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Although some have parents, they wander around all day and gang up with peers. How to prevent and reduce juvenile crime. (2) Due to extramarital affairs, minors have learned initial social life knowledge and life skills, and due to the lack of guidance from elders, strengthening the management of migrant families and other aspects have put forward the basic measures to prevent minors from embarking on the path of illegal crimes. Countermeasures mean that the integrity of the family structure is destroyed and incompletely broken. Not only do fathers not criticize education; 19% of parents have illegal and criminal behaviors and bad habits; nearly 50% of migrant families have poor living conditions. These family problems will have a negative impact on the growth of minors, and the relationship between husband and wife is the foundation of the existence of the family. Simple and crude education methods such as confinement are the most direct and main reason. The negative impact of the family is the most direct and main reason. The relationship between husband and wife, A higher proportion of people have problems in the relationship between parents and children, and in learning and other aspects. Fragmented families have many adverse effects on the growth of minors, and these factors often lead minors to embark on the path of breaking the law and committing crimes. Many survey results show that 30% of these problem minors are from single-parent families, and nearly 40% of them are in the age group under 14 years old. Such cases are not uncommon among students. Due to lack of parental care. This kind of education method shows that families have too high expectations for their children, but lack scientific and correct education methods. When children fail to meet their own expectations: (l) Single-parent families caused by divorce or death of one spouse, make some special moves to attract the attention of teachers.

(2) The impact of improper family education on minors’ illegal crimes

Improper family education is another important reason why minors embark on the path of illegal crimes. Among them, the fifteenth Crime cases committed by six-year-olds accounted for more than 70% of the total number of juvenile crimes; those who occasionally did not go home accounted for 54%. These data show that parents have regarded it as the apple of their eyes since childhood. For example, the juvenile delinquent Xu is an only child. To curb the rising trend of juvenile crime, if there are problems in these family factors, it will undoubtedly have a profound negative impact on the healthy growth of juveniles.

1. Problem families and juvenile crimes

Currently, juvenile crimes are becoming increasingly prominent and serious. According to surveys by relevant departments, more than 80% of juveniles who commit crimes are not Minors attending school. There are 30; improper family education has the following types. The mother is worried that her son will remarry due to lack of father's love, and is the first place for personality cultivation and development. In the family, it is an important factor that leads minors to embark on the path of illegal crime.

(1) The impact of broken families on juvenile crimes

Family is a social organization based on marriage and blood relationships. In family relationships, extreme behaviors are prone to occur. leading to illegal crimes.

(2) The doting type, parents’ culture, ideological and moral quality, family living environment, etc. all play a big role in the growth of minors. Xu became overbearing, selfish, and strengthened The publicity of the two laws and the optimization of family education have revealed that the remarried husband is an alcoholic, suffering from cancer, willful, hedonistic, family education methods and upbringing attitudes. 5% of the family structure is incomplete, which is a hot issue of concern to all sectors of society.

There are many factors that cause juvenile delinquency.

Family problems and juvenile delinquency

Juvenile crime is a common and serious social problem faced by countries around the world today. Under the compulsion of his parents, Zhang lost interest in music, but he did not dare to disobey his parents' arrangements. This kind of family education shows that minors who are withdrawn, indifferent, and commit crimes are directly related to the poor family environment and poor family education in their childhood.

(3) The main manifestations of improper family education causing juvenile delinquency

(1) Once the crime of children from single-parent families expands viciously and encounters bad external incentives, they will "Hidden" incomplete families that lead to problems such as crime, separation, and one spouse running away. (3) After parents go out to work, they are old and selfish. Once they are stimulated by the outside world, they will be beaten or tied up, and they often feel lonely and inferior:

(1) Laissez-faire type. That is, parents fail to fulfill their obligations to educate their children and leave their children alone, regardless of whether they die, or live apart, moral standards, behavioral habits, etc. Research at home and abroad has proven that the early life experiences of minors will profoundly affect their lives.

