Original work of "Do You Know": What kind of capable person is the neglected wealthy lady Hai Chaoyun?

Modern people say that women who act coquettishly have the best luck.

But no matter what era, only this kind of woman is the best. I have an excellent background. I grew up in an environment where my father loved me and my mother loved me. I cultivated correct values ????from a young age in the fragrance of calligraphy and ink. I don’t need to be cautious, and I am not afraid of money. When I reach the age of falling in love, I choose someone. , for life.

Although most modern people have good family backgrounds, it is rare to see them live as happily as Hai Chaoyun, Minglan’s sister-in-law in "Do You Know Should Be Green, Fat, Red, and Thin"?

First, be knowledgeable and sensible.

Old Mrs. Sheng said that it was short-sighted not to want women to study. Children of the Sheng family, both male and female, have to go to school since they were young. Hai Chao and Yun Hai's family even had a school from that dynasty. Sister Hai helped solve the schooling problem for Rong'er, who was born in an outside room of the Gu family. It can be seen that Hai Chaoyun must also be a learned person, with three correct views, choosing a mate based on his character, and not having too many worldly prejudices.

Second, be wise and rational.

The incident involving Mo Lan and Liang Liulang happened and they were punished to kneel down in the family ancestral hall. Sister Hua Lan, who was known as the most gentle and virtuous, was so angry that she waved her hands and wanted to hit someone. It was Hai Chaoyun who held Hua Lan down. , which extinguished Hua Lan’s anger in asking the doctor to check her pulse for a pregnancy test. She said, "Don't do it. If that doctor is a liar and leaks a word, we will destroy the two sisters." She hit the nail on the head and made the overall situation clear.

In addition, Haishi is also a good housekeeper. During her pregnancy, Mrs. Sheng's sister, Aunt Kang, wanted to give her a concubine in an attempt to control the Sheng family. Lady Hai pushed back with one word. She knew very well that Aunt Kang and her husband were not getting along, so she bluntly said: If she doesn't care about her, she should take care of her own family affairs first.

Neither humble nor arrogant, you can defend your rights with just a few words.

Third, know how to advance and retreat.

Women must not think that they are omnipotent and can handle everything on their own. Minglan just put everything on her mind, but Hai Chaoyun and her husband had discussions. The best evidence is that her grandmother was poisoned and Minglan heavily guarded the Sheng family. It was Hai Chaoyun who took the opportunity to send a flying pigeon message, allowing Sheng Changbai and Uncle Gu to arrive in time, so that Minglan's good cards were not blurred. .

Fourth, treat others sincerely.

Whether it is treating the grandmother, the head of the family, or Ming Lan, who grew up beside her grandmother, or Mo Lan, who does not follow the right path, Hai Chaoyun treats her sincerely. She does not flatter anyone or belittle anyone. She reminds Mo Lan that the Liang family is not a blessed place; she also earns Ming Lan's respect, which can be seen from Ming Lan's preparation of a full moon ceremony for her son.

In this era, if a woman wants to have a stable life, it is not enough to just marry a good husband. She must be brave and resourceful to find a safe haven.

Just like Minglan, no matter how obedient Uncle Gu is, she doesn't like to rely on him for everything. She can always trouble the other party as much as possible.

Far-sighted parents will not be like Lin Xiaoniang, who only focus on the immediate interests and teach their children crooked ways. Just like Mo Lan, even if she marries into the Bo Jue Mansion, if her virtue is not worthy of her, she will eventually fall hard.

A woman like Hai Chaoyun will be happy no matter who she marries, because no matter what situation she is in, she can skillfully resolve it and take back control of her life.