How to reply the information of a person who confessed to me?

When in love, men are always the most keen to express themselves. Whenever I meet a woman I like, I want to express my love and hope that the woman I love can accept me.

But love in this world is what you want. Sometimes a man secretly confesses to a woman, which may not necessarily win her favor. Emotional events are a complex problem. The person you are thinking about may never look at you, or just treat you as an ordinary friend. But in any case, the love between men and women needs one party to take that step bravely, even if the result is not satisfactory, at least there is no regrets.

When you fall in love with a woman, a man has the courage to express his good feelings, wants to go on with a woman, and then has a long-term love and a happy life. Helpless, sometimes falling out of love intentionally or unintentionally, confession and affectionate attitude can not be favored by women, but will be severely rejected.

Refusing to confess will make men very depressed, but what men can't understand most is that some women obviously refuse their love, why can they reply to their news lightly? We often see such a situation. After some men are rejected, women will not delete them, nor will they be blacked out, but will reply to his messages as always, which makes many men feel contradictory. Since I chose no, why keep in touch? What kind of psychology is this? I think there are all these reasons.

First, I didn't reply to the message, which was rude.

Most men still want to be friends with each other after their confession failure, and they can't help sending messages to each other.

Can't come back, every woman takes different actions. It is impolite not to reply to messages. Everyone has the right to like others. If a woman doesn't like a man, she will draw a line directly and even have no friends. Then all the men and women in this world are afraid to confess. If they are not careful, they can't even be friends and become strangers directly. Then who dares to show himself?

Second, raise a "spare tire". Although I don't like you now, it doesn't mean there won't be one in the future.

Sometimes a woman doesn't promise you, maybe she doesn't like you that much, but she won't rule you out directly, because she subconsciously thinks you still have some possibilities.

The behavior of raising a "spare tire" is disgusting. Both men and women don't want to be each other's spare tires, which is harmful to self-esteem. How to know if you are someone else's spare tire is actually not difficult.

If rejected, the woman will intentionally or unintentionally reveal ambiguity when chatting, WeChat red envelopes will be received, gifts will be received, and invitations will be taken. Then you don't have to guess. There is no doubt about the spare tire. If this happens, don't be carried away by hormones and wake up in time.

In fact, I have also discussed this issue with several female friends, and they all agree that this is just out of courtesy and there is no idea of making a spare tire. Sometimes, our views on things are always too arbitrary. Speaking of this problem, many people will label women as spare tires.

A friend of mine is very reasonable. She said: If I don't like a man, no matter whether his heart is overwhelming or stormy, he is calm and has no feelings for me.

Therefore, from the woman's point of view, as long as the man does not entangle after being rejected, or does not mention any ambiguous topics, she is still willing to continue to be ordinary friends with the man.

Qian Ning believes that many times, refusing a man's confession will not completely affect the friendship between men and women. There is nothing wrong with loving someone, and there is nothing wrong with not loving someone. The two have not established a love relationship. If a woman doesn't like it, she will refuse generously and won't delay each other.

Women will still treat men who profess themselves as friends, but the distance will be farther and there will be clear boundaries in their hearts. Therefore, it is often polite to reply to messages.