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Writer, talk show host, emotional expert, expert in the field of personal cultivation. She has studied emotions for ten years and helped tens of thousands of people find true love and get out of psychological misunderstanding. She is called "the most talkative woman in the world".

Born in 1982, Han nationality. Writer. Host. He once hosted Love Actually of Hunan Satellite TV, Hunan Metropolitan Channel and Night Talk Show of Golden Eagle 955 Radio, and is now an emotional guest of Guizhou Satellite TV's Life.

Chronology:

17 years old: worked in the court for several months after graduating from college. Because of the debut novel "Scream for Life" (novella), I entered the cultural circle by mistake.

18 years old: being an editor, opening a column and writing crazily.

19 years old: finished the master's degree. Invited by a magazine in Hunan, he became the editorial director of the agency.

20 years old: published a collection of novels "Escape from Love".

22 years old: quit, write freely, start traveling and enjoy life. Publish the novel Never Abortion.

23-year-old: settled in Hangzhou and published the novel "Two-body".

25-year-old: Best-selling female writer of the year, publishing the novel Ersanmao-Sanmao Biography/Women's Book.

Appendix 2: Literary Works:

In 2002, he published Escape from Love.

In 2004, Never Abortion was published.

In 2005, Two-body was published.

Published in 2007:

Ersanmao-Biography of Sanmao &; Tang Xin Mina's Women's Books

Attachment 3: TV Work Experience

In 2009, the book Finding Mina: Finding Love was published.

In 2004, she hosted Changsha Women's Channel "Women Whispers".

In 2006, he hosted Golden Eagle 955 Radio Station and Hunan Metropolitan Channel Radio and Television Station to broadcast the night talk show "Midnight Station" simultaneously.

In 2007, Hunan Satellite TV hosted the guest of True Love.

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Looking for Mina's book department

Have something on your mind, find Mina!

In this book series, writer and emotional expert Xin Tangmina analyzes the common difficulties and puzzles in gender emotion and personal cultivation one by one with rich cases. Love and being loved are no longer a problem here, and happiness and luck are no longer out of reach. This set of books is easy to read, reading other people's stories and solving their own life difficulties; Look at other people's puzzles, know yourself and find yourself.

look for love

Does she love me or my money?

How long is love suitable for sex?

Does he really love me?

Am I his transition lover or his favorite?

……

No matter how many questions there are on the emotional road, you can find the answers in this book. This book tells stories, uncovers emotional puzzles one by one, makes lovers know how to love each other better, and helps singles find true love.

Looking for the soul

"In a bustling city, in a hurry, you only need to look at him for ten seconds, and you will find that his eyes are empty."

This book faces the psychological state of inferiority, introversion, depression, loss, sadness and loneliness, and finds a home and a solution for the lost soul.

This is a book that reading before going to bed can make you look forward to the next day; It is also a book that can make you feel comfortable when you are alone; Or a self-help manual to help you diagnose and treat "urban syndrome", your self-confidence book.

Find a way

Some people forget the way out because they are constantly on the road;

Some people mistakenly stepped on the most tortuous and muddy road because of blind running;

Some people don't know which way to go because they have too many choices;

……

In the maze of life, you need not only courage, wisdom and experience, but also this "Mina's road map".

Questions and answers about me

(1) About the past

1. Since when do you like writing? Is it a diary when I was a child or a literature class in middle school?

Mina: I should have kept a diary when I was two or three years old. My grandmother forced me to. The first diary was a one-sentence diary, the content of which was nothing more than a diary of "I was very happy today" and "I recited a poem today", and gradually changed from one sentence to two or three sentences. Grandpa will mark every diary, such as "Nana's diary today has no typos, please ask Grandma to cook a delicious meal". I didn't like writing at that time, but when I was praised and rewarded with food, writing was not a hard job.

I have enjoyed writing since junior high school. Reading novels at that time was always confiscated by parents and teachers. When I was in the first grade, I wrote a martial arts novel in my exercise book, wrote a chapter for my good classmates, and continued to write at their urging. In the years from grade one to grade one, I wrote nearly twenty novels-either martial arts or romance. It is said that my father left these novels to me. When I write them, I just want to make my good friend happy and become a writer. It seems so far away that I dare not even think about it.

