A very unpleasant thing happened to my boyfriend at work recently, and he didn't reply to all the text messages I sent him at last. He said he wanted to be quiet. He used to be cold to me. ...

You put the other person where he puts you. It is difficult to find balance without balance. But remind the other person appropriately and treat him in the same way, so that he will put himself in the other person's shoes. Men think simply and don't think too much, and women don't think too much about him. Otherwise, we can't get along with ourselves. Many times, we are too empty and always do something that we think the other person needs. In fact, in the eyes of men, it is redundant. Only when a woman loves herself well can someone love you. Instead of putting enthusiasm on others, it is better to return to yourself. He doesn't love you, but his expression is different. Men have high self-esteem. Don't comfort him. He doesn't need anyone's pity. He will tell you when he needs you. Women should learn to advance and retreat.