My nephew confessed to me in a text message.

In February this year, he confessed that you fell in love with him in March, and then he immediately changed his mind and said goodbye within a month.

This question is clear at a glance. You are so frivolous and fanatical that he sees some hidden dangers and inappropriate places.

1. People have been observing you for three years. But I just didn't take a step forward directly, so I haven't understood your true heart yet, just like it. This is just an external pursuit.

You were flattered after the confession, so you inadvertently exposed all your weaknesses and inner personality after the lightning storm, which made him vaguely feel a girl's impetuousness and immaturity. Differences in temper and personality will bring hidden dangers to future marriages.

He said that the relationship is too close, which may include interference from family members. After all, there is a little kinship, which is taboo in traditional concepts. When he asks his parents for advice, his parents or relatives may think it is inappropriate. Then the elders get to know each other. Maybe his parents already know about you.

People's feelings and love are based on long-term life. If you fall in love with him within one month, it is a long-distance love, so that you can't separate. Obviously, hormonal impulse thinking has affected your so-called "love". You haven't contacted him for a long time. There are hundreds of "I love you" in the mobile phone. Can you guarantee that it will remain unchanged for life? If so, let a few young people call you every day and say 10 thousand "I love you" I'm afraid you will fall in love with everyone.

Finally, you must have scared him, thinking that you are frivolous and love casually and quickly. Then the future will go quickly, let go quickly and leave quickly.

Girls should be reserved and not too impetuous. Excessive fanaticism will scare away men, especially those who have received orthodox education.