2. How did your parents support you when you started to like writing?

Mina: I always thought that my parents didn't know I was writing a book secretly until I graduated from college. My father gave me a computer and a printer, and told me, "You can print out your original novel now, which will make it easier to read." I used that computer to write my first novel "Screaming Life" and a novella (included in the collection "Escape from Love"). At first, it was just for friends and relatives to watch and play. Later, it was sent to her classmates in the newspaper by a cousin, and later transferred to Zhengzhou Times Youth Magazine. When the editor at that time called me to tell me that the article was going to be serialized and asked me if I was interested in becoming an editor, I was shocked-writing and editing could have been so simple. At that time, I had just entered the court. My parents took out my suitcase for school and said to me, "If you want to be an editor, pack your bags, but don't regret losing your job in the court." If they had said "no", I think I would have stayed in court. Maybe I can write, but that's another life.

3. When people know words and sound waves, Mina, who has a sharp mind, is not much older than herself, even younger than herself: such a mature woman will surprise them. So what was Mina like as a child? Is it different from other children? Still precocious? Is it the king of children?

Mina: Many people don't understand: "Why do you pretend to be old when other women are in act young?" As long as the shape matches the brain, age is only the change of the number of candles on the birthday cake.

I have been the youngest in my class since primary school. In order not to be bullied, in order to communicate better, I have been trying to make myself sensible, at least sensible. In the summer vacation after I graduated from primary school, I began to watch some Chinese and foreign blockbusters such as A Dream of Red Mansions, Jenny Girl and Gone with the Wind. I stole anything from my father's bookcase. Even Heidi's sexology report was written in junior high school. I first matured because of reading. For example, in martial arts novels, I memorized the secrets and mind decisions first, and I didn't start to combine mind decisions with practice until I was nineteen years old. It turned out that a reporter who interviewed me used a title that was quite in line with my status-mature first and then grow up slowly.

Many older people call me "Sister Mina". Colleagues will snicker, but I feel very calm. This title has nothing to do with age, but it contains trust, intimacy and warmth.

4. What did you like best and least when you were a child?

Mina: I like new clothes, have enough pocket money, read books and eat snacks. I hate being forced by my mother to wear clothes she doesn't wear. I don't like sports and I don't like seeing a doctor.

Do you remember your favorite game when you were a child? Do you remember your best playmate as a child? do you have some contacts?

Mina: My favorite game is to make makeup and clothes for dolls, so I cut mosquito nets and mom's skirts at home. An old friend of mine, since high school. We talk about everything. Even lived together for several years. Before high school, I had two good playmates, but my life trajectory was different. I haven't been in touch for many years, but I still feel soft-hearted when I think of them.

6. What was your childhood dream? Did it come true? What is the dream now?

Mina: I want to be a host, a judge and a writer. Basically, all this has come true. My career dream now has nothing. I have no ambition. I just want to play my role and do my job well.

(2) About the present

Life articles

1. Before you came to Hunan, some people called you a beauty writer. Do you prefer the names of beautiful writers or contemporary talented women?

Mina: I don't deserve either title. I am not beautiful, and my talent is not amazing. Man's posture is man's wisdom. I don't like those attributive names. If you are called beauty, you can't be ugly. If you are called a talented woman, you won't be stupid. This life is too limited. Don't set limits for yourself and don't accept other people's conclusions, so that you can live more freely.

2. What is the concept of beauty in your mind? I heard that the reason why you always pay so much attention to beauty is influenced by your mother. Every girl is like her mother's Barbie doll. When she was a child, she was always dressed up by her mother. However, mothers always help their daughters dress up according to their own preferences. Whether their daughter likes it or not, have you ever been in such a situation? Resist the clothes your mother chose for you, or compromise?

Myna: There are many kinds of beauty. It's hard to define it in simple words.

I pay attention to my personal image, which was cultivated by my mother. Even if I haven't seen her for a year now, the first thing she will do when she sees me is to check my whole body, clothes, perfume, makeup and jewelry. When I was a child, if I was untidy, my mother would tell me to back off and stay three steps away from her. Don't call me "mom" in front of people. When I was young, I was more obedient because of her beauty. I thought she could make me as beautiful as her, but in fact, we can never be exactly like another person, even our own mother. Now I know myself better and I'm not easily influenced by other people's opinions.

