Why can’t we send group text messages?

1. Sending messages in groups seems insincere

The Chinese New Year is a good time for relatives and friends to gather together, including those who are not in contact with each other, those who are close and distant, those who are familiar and unfamiliar, and those who are in New Year. The rope was twisted, and we couldn't help but move closer to each other. It was a good time to meet each other, greetings, reminiscing about the past, and talking about everything. The atmosphere of the New Year is a vast world and a leisurely time. There is no pressure on everyone, so naturally we have a great time chatting. But for those who cannot meet in person, they can only achieve the same wish with the help of developed communication facilities, such as making New Year greeting calls, online videos, mobile text messages and the emerging WeChat. Phone calls, videos, etc. are undoubtedly time-consuming, not economical and fast enough, unless You can try it if you are particularly close, but it is impossible to spread it to all relatives and friends. Short message is a popular form of communication. It is fast and convenient. It has been popular for more than ten years. It still occupies the first channel for Spring Festival greetings. However, the operation of short message The business has just changed.

At such a grand occasion as the Chinese New Year, everyone is eager to receive blessing text messages. The more messages they receive, the more it shows that they have a strong personality and have many friends and a wide range of friends, which is a foaming agent for self-expansion. However, among the many messages you received, you found that different friends sent the same blessing text message. Some of them were so reckless that they didn't even have time to change their signature before forwarding it. This was even more shocking. Do you still feel heavy? ? Of course not. You will regretfully find that you are not important, and you will see through your friends' carelessness. Just tap a button on a short message, and the message sent to you will be sent to hundreds of people at the same time. Such a convenient operation will ruin your life. The good image of a friend who is honest and reliable in your mind has been lost. It turns out that you are just a series of cold numbers in his New Year greetings. What he sends to you is not a blessing, but a radio wave to test the link. At this time, people often express doubts about the meaning of sending text messages and lose confidence in their sincerity.

2. Mass messaging casts a shadow on the New Year’s celebrations

The New Year’s celebrations run through New Year’s Eve, and most of those who have gone through hardships and traveled back home probably coincide with New Year’s Eve, and The good time for family reunion may only be New Year's Eve and the first two days of the Lunar New Year. The other days require frequent trips out to visit relatives and friends, and it is as busy as catching up. Therefore, the New Year's Eve feast requires you to calm down and concentrate on spending time with your parents and family, but during this time It’s another time when blessing messages are intensively sent out, and no one can block the interference, because you can’t rudely reject other people’s good wishes, you can only accept them. Receiving sincere blessings will definitely be the icing on the cake. If the screen full of group text messages fills the memory of your mobile phone like the plague, your heart will not be so beautiful, and you will be depressed! You'll be sick! These group text messages drown the real and meaningful greetings in the torrent. It is possible that you miss the crucial blessing message in your life. It is possible that the person in your heart has been waiting for a long time after sending you the blessing of love. Feeling resentful if you don't get a response. During the Spring Festival, any unhappiness will cloud the New Year's celebrations and leave a shadow on your heart. A bad start will always leave people with knots that can't be untied.

3. Group messaging makes friendship or family relationships lose their sense of authenticity

The maintenance of relationships depends on the management and dedication of both parties. Family love and friendship are two different feelings. We often They will treat each other differently and use different attitudes and methods to maintain the sincerity and long-term relationship. However, greetings during the Chinese New Year bring the two emotions together and merge them into one. During the Spring Festival, relatives and friends cannot tell them apart, and they have no intention of distinguishing them so clearly. Anyway, it is the Chinese New Year, so we just want to be happy and auspicious. Regardless of family affection or friendship, we can agree on the same rules and just cook them all in one pot. The bad thing about group texting is the mentality behind those emotionless words. The compilation of blessing messages is not done by group senders. The true meaning of the text may not be recognized by the sender. Maybe many senders do not understand all the messages at all and just send them out casually. The meaning itself is not important. What the sender cares about is Send it yourself and give the recipient a thought to see if I haven’t forgotten you! Even the same short message is sent to everyone in the address book. How many of the names that can be saved in the address book are real friends? Not necessarily all of them, maybe quite a few are acquaintances or work partners who have never met. These people cannot be on the same level as relatives and friends, but there is no such choice when sending messages, and family ties and friendships lose their sense of reality.

4. Sending messages in groups eliminates the urge for further communication

Finally, let’s mention the meaning of blessing! The maintenance of relationships between relatives and friends does not lie in the few days of the New Year. The key is the accumulation on weekdays, which is a continuous process. The meaning of blessing lies more in communication. Taking advantage of the Spring Festival, everyone can understand each other's current situation, so as not to gradually become strangers. . Even if you don’t send any blessing messages during the New Year, I’m afraid no relatives or friends will come to you to accuse you or ask why. Therefore, it is better to send New Year blessings sparingly than in excess. Don’t feel that Spring Festival blessings must be sent. This is the time when emotions can best be reflected, so go to Consider the direction of sincerity, but ignore the evil nature of group text messages. Or you can honestly make up your own unique message to make the other party feel that you are sincere. If you can't do this, insist on sending group messages. Otherwise, the recipients may not have much of an impression, or they may turn a blind eye to your proactive overtures, become disgusted with group messaging, and eventually lose the urge to continue communicating. We are often at a loss when it comes to group messages. You clearly know the channel and source of the message, but you can't reply to each one. As a result, you either ignore it or forward another ready-made message to deal with it. In addition to the impressive increase in traffic by operators, the New Year blessing short messages flying all over the sky are meaningless.

I am disgusted with group text messages, but it is not that I am disgusted with New Year's message wishes. Making phone calls is the best way to send New Year greetings, but it is really too late and I can't care about it. The next best thing is to choose messages. But I will edit the content of the messages one by one and try to be as different as possible. After all, the recipients of the messages are all kinds of relatives, friends, teachers, classmates and comrades-in-arms. So what if it is slower? A year is a long time.