When people reach middle age, the more "selfish" women are, the happier they live. Why?

My sister got married at the age of 35. The two sides didn't know each other for a long time, and they both got married when they thought it was appropriate. After marriage, they don't work in the same place and have less contact. I didn't live in a city until I had children. My sister has a sister above her, and then her, her husband, also has a brother and a sister, both of whom are the youngest. However, although my sister says that she works in a shopping mall, she is in contact with all kinds of people, so she is still very stable, but her husband has been working in the factory, and the living environment is relatively simple, so people are not familiar with things, and her husband always feels that he is himself. Her husband's brother is divorced, so his two nephews are brought by his parents-in-law. People in their hometown don't come to the city to look after their children, so my sister has always taken care of the children herself. No matter whether she is uncomfortable or not, her husband just doesn't care. After work, she just plays mobile phones and computers at home.

Anyway, your children don't care if they are noisy. My sister gave birth to a boy. She wants her husband to look after the children after work, that is, to play with the children for a while, whether you play with the children or you can take them out to play. He means that he is tired and lying on the sofa playing with his mobile phone. Now the children are in the middle class in kindergarten, and her wonderful husband never said that he would take the children to kindergarten when he went to work. She wants a divorce, but she is afraid of hurting her children and being afraid that she can't afford to support them.

Middle-aged people should be the most tired for women. Although they are retired, they have become the pillar of the family. They often have 8-year-old people to serve and grandchildren to take care of, and their wives often can't count on them. Alas, it's a long story! After all, the square dance aunt is a minority, and she can travel around and take pictures with various scarves. How carefree and fascinating it is!