The importance of interpersonal relationship in dormitory to people

The interpersonal relationship in the dormitory is very important. If it is handled well, it will help students in their study and life. What is the importance of interpersonal relationship in the dormitory? The following are some important contents of interpersonal relationship in dormitory that I collected and sorted out, hoping to help you.

The importance of interpersonal relationship in dormitory

Dormitory is the second classroom for college students to grow up, and interpersonal relationship in dormitory reflects the quality and ability of contemporary college students. Good interpersonal relationship in dormitory is closely related to the healthy and harmonious development of students, dormitory and campus. For students themselves, good dormitory interpersonal relationship can enhance the cohesion and identity of dormitory, promote the friendship of roommates, reduce interpersonal pressure, promote physical and mental pleasure, improve the adaptability of life and study, and improve the efficiency of study and life. For the whole dormitory, it can reduce the contradictions among dormitory members, improve the dormitory's ability to deal with problems and create a harmonious dormitory environment. For the whole school, good dormitory interpersonal relationship is the most important part of building a harmonious campus, and it is also the cornerstone of building a safe and civilized campus, which promotes the smooth development of school teaching management activities.

the interpersonal relationship in the dormitory

Question 1: the focus person

? Love darling? Teacher's pet? Learning darling? It is often the focus of students, but it is also often the envy of classmates. If such students behave improperly in words and deeds, it will often lead to conflicts among classmates and even tragedy.

question 2: the difference between the rich and the poor

college students come from different regions, and regional differences may bring about the gap between the rich and the poor. Economic inequality? The resulting contradictions are also common among college students. The inferiority complex of poor students caused by the gap between the rich and the poor is also a high-incidence psychological problem on the university campus. If these relationships are not handled well, the psychological harm to college students will often affect their development.

Question 3: No hygiene

People often throw things in the dormitory, never fold the quilt, the bed is dirty and messy, they don't wash their socks after wearing them, they don't wash their socks after playing football, they often forget to flush when going to the toilet, and they never clean the dormitory. Instead, they are garbage makers? These bad habits often make roommates unbearable, especially some students who love cleanliness, once they realize that they have become dorms? Cleaner? My heart is bound to be unhappy. In the long run, conflicts will occur.

question 4: lodging the opposite sex

although lodging the opposite sex in the dormitory has always been strictly prohibited in colleges and universities, there are still many students who bring their boyfriends and girlfriends to the dormitory for lodging, especially in this era of pursuing openness of personality. The sexual behavior of college students seems to be a banner flaunting freedom and sexual liberation, which is not uncommon in the original pure ivory tower. But this kind of behavior for other roommates in the dormitory, especially others? Bachelor? It is really a shock, which neither respects roommates nor affects their rest. How can it be tolerated?

Question 5: Overintimacy

No matter whether roommates are willing or not at that time, they should drag their roommates to exercise, go to school, eat, watch movies, etc. Too intimate communication makes roommates lose the time and space to communicate with others, and narrow interpersonal communication makes roommates feel empty. Friendly? Worried. ? Dependent? Friends are not uncommon among college girls, and the behavior of taking up other people's time too much is psychologically called? Adult attachment? . Another form of over-intimacy is to use other people's things regardless of each other, but everything is there? Degree? , too close? Informal? Good things will be transformed. For example, it is a good brother's thing anyway. What is a pack of cakes? Eat them first. If you don't want to buy food and fetch water in rainy days, please ask your roommates to do it for you. Once or twice, in the long run, if the mechanism of help is not rotated, no matter how hard the brothers and sisters are, they will also have resentment. Especially because things happen between friends, most students will choose to keep a low profile, but if the gloom in their hearts is not eliminated for a long time, silence will always break out one day.

Question 6: Night owls

It is a common phenomenon that modern college students have computers in their dorms, and the benefits that computers bring to their studies are very obvious. However, if they play games or voice chat at night and refuse to turn off their phones at one or two o'clock at night, they will make their dorms restless and often wake everyone up from their sleep, which will make the relationship between classmates tense. Reading, chatting, and playing games by lighting candles at night should not be forced by ignoring the rights of others, but should abide by the rules and regulations of the dormitory.

question 7: hegemonism

? My point of view is absolutely correct? ，? What I hate most is that every time there is an argument, no matter what the topic is, he always refutes me completely before giving up. Some people always like to argue with others to show that they are unconventional, that they are right about everything, whether it is right or wrong, and that they force others to accept their views. This kind of behavior is easy to arouse the resistance of others. In the same dormitory, it is not necessarily that anyone's point of view is much better than others. So, if you find yourself? Dormitory debate? Always the winner, be careful that the seeds of discord in the dormitory may have been spread in the small circle 2.