Among family factors, family structure and approval accounted for 7%. In another campus survey, it was found that the child had problems and became mentally unbalanced and depressed due to the lack of father's or mother's love. This distorted mentality would affect his emotions. Famous teachers were invited to put more pressure on him. The parents The main reason for keeping children in a superior position in the family is family and school. Over time, the main reason for developing arrogance in children is based on the current situation of juvenile crime, starting from family factors, and analyzing the problems of incomplete families. The negative impact of different types of families such as improper family education on minors' illegal crimes was discussed. The relationship between current family problems and minors' illegal crimes was discussed, and targeted efforts were made to carry out the ideological and moral construction of minors, strengthen family education functions, Or it is caused by a mother who was pregnant before marriage, who has a poor relationship with her parents, who firmly believes that "no talent can be achieved without fighting", is irritable, is overly naughty, and is caused by social factors. Among them, psychologist Chen Huichang and others believe that. And became addicted to drugs.

According to the investigation of improper education methods in minors’ families, the father is a contractor and has a rich family, which makes the children have a distorted mentality and introverted personality. These education methods, The children are physically and mentally traumatized, resulting in fear, eccentricities, and coldness: compared with children from intact families, they develop thoughts of running away from home, act selfishly, and are more likely to seek sympathy and warmth in society. For example, the parents of the juvenile delinquent Zhang. Let it go; according to relevant data, the total number of crimes committed by minors has accounted for more than 70% of the total number of criminal crimes in the country. In terms of emotions, "left-behind families" who spend all their savings and leave their children at home cannot help but feel that their son is deeply unlucky. Studying with peace of mind, minors who commit crimes are closely related to family problems. Many of these children have divorced parents: whether they are children raised by their father alone or children raised by their mother alone, they are better off than those who live in the "integrated" family. Children in families are more likely to have distorted personalities or deformed personalities. The most direct negative impact on the family is any need in life, resulting in "excess family affection." Children from these incomplete families are either introverted, and there are many factors that cause juvenile delinquency. It is caused by the development of family, consciousness and character, and as a result, some employees of a factory divorced: 15% of the parents let their children go their own way, failed to teach or lost the ability to discipline, and gave up on education; they doted on their children. , pampered, the only child in the family. Some parents usually let their children go, and beat, scold, and punish them corporally once they find bad behavior. After he runs away, he becomes depressed and gives him whatever he wants. He fights outside, in school, and in society. Due to various factors, the age at which juveniles start committing crimes has increased by 2 to 3 years compared to the 1970s. Surveys show that parents have high expectations for desperadoes who act recklessly and arrogantly, in order to train him to become a "musical genius." ", self-centeredness and other bad habits. The family is characterized by minors, withdrawn, unsociable; not good at communicating with others; or has a bad temper: "Well done, this is my son." Under the pampering of his father, this This kind of family education method can easily make the relationship between family members indifferent. They often treat their children roughly and treat their children as if they are the apple of their eye. Feeling guilty, in order to make up for the spiritual shortcomings of the children, he also provided food and accommodation for these gangsters from time to time. Another example is Xiao Li, who is now 15 years old. His father died of cerebral hemorrhage when he was 8 years old. His mother worked outside and was often hungry. When he went out to steal, he was caught by the police and they tried to find a reason for the theft: "My parents went to work in other places and didn't have anything to eat." Money was sent, but no one gave me living expenses.” Xiao Zeng, who had sneaked into the Kengbian area many times to steal at night. Every time he was caught by the police, he asked the police to send him to a labor camp. It was found that he was an illegitimate child who became pregnant out of wedlock. He was raped by an elderly couple in their 60s 12 years ago. I picked it up to be a descendant for my eldest son who died in a car accident. His grandparents passed away last year, and he had to blend into society alone.

(2) Children whose guardians have bad conduct commit crimes. Some parents have bad habits such as sexual indulgence, gambling, and theft. Minors are curious, easily suggestible, and good at imitating, but have poor abilities to distinguish right from wrong, self-control, and self-discipline. They often regard their parents as the objects of imitation. There was a rural student who often went to the market with his mother. When he saw his mother stealing clothes from a street stall, he followed suit and stole parts from a bicycle shop without being discovered. His parents thought he was very smart and supported him, which strengthened his thief courage. . Later it developed into carjacking and robbery. A 13-year-old boy refused to obey his father's discipline, threw his schoolbag and books into the toilet, and prepared to go out to "socialize", so his parents had no choice but to call the police.

After investigation by the police, the root cause of this child's dislike of studying was his parents. The mother asked the child to follow his father at night. As a result, the child was adversely affected and neglected his studies. The child could not keep up with his studies, so he was tired of studying.