People who like exquisite life and words are narcissistic. Is Mina a narcissistic woman? But narcissism can also be divided into primary narcissism, advanced narcissism and super narcissism. What level are you in?

Mina: It will be a little narcissistic. Should be considered low-level? I won't look at myself in the mirror for a long time, but I will look at the articles I have written for a long time. I don't look at myself on the TV screen either, but I take a bunch of photos with my mobile phone when I feel good.

Are you satisfied with your present life? What is your ideal life like?

Mina: I'm satisfied. In fact, as long as you know what you want and what you can have, the ideal life is just around the corner. I hope that the older I get, the more passionate I am, the more optimistic I am, and I am good at finding fun in a plain life. I often joke with my family that my dream is to sit on the beach in a bikini at the age of 50 and watch beautiful women.

5. What do you like to do after work? Do you want to go somewhere to taste delicious food, or do you want to travel alone with a box?

Mina: Stay at home. Have some wine. Have some tea. Read a book. Listen to music. Travel will also be possible, but more is to fly thousands of miles to a strange city, find a comfortable hotel to sleep, and then fly back.

Working article

1, you like words, and you have given up a lot for him, so what do you think of the relationship between writing and life?

Mina: I didn't give up many things because of words. If I have given up anything, it is only because they are not important to me. At first, I wrote to express my views, hoping to express them safely and secretly. Once, writing was a means of making a living. Words were exchanged for manuscript fees, manuscript fees for days, days for feelings, and feelings for words. This is a very relaxed and interesting cycle. Nowadays, writing is no longer just to express or make a living, but more to think and organize.

In the past, writing was like lovers in love. If you don't write for a day, you will feel sad, such as losing communication with your partner and losing your sense of security. Now, writing is more like an old friend I can't contact him for half a year, but I know where he is. As long as I am eager to communicate, he will give me a response.

2. When a work is finished, who is usually the first person to appreciate it? Who was the first person to comment on this work? Are there any "Royal" judges?

Mina: Girlfriend L-the girlfriend I mentioned earlier from high school to now. The first reader of all my articles should be her, and she has given me a lot of support. Once, when she is not convenient to surf the Internet, I will make a long-distance call, read the finished novel to her and listen to her feelings. What she told me was more about her thoughts than her comments on the text itself, which is particularly good-I don't accept other people's comments. I feel embarrassed when I hear praise, but I don't like to listen to opposing opinions-I am an introspective person. Whether I am a person or a writer, I often reflect that I care too much about other people's opinions and I will be entangled.

3. Are you still writing a novel? What style is it? Is it different from the previous one?

Mina: I haven't written much for a while. Some lack the desire to express.

4. After dealing with words for many years, you have a different job in Changsha-hosting the talk show "Midnight Radio" on Golden Eagle 955 Voice Radio. In the past, talk show hosts were affectionately called "comfort angels", but your hosting style obviously broke through the tradition. What makes you want to host this program?

Mina: I have been approached for this project many times, but I refused it for various reasons. I always felt embarrassed to refuse, so I recommended a few friends to do it. Like Murong Xuecun. Last time I called, I didn't have a friend who was suitable for this program, so I had to send it myself-in fact, sitting on the plane, I was wondering why I agreed this time. In fact, up to now, there is no convincing answer-many times, our decision to do or not to do something is not purely rational, just like I refused to be interviewed this year, but mistakenly agreed to your interview. However, it doesn't matter why you make the decision. What matters is your life after you make a decision.

Although you talk sharply to the audience most of the time, and some words are even "vicious", it doesn't affect the listening rate at all. On the contrary, more and more people call you to chat. How to treat this phenomenon? Is it because people need sharp and direct reminders more, or because some people owe scolding and people around them dare not scold, so they come to you?

Mina: Everyone calls me "Sister Mina", which is not a name for a vicious woman. People who often listen to the program know that I don't swear and have a good mind, but I don't swallow cards. I like to tell you the truth, and I may even bless him or her more than my relatives and friends around me. Sometimes I will be rude to the parties, because I adhere to the principle of "whoever rescues will correct the mistakes first and then correct them first". I can't arbitrarily think that he (she) has been told by one side, nor can I evaluate the one who is not present. If the party concerned has obvious mistakes, I hope he or she will correct them first. So it may give people the illusion that I am particularly sharp about my client. Phone calls or text messages are all about reaching out for help. I'd rather pull them out than shake hands to comfort them.

