Ten Articles of Civilized Etiquette

Ten Conventions on Civilized Etiquette

Ten Conventions on Civilized Etiquette. A person’s etiquette and cultivation are directly proportional. Etiquette is an important code of conduct in interpersonal communication. Etiquette is a person’s thoughts. Regarding the external manifestations of moral standards, cultural accomplishment, and communicative abilities, learn about the ten conventions of civilized etiquette below. Ten Conventions on Civilized Etiquette 1

1. Those with great virtues will be honored, while those with weak virtues will be humbled.

2. I must not forget the virtues of others to me; I must not forget the virtues of others to me.

3. Those who have great virtues and respect them will be honored.

4. Virtue must be repaid, but resentment must not be vengeful.

5. Those who guard are moral, those who act are loyal, and those who cherish honor are honorable.

6. Be polite, don’t talk nonsense about others, and don’t waste money.

7. Do not do evil because it is small, and do not do good because it is small.

8. If you are doing good, be prepared; if you are doing evil, be prepared.

9. Those who love others will always be loved by others; those who respect others will always be respected by others.

10. A benevolent person loves others and is benevolent to himself. Only the benevolent can do good to others and do evil to others. To restrain oneself and return to propriety is benevolence. For one day to restrain oneself and return to propriety, the world will return to benevolence. Ten Conventions on Civilized Etiquette 2

Civilized Etiquette 1

1. When asking someone for help, it is very thoughtless not to tell the other person the nature of the matter and just ask if you have time. If the other party says he doesn’t have time, I’m afraid it’s a good thing and he won’t be able to change his mind soon. If the other party says he has time, how can he refuse if it’s a difficult matter?

2. Don’t play with your phone in front of others. When your phone rings, say sorry and ask for permission before checking again. (Mobile phones are social killers)

3. Don’t talk about the conversation you heard on one occasion in another occasion, and don’t show that you know it.

4. When asking for help from others, you should not only say thank you, but also know how to do it. Every time you ask someone for a favor, you owe someone a favor. Even if it is just a simple effort for others, you cannot show that you think it is a "little effort". Others may just be humble when they say this, but you are arrogant and stupid when you say so.

5. Dress neatly when entertaining guests at home. Many people take it for granted that it is casual in their own homes, but little do they know that your home has also become a social occasion.

6. When a lady is present, help her arrange her seat first, and then sit down yourself. If a lady leaves the table or joins the table in the middle, she should stand up. When sitting down, give your seat to others.

7. When someone you know joins a social occasion, be sure to introduce the people around you to them. During the introduction, the person with lower status should be introduced to the person with higher status, and the male should be introduced to the female. When you meet or call someone you don’t know well, be sure to introduce yourself. When introducing yourself in social situations, please say "My name is XX" instead of "I am XX".

8. Do not praise the leader in person, as this may sound like flattery.

9. Don’t make fun of other people’s weaknesses. Even if you make fun of others’ weaknesses, it is inappropriate.

10. Do not make remarks that speculate on motives or make value judgments. Unless they are truly cultivated, few people can do this.

Civilized Etiquette 2

The Civilized Era is a period when learning to further process natural products is a period when real industry and art are produced. ----Engels

Morality serves to raise human society to a higher level and to get rid of the system of labor exploitation. ------Lenin

Caring for public property is a characteristic of communism. ------Kalinin

Etiquette

1. Meeting Etiquette When students see teachers or classmates, they should smile, say a few words, or say hello, etc. Through meeting etiquette, the friendship between teachers and students and the friendship between classmates are conveyed. This is also the first step to establish a good relationship with teachers and classmates.

2. Visiting Etiquette Take visiting a teacher as an example. Students should pay attention to etiquette when visiting their teachers. 1. Choose the right time and make an appointment; 2. Be punctual; 3. Enter the office or dormitory only after getting permission; 4. Dress neatly and use reasonable language; 5. Behave steadily; 6. Be considerate of the teacher.

3. Conversation etiquette The first is the conversation with the teacher. Students report the situation to the teacher or talk to the teacher. In addition to speaking with their mouths, they must also make good use of their eyes to convey their thoughts and feelings. During the conversation, it is the minimum etiquette requirement to look at the teacher with your eyes. The gaze changes with the development of the conversation, which is an extension of conversation etiquette. When talking, be careful to stay humble and think before you speak. When listening to the teacher's talk, be sure to listen carefully and don't look around carelessly. Of course, when talking to classmates, you should also respect each other and wait for others to finish speaking before speaking.

4. Rejection etiquette Students should try their best to fulfill the requirements put forward by teachers or classmates. When they really cannot do it, they must have the courage to say "no" in a timely manner. They cannot make all promises and "break their promises." So how should students say no?

5. Telephone Etiquette Students should pay attention to the following points when using the phone:

6. Clothing Etiquette Middle school students' clothing should conform to the student's identity and should be dressed appropriately. Do not wear fancy clothes or clothes that are too revealing or too short, which will create a sense of distance; do not wear slippers in public places; do not apply lipstick, draw eyebrows, dye nails, dye hair, or leave long hair.

7. Letter etiquette mainly means that students should write letters when they cannot meet with the teacher directly, especially when the teacher is absent and want to inform the teacher of the situation; writing should be conventional and not messy. Write graffiti; the situation reflected must be true and not fraudulent.

"Cheng Men Li Xue"

Er Cheng was a native of Yichuan, Luoyang, and both were famous Confucianists in the Song Dynasty. The Ercheng theory was later inherited and developed by Zhu Xi, and was known as the "Cheng-Zhu School" in the world. Yang Shi and You Zuo studied with Er Cheng and were very respectful. Yang You and Yang You originally had Cheng Hao as their teacher. After Cheng Hao passed away, they were all forty years old and had passed the Jinshi examination. However, they still had to go to Cheng Yi to continue their studies. The story happened on the day when they first arrived at Songyang Academy and paid homage to Cheng Yi.

