How to save love rat by chatting?

Chatting to save love rat needs to control emotions and keep calm first. Love rat usually wants to see us lose control of our emotions and gain a sense of superiority. So, stay calm, let yourself have more room to think and communicate with him more rationally. Don't give him any chance to show our feelings, keep a reserved attitude and make him feel that we don't care so much.

Express your true feelings and look for similarities.

When chatting with love rat, we should bravely express our true feelings. Tell him that we are disappointed in his behavior, but at the same time, we should show our concern for him and hope to repair the relationship. It is also important to find similarities in communication. Find the same interests and topics, and increase the cohesion of feelings. But be careful not to cater to him too much. Finding balance is the key.

Re-establish boundaries and maintain self-esteem

Saving love rat does not mean that the border will no longer exist. It is important to re-establish boundaries, and it is more important to uphold self-esteem. Clearly express our bottom line in the chat and let him know that we will not tolerate being hurt again. If he is unwilling to respect these borders, we need to protect ourselves and resolutely leave. Remember, we deserve to be truly cherished and respected. Saving is not the only choice, but protecting your dignity is the most important thing.