After breaking up for 20 days, she has a boyfriend. Is it true that she sent me a message saying that she wanted to come back to me?

Because the other person has a new boyfriend and says he wants to come back to you, he doesn't love you very much.

It is normal for lovers to break up and propose to break up, but if two people really have different personalities and quarrel all day, they have long lost their feelings for each other, but what should we do after breaking up?

Calm down for a while:

It is natural for two people to have feelings after being together for so long. They broke up at once, and no one could accept it. They are somewhat reluctant and sad, and even have some regrets. This is normal psychology. Let yourself calm down for a while and then think about it.

Be alone for a while:

If two people break up, if they regret it, it is that they have not adapted to one person. If they are alone for a period of time, this feeling will gradually fade away. Don't rush to make up because of regret.

Don't touch for a short time:

After two people break up, even if they regret it, they should learn to adapt, learn to be alone and learn to think calmly. Don't start to contact each other a day or two after breaking up, if this has been a state of mutual torture.

Wake up and admit the truth:

After two people break up, they regret it, because they haven't woken up yet and feel that all this is like a dream, so they should admit the fact of breaking up and don't expect anything.