According to legend, one day Yang Shi and You Zuo came to Songyang Academy to pay homage to Cheng Yi. They met the old gentleman with his eyes closed, sitting up and pretending to sleep. Cheng Yi knew clearly that two guests were coming, but he refused to say anything and ignored them. Yang and You were afraid of disturbing their husband's rest, so they had no choice but to stand respectfully and wait silently for him to open his eyes. After waiting like this for a long time, Cheng Yi finally woke up. When he saw Yang and You, he pretended to be surprised and said: "Ah! Ah! The sages have been here long ago!" This means that you two are still here and haven't left. It was a very cold day in winter. I don’t know when it started to snow. There was snow outside the door, more than a foot deep.

This story is called "Cheng Men Li Xue". It was widely spread among scholars in the Song Dynasty. Later, it was used to describe respecting teachers and asking for advice sincerely. People often quoted this allusion and idiom

Kong Rong let the pear

Kong Rong was smart and eager to learn when he was a child. With his quick thinking and clever answers, everyone praised him as a strange boy. At the age of 4, he could recite many poems and understand etiquette. His parents loved him very much.

One day, his father bought some pears and specially picked the biggest one for Kong Rong.

Kong Rong shook his head, but picked the smallest pear and said: " I'm the youngest, so I should eat the smaller pears. Give your pear to your brother." His father was very surprised and asked, "Is your brother younger than you?" Kong Rong said, "My brother is younger than me, so I should too." Give it to him. The story of Kong Rong giving pears quickly spread throughout Qufu and has been passed down ever since, becoming a good example for many parents to educate their children.

Once, Lenin went downstairs and found himself on the narrow stairs. In the aisle, I met a female worker carrying a basin of water upstairs. When the female worker saw that it was Lenin, she stepped back to make way.

Lenin stopped her and said, "It doesn't have to be like this. You have already walked halfway with your things, and I am empty-handed now. Please go over first!" He said the word "please" very loudly and kindly. Then he leaned against the wall and asked the female worker to go upstairs before he went downstairs. This is the embodiment of good civilized etiquette. Ten Conventions on Civilized Etiquette 3

Common sense of civilized etiquette and personal etiquette for middle school students

(1) Appearance

Appearance refers to a person’s appearance and the appearance of a person’s spiritual outlook reflect. Cleanliness and hygiene are the key to grooming and a basic requirement of etiquette. No matter how good you look or how luxurious your clothes are, if your face is full of dirt and your body smells bad, it will definitely destroy a person's sense of beauty.

Therefore, everyone should develop good hygiene habits, wash their face and feet before going to bed, brush their teeth in the morning and evening, and after meals, wash their hair and bathe frequently, and pay attention to grooming and changing clothes frequently. Don't "clean up" in front of others.

For example, picking teeth, picking noses, picking ear wax, manicuring nails, rubbing dirt, etc. These behaviors should be done away from others, otherwise, it is not only unsightly, but also disrespectful to others. Keep a certain distance when talking to others, don't speak too loudly, and don't spit at people's mouth.

(2) Conversation

Conversation, as an art, is also an important part of personal etiquette.

1. Politeness: The attitude should be sincere and cordial; the volume of the voice should be appropriate, and the tone should be calm and steady; respect others.

2. Terms: honorifics, words that express respect and politeness. Such as "please", "thank you", "sorry" in daily use, the word "you" in the second person, etc. The first time we met was "Jiuyang".

Long time no see means "Long time no see"; asking for criticism is called "advice"; asking someone to trouble others is called "bother"; asking someone to do something is called "please", etc. We must work hard to develop the habit of using honorifics. Now .

The ten words of politeness advocated in our country are: "Hello", "Please", "Thank you", "Sorry" and "Goodbye". These ten words embody the basic principles of civilized speech. Language form.

(3) Manners and manners

1. Conversation posture: Conversation posture often reflects a person's character, cultivation and civilized qualities. Therefore, when talking, both parties should first look at each other and listen to each other. They should not look around, read books or newspapers, look tired, or yawn continuously. Otherwise, they will give the impression of being absent-minded, arrogant and unreasonable.

2. Standing posture: Standing is the most basic human posture, and it is a kind of static beauty. When standing, the body should be perpendicular to the ground, with the center of gravity on the two front feet, chest up, abdomen drawn in, head raised, and shoulders relaxed. .

Keep your arms hanging naturally or cross in front of your body, keep your eyes straight, and smile. Do not bend your neck, slant your waist, or bend your legs when standing. It is not appropriate to put your hands in your trouser pockets in some formal occasions. Or cross it on the chest, not to mention making small movements subconsciously, which not only looks restrained and gives people a sense of lack of confidence, but also loses the dignity of etiquette.

3. Sitting posture: Sitting is also a kind of static state. Shape. Sitting dignified and graceful will give people an elegant, steady, natural and generous appearance. The correct sitting posture should be: the back is straight and the shoulders are relaxed.

Men's knees can be kept together. Keep your hands apart, but not too wide, generally no more than shoulder width apart. In formal occasions, sit gently and gently, and stand upright and calmly.

Sitting up suddenly makes the tables and chairs rattle and creates an awkward atmosphere. No matter what kind of sitting position, the upper body must be kept upright. As the ancients said, "sitting like a bell", then no matter how you change your body posture, All will be beautiful and natural.

4. Walking is the main action in human life, and walking is a kind of dynamic beauty. "Walking like wind" is used to describe the brisk and natural steps. The correct walking posture is: light and steady, keep your chest high, lift your head, relax your shoulders, look straight, smile, and swing your arms naturally.