How to meet people who are better than you and make friends with them?

Between two people who can become friends, there must be mutually valuable input and output, and it is impossible for only one party to continuously output forever.

If you are a weak person, why can you make a strong person your friend?

Therefore, if you want to know excellent people and become good friends with them, you need to be excellent people first.

In today's society, Internet communication is so developed that we can know what is happening in the world without leaving home. We can contact anyone in the world through WeChat, QQ, telephone, SMS, community forums and other tools.

You can meet all kinds of people, or you can communicate with a big coffee one-on-one through a paid community to meet some outstanding people such as a big coffee. But this is just a strange pattern of social interaction, and only a weak relationship is formed.

Relationships formed in social communication can be divided into two types. One is a strong relationship, which is embodied in our relatives or friends who can support or talk to each other during our study.

The other is a weak relationship, which is usually formed by socializing in strange patterns. The maintenance of this relationship needs the support of interests or values.

It is only one-sided to know excellent people through paid communities. You know them, but it's hard to be their friends.

If we want to be friends with people who are better than ourselves, we first need to make ourselves a shining big light bulb.

When you become a big light bulb, people around you will gather around you. In this process, starting from yourself, you will also filter out those who are not helpful to you and leave those who can help each other. The so-called circle is thus formed.

Therefore, if you want to know people who are better than yourself and become friends with them, you must first make yourself excellent and do everything well, even small things.