Why don't men reply to their lover's information, but take the initiative to chat with her the next day?

First of all, I am afraid of trouble and unnecessary trouble, because men know that there will be many next ones when they return to one.

At this time, it will be very troublesome if the girlfriend and the wife who live there check the post.

Then, the next day, my wife or girlfriend can't stay with me all the time. Of course, there will be enough time to contact your lover. Of course, I have to make up many reasons to explain why I didn't reply to the news yesterday.