I have no problem with that. If I find an ambiguous message on my husband's mobile phone, does it mean that my husband is having an affair?

Cao Zeneng, chief psychological counselor of Zhuhai Bangda psychological institution, replied: I can see that you are a kind and loving intellectual woman. No one will feel sad when he is deeply infatuated with money, and the true feelings of money can't be reciprocated by the other party, or when he is "short of two pounds". I fully understand your pain at this time. There are only two steps to solve the problem. One is to know the situation and know yourself. The second is to be targeted and prescribe the right medicine. As far as understanding the situation is concerned, the more comprehensive the better. You might as well: (1) check your husband's phone and SMS records to assess the seriousness of the facts; (2) Quietly seek advice from your friends, colleagues and your own population for further verification; (3) You can find suitable occasions such as wedding anniversary and birthday, talk to your husband, see what he thinks of yourself, and check whether you have changed recently; (4) Learn in detail whether he has an extramarital affair, and to what extent, is Chun Qing budding in the early stage, or is it inseparable in the middle stage, or is everything in the final stage only due to the "east wind"; (5) Give her husband a comprehensive evaluation to see if he "made the mistake that all men will make" as Jackie Chan said. (6) Evaluate your marriage rationally, and the crisis will turn the corner and see what you can't do. When taking action, we should be rational, affectionate and restrained. (1) If the husband is just "early adopter" and has no real influence on the family structure, although he hurts his feelings, he can still make up for it, and he also thinks that you are his first important person, conditional forgiveness may be a better solution; (2) If they are "doing things with live ammunition", do you "push" them out of the house first to vent their grievances, or "compete for posts" and "pull" them into the house first? Hehe, this will test your wisdom; (3) Remind him appropriately, give him a "hangover", make him aware of his responsibilities and obligations, give him the opportunity and time to get lost, let him know that you still love him and your family, and use your wisdom to improve your love index. (4) Sit tight and be prepared. There may be a result after half a year. It has been scientifically proved that men's "brain-loving crazy period" is only six months.