I've been holding my daughter-in-law's hand in private, but I can't stop boasting. Why is Chen Songling's mother-in-law different from the program?

Watching the variety show "Mother-in-law and Daughter-in-law" is mainly out of curiosity about how Patty Hou will whitewash his mother. After watching it, I was caught by Chen Songling and Zhang Duo. Killing without complaining

For Chen Songling, the post-8s generation is no stranger. When she was young, she was a goddess. Because of her weight gain in recent years, there is no trace of the past from her.

Chen Songling belongs to a very reasonable person at first glance. When I first saw it, I scolded my husband for her mother-in-law's behavior, but she did too much, so I can only say that she had no complaints when she was killed. My husband often makes me angry in this way. We have conflicts. When he bothers me and doesn't want to talk to me, I post it, one baby at a time. My husband usually gritted his teeth and kept silent, keeping his eyes open and pushing me away with one hand. If there are passers-by around me, I guess I will stare at my husband and scold him love rat. By the way, I am saddened to advise my girl that there are so many men in the world, so don't spoil yourself.

Chen Songling's mother-in-law obviously doesn't like this daughter-in-law, and the old woman is not a celebrity. When she is one year old, she doesn't bother to pretend, so she makes do with being on TV. It turns out that the direct conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law depends on netizens like Sherlock Holmes to find the answer. I didn't expect Chen Songling to throw it directly on the desktop, and the way she put it on the desktop was to take the lead in pushing her mother-in-law to the position of villain. So we saw Chen Songling's various solicitude and her mother-in-law's various indifference.

My in-laws are my husband's mother, so I don't need to invite them three times a day and see them several times a year, as in feudal society. As for this, I don't like it, but I always keep a sense of contract. As long as my husband and I haven't broken the pot, it proves that I have nostalgia for him, so I have to keep a little patience and love for my in-laws.

In-laws regret that they can't have children, just as we can't understand why our parents keep a pile of colorful plastic bags to buy food as garbage bags forever. Parents will always be parents, which is why we need a good friend and classmate. If they don't understand, you can get understanding from people around you, but don't force the elderly to understand your behavior as well. It's a heinous crime not to understand you. Solitude

Perhaps, like many families, before the son is married, the husband will listen to him, and the son will listen to him. When the son is married, he will regard this as an inertia and want to stay alone at home. At that time, Chen Songling and Zhang Duo warmly invited their mother-in-law to visit their home, but her mother-in-law said, "Our home is not yours". Later, Chen Songling used the word "loose" to tell her mother-in-law where her boundary was. Being a mother-in-law, she didn't listen to her daughter-in-law at all, but quickly broke into her territory.

Chen Songling's mother-in-law, like the mother-in-law in the TV series, put up the slogan "Good mother-in-law", which crossed the boundary between mother-in-law and son's daughter-in-law. Perhaps, Chen Songling's mother-in-law found that she had gone too far when doing these things, but she quickly comforted herself with "It's my son anyway" and let herself get rid of her guilt quickly. Never take up other people's private space because of taking care of children or in the name of love. This cannot be an excuse for your emotional kidnapping.

Zhang Duo may be a good husband, but being a son is not good enough. As for Chen Songling's mother-in-law's temperament, she said that she knew that the weather was cold and her mother wanted to make up for the regret at that time. Zhang Duo not only didn't understand her mother, but also directly opened her mouth, but she relied on her mother's infinite package for herself. Emotional intelligence

Zhang Duo came to the meeting place in Chen Songling, and did not tell Chen Songling at the first time, but simply forgot his own investment. As long as you really care about your mother, you will go to school to take photos together, and then take them to Chen Songling. If your mother doesn't want to, at least she has fulfilled her son's responsibility, and she has a clear conscience. Go with her mother.

When she learned the news, Chen Songling had been thinking about how her mother-in-law would treat herself, but Zhang Duo didn't do anything for herself, just casually said that her mother was too old and had an injury "kneel down and apologize".

I have to say that this trick of retreating for progress has been done beautifully, and it has successfully pushed my mother and my mother-in-law to the top of the storm. But as long as the editing of Mango Taiwan is unfriendly, the spittle of netizens will directly drown the old man.

I really didn't know until I watched the program that Chen Songling's mother-in-law has always been the one who put up with it. Seeing Chen Songling kneeling down to apologize, she didn't blame her son and daughter-in-law for their kindness for the first time, but immediately took Chen Songling's hand and worried that she would get hurt. As long as she is a daughter-in-law with a higher emotional intelligence, she will follow the old people and make them happy, instead of deliberately angering them. From this perspective, Chen Songling is not always the weak side.

I feel sorry for this difficult old man here. In order to take care of Zhang Duo's studies and not affect the children's mood, he didn't say a word. After all his painstaking efforts, he finally failed to get the children's understanding and compassion, even the kindness of the old man, let alone his attitude towards his mother. Poor inherit the wind.