At a wedding scene in Henan, it is a local custom to receive only a gift instead of entertaining guests, and only return a packet of melon seeds.

After understanding, I found that this is the custom of their local village.

As we all know, every village in every region has different customs, even in villages a few kilometers away, so everyone is used to it. When I didn't understand this matter, netizens felt very strange. They think they are asking for money in disguise and don't entertain guests to avoid feeling a little shabby. I also went to check some information specially. After understanding, I found that this is the custom of their village. Only the immediate family members of both parties can eat at the dining table, while others just take a bag of melon seeds and leave after the ceremony. I thought it was funny when I saw it here, but I didn't know until I got to know it. It's all mutual, and the relationship is only a few tens of dollars. In the countryside, gifts come and go, and there is no such thing as taking advantage.

Then I think this custom is quite frugal. For a normal wedding, it does save a lot and some unnecessary things. Moreover, there will be a lot of dishes left when entertaining wedding guests, so they also save a lot of food through this measure. There will be no waste, no extravagance and waste. As long as the whole village does this, there will be no saying that whoever suffers will be embarrassed. In particular, some people want the best for the sake of face, and they will be in debt the next day. The wedding is really glamorous, but who knows what's behind it?

It's not just their local customs. In fact, the customs in many places are so wonderful that people can't accept them for a while. Before we know it, we think it is wonderful, so when we encounter some wonderful things, we should first understand the reasons and avoid some misunderstandings. As the news said, not all Henan people only accept gifts and don't treat guests, only their village, and other places still treat guests normally.

In short, I am also here to wish them a happy wedding and an early birth.