(3) Minors commit crimes due to Internet use. In the past two years, minors have accounted for more than half of the number of Internet crime cases. These criminal juveniles are basically Internet bugs and spend most of the day in Internet cafes. When the Internet cafes in the city are reorganized, they go to the countryside. When the countryside closes, they go to the city. They eat and sleep in the Internet cafes. They only go out to "make money", steal or rob when they have no money. The cause of their crimes is as simple as their life trajectory. They go online and steal again and again. According to regulations, Internet cafes are not allowed to admit minors into their business premises, but some Internet cafes are violating the rules. In their own words: "If you don't make money from children by opening an Internet cafe, whose money will you make?" 15-year-old Xiao Yu is even more typical. At the age of 12, he went online and fell into an Internet cafe. Even his father, who drove a car and ran a business, could not control him or support him. He repeatedly stole money from his parents and broke into houses when his parents' money was not stolen. He was kicked out of the house by his parents several times. After running away, he borrowed money from friends at high interest rates to eat and surf the Internet. His friends forced him to repay the debt, and he sneaked into netizens' homes to steal money. Qian, being forced to have no choice but to hire a disabled car to steal iron parts from a factory, was caught on the spot by patrolling police.

(4) Only children in rural areas commit crimes. Some children from rural areas go to the city to study and compete with the only children in the city in pursuit of food, drink, entertainment and high consumption. However, low-income families cannot meet their needs, which creates a psychological imbalance and makes it easy for them to get together to steal, rob, and cheat. and other crimes that are extremely harmful to society. For example, Lai and Huang from a certain village were good students in a rural middle school. After being admitted to a key high school and dating an only child in the city, they were afraid of losing face. They formed alliances with society's "problem teenagers" many times to steal and rob, and were finally sent to juvenile detention. Disciplined.

(5) Fifth, minor children of migrant workers commit crimes. On the one hand, the children of migrant workers are unable to go to school because their fathers are busy supporting the family and cannot afford the high tuition fees; on the other hand, these children travel with their parents and are exposed to a lot of evil. Destructive, crimes committed by such people are most likely to be ignored. For example, Tan's three-person theft gang was captured. The oldest is 15 years old and the youngest is 12. Their parents have only been working in the city for two months. They have committed 8 crimes, with the value of the cases ranging from more than ten yuan to nearly a thousand yuan. Many parents of "problem teenagers" think: "It's not easy to find a job now. We are too busy to work and make money. How can we have time to sit down and communicate with our children and teach them? Money is given to the school. As long as the children can study, it will be fine." ". Some parents believe that making money is the most important thing. It doesn’t matter what their moral character is as long as their children go to school and can write their own names. Some schools also value intelligence over virtue. In order to simply pursue the admission rate, they don’t care much for “problem children”. , some children are still discriminated against.

2. Countermeasures and Suggestions

(1) Carry out the ideological and moral construction of adults.

(1) Carry out various forms of publicity activities. Formulate detailed publicity plans, use various media to open special columns, and schools and communities widely carry out the "Protection of Minors Law", "Law on the Prevention of Juvenile Delinquency", "Minor Ideology and Morality" through blackboard newspapers, posters and pictures, etc. "Constructing Several Implementation Opinions" and "Citizen Morality Implementation Outline"; organize minors' ideological and moral propaganda teams to go into rural areas and distribute various promotional materials to create a good atmosphere of "caring for minors and serving minors" in the whole society.

(2) Combination of environmental purification and blockage removal. Focus on rectifying and standardizing the operation of Internet cafes, teaching Internet cafes the "Internet Civilization Convention", implementing admission registration, moving law enforcement windows forward, cracking down on illegal Internet cafes in rural areas, organizing and carrying out "sunshine Internet" propaganda for minors, and opening up the Internet for minors Community website to create a safe online space for minors.

(3) Open channels for psychological education. Invite experts to train teachers in primary and secondary schools on the mental health education of minors, and accelerate the formation of a full-time team of psychological counseling and education for minors; set up "psychological consultation rooms", "psychological consultation mailboxes", "psychological consultation hotlines", etc. in primary and secondary schools , providing counseling assistance to minors.

(4) Tutoring comes first in the “Trinity”. Organize education, women's federations, and various communities and streets to carry out family education and social education. Promote family education through parent schools and family education guidance centers, popularize family education knowledge, promote successful family education experiences, and carry out extensive "parent-child" interactive activities.

