Do you know what the "hidden rules" in university dormitories, especially girls' dormitories, are?

In high school, every student yearns for university life. In the description of teachers and parents, the university is free and unrestrained. It is true that universities are not as nervous as high schools, and they are not controlled by teachers and parents, but most of the rules in universities are "hidden rules". If you don't know, you will suffer.

Xiao Bai is a freshman. Originally, like many freshmen, she was full of expectations for college life. But in the first semester, she was ostracized by her roommates. It turns out that Xiaobai always has the habit of going to bed early and getting up early, but her university is in the south, and her roommates are also from the south. They usually get up late and sleep late at night. Xiao Bai often wakes her roommate up because of the inconsistent schedule, reminding her to turn off the lights. She thought she was kind, but she was excluded by her roommate.

Thanks to the counselor's mediation, the contradiction was resolved by changing the dormitory for Xiaobai. Recently, there are more and more incidents in the news because of dormitory conflicts. Things in the dormitory are not big or small. If we can't handle the dormitory relationship well, it may cause some irreparable tragedies.

In fact, many contradictions in dormitories are caused by students' immature minds, low emotional intelligence or too little communication. After entering the university, students live in the dormitory for a longer time, have more contact with roommates, and the probability of conflicts will be greater. It is necessary for college students to understand the "hidden rules" in the dormitory to survive.

what are the hidden rules of university dormitory?

1. Work and rest time should be consistent as far as possible

Work and rest are very important for a person. Maintaining good study is a prerequisite for efficient study. In high school, schools generally arrange work and rest time in a unified way. After college, students' work and rest are more casual, but it is best to keep the same in a dormitory. When I first entered the university, the students came from all corners of the country, and their rest time was different. It is best to observe the average rest time of the whole dormitory, and then adjust their own time according to the rest time of others. If you really can't adjust, you should communicate with your roommates, and the way of expression should be as euphemistic as possible. If necessary, you can ask the counselor to change the dormitory.

2. Don't gossiping

Girls generally pay more attention to personality and love gossip, so they often gossip behind their backs. Everyone seems to have an instinctive desire to pry into other people's privacy, but it is best to maintain necessary respect for other people's private affairs. If others don't want to mention it, it is best not to talk behind their backs. This is the basic quality of being a man. After entering the university, you are a mature person, and you should not spread other people's gossip everywhere like a primary school student. If you don't want to be rumoured, don't rumour about other people's affairs; If you don't want to be the object of discussion, don't talk about others behind their backs.

3. Personal hygiene is very important

Dormitory is a small community, so it is necessary to pay attention to personal hygiene when living in the dormitory for a long time. Many college students have not developed the necessary living ability before entering the university, and their living habits are rather sloppy. Even some college students send dirty clothes home for their parents to help them wash, which is very bad. Pay special attention to personal hygiene in the dormitory. Only when everyone's personal hygiene is done well can the living environment of the whole dormitory be good.

4. Don't follow the trend

After entering the university, everyone should have a general plan for his life and not follow the crowd. Many college students are addicted to games in college, but some of them may not have to worry about employment, so they live a more chic life. If you are not such a person and still neglect your studies with the crowd, then you may be the worst in the graduation season. University is an opportunity for students to learn to be independent, so they should have a clear understanding of their own affairs, and don't blindly follow suit without their own opinions.

The university is also a small society, and the university dormitory is a place where students get along with each other day and night. In the face of all kinds of vicious incidents in the university dormitory, what we should do is not to say "thank my roommates for not killing", but to learn the "jungle law" of living in the dormitory and cultivate our emotional intelligence, so as to better prepare for entering the society.

Dear netizens, what other "hidden rules" do you think of living in the dormitory? Welcome to leave your story in school below!