Quoted from The Secret of Childhood

1. We often ignore children's growing instinct. We ignore that they also have the ability to explore the world, and they have the possibility of learning. There is a number that indicates the amount of information a child has learned before the age of 3, which is an idea of Montessori education. The amount of information learned before the age of 3 is the sum of his future life, which is an incredible number.

2. A normal child has the ability to judge right and wrong, integrity, happiness and a sense of social responsibility. He can work under pressure and explore the world. He feels happy in his work and won't indulge in anything casually. This is a normal child.

A real teacher is not only a person who constantly strives to make himself better, but also a person who can eliminate his inner obstacles. There are two ways to get rid of your inner obstacles. One is to fight against these bad temper and try to overcome it. This is what Confucius said: "Self-denial is benevolence." This is the same as Montessori said, you should be able to control your bad temper. Second, we should restrain our bad temper through the correct concept of social environment.

When we educate children, we must treat them as adults. He has his personality, and we should respect his personality. We cannot deny all his feelings.

5. How can we help children build an independent and complete self-esteem system? That is, you must learn to respect him first. You let him know that his dignity is important. He is a person who can control his dignity, so the sense of dignity is also a very important thing for children.

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Children's physical health and mental health: Children's games are a good exercise in themselves. You let the children play, which is an exercise in itself.

Some children are often scolded by their parents, and they are under great pressure. He will cause a fever, and he will lead to decreased immunity. A large number of these physical diseases come from psychological destruction.

When children give up their activities and rely on adults, the final result is that children will become lazy when they grow up. Lazy because he feels irresponsible. He thinks that all this should be related to his parents, and it should be given to me by my parents, so I will be lazy. Therefore, all kinds of injuries in adulthood are caused by childhood, so attachment is also a particularly bad psychological disease.

8. He always says that you help me do this and you help me do that. Everyone should be careful about this, so that children can learn to solve some problems by themselves, instead of letting them do everything through adults.

9. Every child has his own instinct to grow up.

Secondly, children will pay special attention to the external order.

The second is free choice, giving children a lot of choices and letting them choose what they are interested in according to their own needs.

The third is that children like the sense of order very much.

The fifth is inferiority complex. Inferiority comes from severe criticism. He won't have enough confidence. He felt that he didn't have the strength to do all kinds of things because he was constantly criticized and accused since he was a child.

10. All parents have a great mission. They are the only people who can and must save their children, because they have the ability to organize in society and take action in the practice of living together.