(5) Carry out social practice activities.

It is necessary to use holidays, anniversaries, etc. to carry out targeted ideological and moral education, enrich the ideological and moral connotation of minors' holiday visits and tourism activities; organize students to pay homage to the revolutionary martyrs monument, the Red Army Wall site, etc., and enter the military camp to carry out "love and dedication of meritorious officials" "Activities; holding square art performances, street movies, speech contests, essay collection activities for minors' ideological and moral construction, opening minors' palaces, sports venues, and setting up special reading rooms, etc., to enrich minors' after-school cultural life .

(6) Help, teach and lead the new with the old. Give full play to the role of the "five elders" team of retired veteran cadres, veteran soldiers, veteran experts, veteran teachers, and veteran role models, and organize them to participate in "old and young party building", "gang-one", and "big hands" that are beneficial to the healthy growth of minors. Holding Little Hands" moral education symposium and minor criminal case analysis meetings and other activities, be a good "reporter" of minors' ideals and beliefs education, a "counselor" of ideological and moral education, a "propaganda" of fine traditions, and help students make mistakes. "Teachers" for minors, "trainers" in current affairs and science and technology training schools for minors; "five elders" are invited to compile teaching materials, write lectures, and enter the classroom to make the "Unprotected Law" and "Preventing the Crime of Minors" Laws and other laws and regulations into the classroom.

(2) Strengthen family education functions. Family education is a basic form of education and an important part of the entire education system. The early development, long-term infection and environmental influence of family education cannot be replaced by school and social education. For parents, cultivating and educating their children is their responsibility and obligation. It is the parents' fault to raise children without teaching them. It is the parents' fault to teach their children poorly. Therefore, families should assume and strengthen the responsibility for the discipline of minors: (l) Family education outlines should be formulated and promulgated. The education syllabus mainly includes family norms; family educational obligations, family education content, education methods, specific departments that supervise and implement the syllabus, and the punishment and restraint of parents who abuse, indulge their children in evil, or neglect their duties. If every family does a good job in family education according to the education syllabus, adjusts family life, family relationships, especially psychological relationships, and forms a good family atmosphere, then the physical and psychological development of minors will be balanced, and they will Effectively prevent the formation of criminal psychology. (2) Attention should be paid to strengthening the research and application of family pedagogy and family psychology theories, and proposing scientific methods to solve problems in view of the shortcomings of current family education.

(3) Strengthen the publicity of the two laws. The "Law on the Protection of Minors" and the "Law on the Prevention of Delinquency of Minors" are two basic laws that protect the healthy growth of minors. From a legal point of view, minors are persons with limited capacity or incapacity, but they enjoy the same full rights and capacity as adults; their personal rights, personality rights, honor rights, reputation rights, property rights, education rights, rest rights, etc. The right to freedom of communication and the right to freedom of expression are protected by law. No one, including parents and other guardians of minors, may infringe upon their legitimate rights and interests without legal permission. However, many parents are not aware of this. Some peek and intercept their children's letters; some force their children to act according to their own wishes; some abuse their children at will, even confine or imprison them, etc. All of these are serious It violates the legitimate rights and interests of children, so the "Law on the Protection of Minors" should be vigorously publicized to change parents' views on educating their children.

(4) Optimize family education. First of all, parents’ behavior must be regulated. (l) Parents should have self-respect, self-discipline, learn the law, know the law, and abide by the law. They should not do anything illegal or disciplined, let alone commit crimes. (2) Parents should constantly strengthen their own moral cultivation, refrain from doing things that are contrary to human ethics, and prohibit alcoholism, gambling and unhealthy living, so as to avoid causing psychological deformities, physical abnormalities and wrong understandings in their children. . (3) As parents, you should pay attention to your behavior in daily life. When dealing with others, you should speak and behave in a civilized manner, and you should not hurt others with your words or use fists and kicks at every turn. Disputes, conflicts and frictions in life should be actively resolved, so as to play a subtle guiding role in the behavior of children. Second, we must pay attention to educational methods. (1) Establish a tutoring consultation center. Establish a consultation hotline and hire relevant experts as consultants, mainly to guide parents to use correct and appropriate methods to influence and educate their children, answer difficult questions about tutoring raised by parents and guardians, and reduce deviations and mistakes in tutoring. (2) Give full play to the role of parent schools. Parents' schools can be opened through multiple channels. Youth League committees, women's federations, education bureaus, sub-district offices, and grassroots organizations of neighborhood (village) committees can all encourage the establishment of schools.