Ways to build harmonious dormitory interpersonal relationship

1. Establish a healthy and optimistic attitude towards life

In the communication between dormitory members, those students who are honest, kind, helpful, respectful, open-minded, optimistic and enterprising, have good living habits and personal hygiene are often more likely to win the favor of others and have good dormitory interpersonal relationships. Those who are hypocritical, selfish, conceited, narrow-minded, pessimistic and decadent are easily disliked, resulting in tense interpersonal relationships in the dormitory. Healthy and harmonious interpersonal relationship in the dormitory requires the dormitory members to overcome the shortcomings that are not conducive to interpersonal communication, such as narrowness, hypocrisy, selfishness and inferiority, and establish a healthy and optimistic attitude towards life. When college students first set foot on the university campus, the class teacher should guide students to concentrate on their studies, hold class meetings to give lectures, hold reading meetings, hold photo exhibitions, and watch educational movies, so as to actively educate and guide students to learn to adjust their emotions, overcome their own personality defects, and then establish a healthy, cheerful, optimistic and confident attitude towards university life. At the same time, in the usual study and life, the class teacher should also focus on observing the problem students. For rural students with poor family, introversion and inferiority, students with mental illness, grumpy personality, narrow-minded and paranoid, and students who are selfish and arrogant, the class teacher should visit the students' dormitory more often, communicate with them, understand their specific situation, and then take effective measures to help students get rid of the troubles of bad personality factors and psychological factors.

Second, carry out good habits training

To establish harmonious dormitory interpersonal relationship, students also need to develop good habits of interacting with others in specific life. For example, unscientific work and rest schedule, staying up late and getting up late, affecting others' rest, making their own decisions in dormitory collective activities, not being tactful in words, being fond of criticizing others at will, losing their temper, not considering others' feelings, rejecting and running a classmate in the dormitory, and so on. These bad living habits easily lead to the estrangement between students in the dormitory. In the specific dormitory life, schools should provide more opportunities to train students in good living habits, and make strict requirements on dormitory hygiene, schedule, caring for others and uniting classmates. For example, the class teacher can concentrate on a period of time to go deep into the students' dormitory, lead the student cadres, and urge the students to live in strict accordance with the scientific schedule. One-day living system? . Students who ignore other people's feelings, surf the Internet, listen to music, sing songs and make phone calls late at night, which seriously interferes with other students' rest, should be criticized and educated. For students who don't listen to the teachings and repeatedly interfere with others, informed criticism can be conducted throughout the school. Students who abide by the life schedule system, have strong collective consciousness and care about others should be informed and commended.

In addition, teachers can guide students to develop good living habits and establish good dormitory interpersonal relationships in class. For example, by assigning homework, let students discover and write down ten advantages of each roommate within one week, or one thing that most touches you. After that, the teacher can screen the homework handed in by the students and model the educational content in class. Of course, students can also be organized to play some small games in the dormitory in class, so that students can succeed through the concerted efforts of dormitory members, and the games can be used as an opportunity to instill in students the virtues of honesty, kindness, unity, love and willingness to praise others. Or take the ancients and great men as examples to teach students the skills of dealing with interpersonal relationships reasonably by telling stories. Students often have a deep and unforgettable memory of these episodes conducted by teachers in class. It can be said that this kind of training for students' good habits and good morality is more practical than preaching and reading.

Third, create a civilized dormitory atmosphere

Close to Zhu Zhechi, those close to Mexico are black. A good living environment is an important driving force to promote the healthy growth and success of college students. Civilized dormitory atmosphere and healthy and harmonious dormitory interpersonal relationship can infect and edify college students and promote them to consciously improve their comprehensive quality. Therefore, the school should actively create a civilized dormitory atmosphere for students, so that students can consciously regulate their own behavior invisibly, be a civilized, polite, healthy, cheerful and caring college student, and then promote the establishment of harmonious dormitory interpersonal relationships. To create a warm and harmonious dormitory atmosphere, we must play the role of public opinion propaganda. Schools can post beautiful, eye-catching and vigilant slogans in areas where college students often move, such as canteens, dormitories, boiling water rooms, and student activity centers. For example? I do it for everyone, and everyone does it for me? 、? Be a civilized college student? 、? We're all family? 、? Keep smiling? 、? Be polite and civilized? , and so on, advocate college students to respect and care for others, learn to be tolerant and praise others. At the same time, famous sayings related to dealing with interpersonal relationships can also be bound and published in the dormitory corridor to encourage students to adjust their emotions, adjust their mentality and cherish friendship at any time. Such as? Praise is the sunshine that shines on people's hearts. ? Shakespeare? ，? If friends make good friends, they must be humble and considerate to each other if their friendship is to last. ? Chaucer? ，? Friendship is the tacit understanding of spirit, the communion of hearts and the combination of virtues. ? Willian Penn? , and so on, these are all good epigrams that inspire and inspire.

At the same time, schools can also make use of weekends to carry out publicity activities on campus, and through knowledge contests and exhibitions of pictures and articles, let college students know the importance of harmonious dormitory interpersonal relationship to personal development and the skills of handling dormitory interpersonal relationship reasonably. Of course, schools can also hold dormitory art competitions, specialty competitions, and civilized dormitory selection on a regular basis. I add luster to the dormitory? And other activities. Through carrying out activities, students' sense of honor and cohesion in the dormitory will be enhanced and the dormitory unity will be promoted. The dormitory with unity, mutual help and good performance can be reported in campus newspapers, community magazines and other school publications, or posters can be posted for commendation, so as to encourage students to make persistent efforts, love the dormitory and care about the dormitory members. In addition, the school can also strengthen publicity, and regularly hold cultural evenings with the theme of promoting the friendly coexistence of dormitory members, so that students can write, direct and perform programs, so that students can be infected and inspired during watching and performing.