The typo in the forged Tsinghua notice was discovered. What is the mentality of forging a notice?

The typo in the forged Tsinghua notice was discovered. What is the mentality of forging a notice?

Recently, a college entrance examination student forged a notice of admission to Tsinghua, which triggered a heated discussion among netizens. Something like that. A student lied to his parents during his three years in high school that he got good grades. After the college entrance examination, he lied that he got more than 700 points in the exam, and forged Tsinghua University's admission notice to deceive his parents, which led them to believe and publicize in their hometown and eventually led to exposure.

In fact, after this incident, most netizens were lambasting the student, thinking that he was lying even if he didn't work hard, and he was a social scum. Some netizens think that students' families also have problems, and they don't even know their children's learning level. Obviously, they can only get more than 200 points in the exam, even Tsinghua's family dare to believe that he lied more than 700 points.

But I think this incident not only reflects the student's personal problems, but also whether we should think about why the student would rather risk falsifying his grades than telling the truth to his family.

Well, first of all, it is possible that the family environment of students is actually problematic. Maybe his parents will scold him or use violence when they learn that his grades are not good. It is very likely that this happened to this student before, which led him to cheat in order to avoid being scolded. ?

Secondly, it may be that parents' comparison mentality is too heavy. This student is likely to have peers among neighbors or relatives and friends, and the other person studies better than himself, which leads his parents to compare themselves with other people's children for a long time. The student was disgusted with this behavior and consciously hurt his self-esteem, and finally chose to save face in front of his parents by cheating.

Another possibility is the reward system. It is possible that students will get living expenses only if they do well in the exam every time, which leads to this mentality of students, so he is more and more eccentric.

But in fact, no matter which possibility, it means that most parents pay too much attention to their children's study and achievements. It seems that only when you study well will you give your child a good look, but you don't know that there is specialization in the industry. Besides studying, every child can shine in different fields.