What do you mean by sending a message to your ex and not returning it?

The reason why he didn't reply to you is that he still bears a grudge against you. Some of your previous words and actions hurt him, and he didn't want to talk to you or recall that unhappy time.

The idea of many girls is that if the other party doesn't return my message, it just doesn't love me! There is no such thing as not loving you easily. Feelings are very complicated things, and it can't be explained clearly by the word "don't love" after breaking up.

No matter how anxious and painful you are now, don't continue to send messages to your ex. Because your message has aroused his strong dissatisfaction, if it continues like this, it is likely to be deleted by your predecessor, Lahei.

It doesn't matter to us if an ordinary person doesn't reply to the news, but the fact that the loved one doesn't reply to the news can make us have great self-denial in the long wait. Many people can't figure out why their predecessors didn't reply to the news, and finally they used to give themselves a seemingly most rational explanation: "He doesn't like me."

In fact, this is also a kind of self-deception, and you will subconsciously interpret not returning the news as not caring about me. You should realize that you don't return messages. You are not important. You don't return messages. He doesn't like you anymore

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Many times, your ex didn't reply to your message, which was largely due to the problem of your message itself. First of all, don't send some meaningless messages. For example, "I miss you", for example, "What are you doing", for example, "Give me one last chance, ok?" ....

Such news will only make your ex hate you more. You have to understand that you have broken up and you are a stranger to him. He has no obligation to take care of your emotions, besides, the news means nothing to him. So don't send meaningless messages after breaking up, or you will face power failure and increase the difficulty of recovery.

Secondly, don't send some information that doesn't sell well, and don't expect the other party to see your misery and sympathize with you. What can attract the other person back must be an excellent and positive you, not a "inseparable" you.