6. Your hosting style is about to change, so what do you think of your hosting style of the previous radio talk show "Comfort Angel"?

Mina: I haven't thought about style yet. Style is summed up by audience and audience.

7. What do you usually do in the process of hosting a program?

Mina: Listen, think, say, read short messages and play music. One thing to do before is to choose music, and the other thing is to choose books and topics.

8. Your audience is a storyteller. I hear all kinds of stories every day. Will these stories have an impact on your life? Do you get bored because you repeat too much?

Mina: Doctors see patients every day, but that doesn't mean they will be infected by patients. They pessimistically think that there are no healthy people in this world. I have my own recuperation system, and my work and life can be basically separated. Of course, there will be times of depression and stress occasionally, but this is a normal thing, and modern people will encounter it more or less. There are too many people doing repetitive work, such as workers and teachers on the assembly line. For example, a teacher may teach these two books all his life, but because he is facing different students, he will not quit his job because of boredom.

9. Waiting for the audience's questions at the other end of the radio wave on time every night is a great test for your voice. How do you usually protect your voice? Many broadcast hosts have some hobbies when hosting. What's your hobby?

Mina: I didn't protect it particularly. I just tried not to destroy it too much. My voice is in average condition. I must take a large glass of water with me when hosting. I like to eat a nine-series hydrangea before the performance. It comes from my family. It is said that it is good for my voice.

10, many listeners are curious. Mina always has different views on love, so what is Mina's own love? Do you already have a chaperone?

Mina: As I said in the program, everyone grew up together. They have had unreliable relationships before, but they will not deny the men's team because they are injured and love incompetence. Love missed some people, and was wrongly loved by some people, and then slowly understood what is suitable for you, what you really want, and what you can actually have. Understand this, meet the right person, there will be the right emotion.

1 1. Is your love life romantic? Whether writing an article or hosting a program, it is an analysis of love. Is it too rational in life?

Mina: People are not as boring as they are. I am a woman first, and then I can add those modified attributes, such as: rational woman, sharp and rational woman and so on.

Reason is used to solve and avoid troubles, and spend every day without troubles with sensibility.

12. Something interesting or unforgettable must have happened since I hosted the midnight radio station. Share it with everyone.

Mina: There are quite a few such things, so I won't list them one by one.

(3) About the future

1. You always say you want to leave Changsha. Do you have to leave? Why?

Mina: Yes. I have settled in Hangzhou in recent years. It has always been said that Changsha is her family, and her daughter will often stay in her family, but how can she stay all the time? In addition, I like the different feelings brought by different cities. I don't like sightseeing, but I like this kind of life-oriented travel. Only by living in a city for more than half a year can I get close to the soul of this city.

If you leave Changsha, where do you want to go most? Why?

Mina: I hope to go to France, because I like French movies, French novels and chansons. But my French is too poor. In China, it should still be Hangzhou. Miss the coffee with my girlfriend on the hillside near the West Lake, a cup of coffee, a breeze and a warm autumn afternoon. In the area of Hangzhou, life is very idle, very literary, and even talking is slow.

3. A painter will paint for a lifetime, a singer will sing for a lifetime, a dancer will dance for a lifetime, and you will write for a lifetime if you love words?

Mina: Yes.

Will you be a similar host after you leave Changsha?

Mina: I can't predict until the day it happens.

An interview with a newspaper

1. Sanmao is a woman who tries her best to release all her property to the freest state. Is that what you want? If you were asked to go to the Sahara alone, maybe it was for love, maybe it was for something, would you go? What does a woman's courage have to do with?

Mina: I love material civilization. Although I will be curious about customs like Sahara, I won't live there. I don't long for any suffering. I can't bear to let myself suffer. This has nothing to do with courage, but a different pursuit of life.

Many people who have watched your program say that your hosting style is too sharp. Is this your own style? Do you want to wake up the "dream person" in emotional distress in this way?

