Chatting words: the prelude to three different occasions

Lead: strike up a conversation, that is, actively communicate with strangers. What's it called in Beijing dialect? Porcelain cover? . To get close to people or get rid of embarrassing situations, find something to say. Also called? Go for a ride? . Want to talk to a woman. That is to say, there is nothing to be perfunctory or say hello to. The following is a detailed analysis of the opening remarks of three different occasions.

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First, say hello to the opening: suitable for all kinds of scenes.

First of all, you need to turn on a girl's attraction switch, that is, attract her with your own image, so that she will pay attention to your conversation.

1. For example, your appearance is average, and the most basic dress should be clean, and you should wear clothes that suit you. Don't wear colorful clothes that don't match you. Your overall dress should at least make people feel comfortable.

Be sure to pay attention to your hairstyle, wash it before going out, and it's best to go to the barber shop for a styling.

3. Keep your face clean.

Shoes should be worn with your whole suit, and they must be clean and not dirty. Many girls will notice this.

It's simple here. I have talked about some problems about self-construction, so if you really don't know how to dress yourself, you can pay more attention to fashion information, watch more entertainment programs in these areas, check online more and learn more. Don't be lazy, lazy people can't attract girls.

Then when your own structure is ok, you should stand confidently in front of the girl you want to chat up, don't be nervous or afraid of anything, and then talk to the girl politely.

Then when you have done the above, say the first opening remarks.

When you are shopping and you see a girl you are interested in, you can strike up a conversation like this.

Bad boy: pay attention to stand in front of girls, have your own confidence, don't be nervous, and speak politely? Hello, I'm sorry. I just saw you over there and thought you had a good temperament. I want to know something about you. (pause for a moment, let the girl look at you and smile at the girl. ) Do you go shopping alone?

Note: Don't stare at the girl part. The bedroom is sexy, purposeful, or secretly looking at my sister. Girls are very sensitive, so pay attention to (www. SiandiAn.com, Flashpoint Love Network).

Goal: Yes.

Bad boy: Can you add a WeChat to teach your friends? If the girl agrees, you can conveniently say that I am also shopping alone. Can we go shopping together? So you can communicate with her more. If you don't agree, just contact us on WeChat, and I won't bother you.

Second, shy friends opening: suitable for partner occasions.

For example, if you are the kind of girl you like, you will be too embarrassed to strike up a conversation with her, so you can bring a good buddy and use the buddy as an excuse to strike up a conversation.

Bad boy? Hello, my friend said you were elegant and wanted to know you, but he was shy, so I came over? Is it convenient to tell your WeChat?

Third, soliloquize opening: it can be used with mobile phones and is suitable for various scenes.

For example, when you are in a coffee shop and there is a girl you like sitting at the table next to you, you can pretend to call to do so.

Bad boy: Turn on your cell phone and pretend to talk to it? Where do you think we will meet? Where am I? Then you can turn to the target. Hey, where is our place? (puzzled expression, be realistic, don't be nervous, be natural)

Goal: after telling you the address.

Bad boy: Then can I talk to you here and then sit here and wait for my friend? Otherwise, it's boring to be there alone. With her consent, you can establish a sense of familiarity with her through chatting, so that the contact information can be contacted and the girls can have a basic understanding of you.

Note: behave appropriately, don't show a strong sense of need, and don't show purpose.