Why do lovers call me wife? What do lovers mean by calling me wife?

Nowadays, people's interpersonal relationships are becoming more and more complicated, and the word lover is becoming more and more complicated. Lover originally had a meaning, that is, it refers to the appellation between husband and wife who have not determined their spouse relationship, but now it can refer to people who are in extramarital relationship. Then why does my lover call me wife? What does it mean for a lover to call me wife?

First of all, if the relationship between the two parties is normal, then one party calls the other party his wife, which shows that he regards the other party as his future spouse, which shows that he cares about the other party very much; If the relationship between the two parties is an extramarital affair, then calling another person's wife has two meanings.

The first layer means that this person is like his wife to him, even likes this person better than his wife, and may divorce his wife in the future, and then get married with his lover; The second meaning is that this is just a way to win another person's favor, that is, to deceive others, and at the same time hope that he wants another person to be his lover for a long time and has the obligation to satisfy some of his desires like a wife.

In short, it is not normal for lovers to call another person's wife in the case of extramarital affairs, because extramarital affairs are not normal, which will cause great harm to both parties or one spouse and destroy the current social atmosphere.