Mina: The style was summed up by others. I didn't think about it deliberately. The emotional reaction when presiding, or the response measures made by different parties for different events, are all my instinctive reactions-just like lifting my legs when going up the stairs and opening my mouth when drinking water.

3. What do you do when you are at home? Do you like cooking by yourself?

Mina: If I stayed at home, I would definitely turn on the stereo. I can't stand the silence in the room. Doing housework in music and taking a bath in music (when doing housework and taking a bath, it is the quietest and most inspiring time in my heart). I seldom cook by myself. I like cooking for others.

4. What kind of books and movies do you like? What's the latest movie in the cinema? If you were asked to recommend a favorite book, which one would you recommend?

Mina: Literature and art are the boring books and movies that people talk about. But as long as I have time, I will go to the cinema to watch all the commercial films-I have seen a lot recently, such as Atonement, National Treasure 2, and Prehistoric Years. Basically, whenever I have time, I ask my girlfriend to hide in the cinema and often watch two or three movies at a time. After reading it, people are dizzy, and everyone has no strength to talk, but their hearts are very leisurely. I like too many books. If I only recommend one, I'd rather not recommend any. I can't sort out those excellent works in my mind.

5. Why do you want to be a woman who writes? Because many women show tangled emotions about writing, or in the eyes of most people, writing is a painful thing.

Mina: Writing is a good way to adjust yourself. At first, it was also because of instinct-the instinct of expression. I think writing is not painful. Others think that writing is painful because you can't write. When you have something to say and can express it fluently, writing is extremely happy.

6. Is it written description or venting?

Mina: Both. When can narrative and catharsis be separated? The author is not a machine, but a secular desire. Therefore, even the most understated sentence hides emotions behind it.

7. What was your original intention to join the emotional talk show? Do you mind being told that you are young and inexperienced, but pointing out other people's feelings?

Mina: I didn't think so much. They all thought I was suitable, so I tried. After doing it, I found that I was really suitable, so I stuck to it. I don't mind age. Age is never a secret. I don't like to say age not because others think I'm young, but because I look 35 (they say so). I will be ashamed that my image doesn't match my age. Nobody thinks I'm dead, right? Laughter, judging from my appearance, voice and thoughts, has nothing to do with being unworldly. A good word, as lovely as a white rabbit, but it's a pity that it's not an adjective that belongs to me.

8. How will the process of helping others emotionally affect you? Do you often fall into pain or indignation?

Mina: No special influence, still sober and optimistic. Occasionally, I feel depressed, but self-help will be quick. I have never been angry, and I was not an angry person when I was young.

9. What do you think love and marriage mean to women?

Mina: Why did you say separate? Love is good, marriage is good. Love will be the grave of those who can't manage, and marriage will be the paradise of those who can manage.

10. We never want to put women in a weak word group, but what is the most effective way for a young woman to make herself strong?

Mina: You can only do it if you really believe you can do it. If you have rights, you won't ask others to give you rights. The reason for China's weakness now is really not from external forces, but because I refuse to stand up and don't believe I can stand up.

1 1. What is your most desirable state of life?

Mina: Do meaningful work and lead an interesting life. Life is good now.

12. What kind of woman do you admire? What about men?

Mina: Both men and women, I expect them to be independent, powerful, able to control their own lives, attractive, knowledgeable and polite.

13. What's the future plan? Like priority? Wedding destination?

Mina: In recent two years, the focus of my work has been on hosting and writing. We'll talk about the future later I like life full of possibilities-I hate to hear that marriage is the destination. Marriage is just another stage of life. In this stage, you should learn to be a wife, a daughter-in-law and a mother. The so-called destination is death, not anyone or lifestyle.

14. How do you feel as an artist? What if he is still a controversial figure in the entertainment industry?

Mina: What is the concept of entertainment figures? These things are defined by others and have nothing to do with my own life. I still work, live and play the same.

15. What is your dream?

Mina: The most stubborn blueprint for the future is not to walk around my knees with my wife, but to be a gorgeous old lady at the age of 50, chatting with her husband in a bikini, sitting on the beach watching young men and women play, and keeping curious and continuing to learn.

I don't dream of anything anymore. Compared with dreaming, it is more important to finish the work at hand and tidy up yourself with dignity.