be many people who don't know what customs such as worshipping doors and burning boards mean. In fact, in ancient times, worshipping the door meant that the man went to the woman's house to bow down. Burning board refers to the ceremony to pay homage to the dead at the time of marriage and funeral.

First, the ancient people's wedding customs of paying homage to the door are much more than those of modern weddings. However, in ancient wedding customs, the most difficult thing for people to understand is the custom of worshipping the door. And the so-called suitable, specifically refers to the men and women meet, both sides have a good impression, have the intention to form a family. Then at this time, the man's family will visit the woman's family. However, during the visit, everyone in the woman's family will sit on the kang, and then everyone in the man's family will bow down under the kang. Through this bow ceremony, the woman's family is required to agree to the marriage. However, if one person in the woman's family disagrees with the marriage, then the marriage is considered as a failure of the man's marriage.

Second, there are more funeral customs in ancient cooking than in modern times. Among so many ancient funeral customs, the most special one is burning wooden boards. In ancient times, burning boards was generally a sacrificial activity held shortly after people died. However, sometimes sacrificial activities are held on the anniversary of one year or half a year's death. Burning boards means that relatives burn some sacrifices and some items to the deceased.

Third, summary In ancient times, people had many wedding customs, which were wonderful or even funny in the eyes of modern people. However, with the development of the times, people are open-minded, and these customs are gradually forgotten.