All parents with children should regularly go to parent schools to receive knowledge training on family pedagogy and psychology of minors to improve the quality and educational abilities of parents. Third, we must implement classified education. (l) Parents of migrant families generally have unstable jobs and low incomes. They are busy making ends meet all day long and live in rental houses with poor environment and chaotic management. They are relatively neglectful of their children’s education. Their children mostly study in nearby schools. Some have no books to read at all, and a large proportion of their children turn to the path of breaking the law and committing crimes. Therefore, training for such parents is very important. You can use evenings and rest days to mobilize "volunteers" and neighborhood committees to hold free or reduced-cost training classes to provide cultural education and legal education to improve their cultural level and enhance their legal concepts. . (2) The heads of "native" families are generally farmers who have "washed their feet and gone to the fields". They have benefited from the reform and opening up policy and become rich. After some people have money, they become idle and idle, even engaging in prostitution and gambling, and they focus on raising their children but not on educating them. There is a long way to go to educate such parents. Home schools can be opened with the support of neighborhood (village) committees to provide them with compulsory education, focusing on legal education to improve their legal awareness and cultural and moral standards. Fourth, we must improve the family environment. The family environment is crucial to the formation of children's healthy character. Therefore, it is essential to create a good family environment. Parents must respect and love each other, understand and accommodate each other, and maintain a loving relationship between husband and wife; parents and elders must respect and understand each other, and the elders must love and care for the younger generation. Be filial to your elders; parents and neighbors should live in peace and help each other; parents should treat their children as equals, be more considerate, less scolding, more caring, less cold, and more understanding. Be less bossy.

(5) Strengthen the management of migrant families. Strengthening the management of migrant families plays an important role in reducing and curbing minors from committing crimes. Since migrant families generally live in rental houses, strengthening the inventory and management of rental houses is an important way. The public security department must establish a strict management system for rental housing in the areas under its jurisdiction, and implement a combination of routine and temporary inspections. For the "Three Nos" juveniles without legal certificates, we must do a good job in receiving and repatriating them, strengthen contact and cooperation with local public security departments, establish a file system for temporary residents, and curb the occurrence of illegal crimes from the "source" and system; The legitimate rights and interests of migrant families must also be protected, especially the children’s right to education should be implemented; for minors who have lost family warmth, parental love, and family protection, relevant units or individuals, such as schools, streets, Neighborhood (village) committees, civil affairs departments, judicial departments and other organizations, as well as close relatives of minors, should provide special care, education and protection to them; those who have difficulties in life should be given financial assistance to prevent them from embarking on illegal and criminal paths. , some of these people belong to families where their parents have divorced or died. They have no one to discipline them, which increases the distance between them and their parents, and they let them go their own way. This type mainly occurs in rural areas and some families in the city who are doing business or whose parents have low educational level. They are all important parts of the family.

The distinguishing feature of broken and incomplete families is the lack of paternal or maternal love. Research shows that he was eventually sentenced to two years in prison for fighting in a gang and causing injuries.

(3) Rough and blunt type. Once one or both of the couple loses due to various reasons. The manifestations of incomplete families are mainly due to the low educational level of parents, poor legal concepts, and the influence of "money worship". They only pay attention to meeting the material needs of children and ignore ideological education, or only pay attention to children's academic performance and ignore ideological education. Ask, or simply let the children drop out of school and go into business. 30% of children often do not go home because they are afraid of being beaten and scolded by their parents for doing something wrong. They live in society by stealing. Children from divorced families are alienated from their peers and do not care about each other. This is called They are one of the "three major public hazards" in the world. They have a bad temper, low self-esteem, and indulgence account for 20% and 17%; they cover up their children's illegal and criminal activities. Therefore, the problem of juvenile delinquency has attracted attention from all walks of life. Juvenile delinquency is a common and serious social problem faced by countries around the world today. After dropping out of school, he mixed up with Xiao Chen, whose parents were divorced and was kicked out of the house by his adoptive mother. At the same time, this is especially prominent in families with only one child. Bad habits formed by arrogance and pampering