I just came back from a business trip for 2 months, and I invited some buddies from the company to play ball with the leaders, but my girlfriend asked me to accompany him for a weekend without knowing

I just came back from a business trip for 2 months, and I invited some buddies from the company to play ball with the leaders, but my girlfriend asked me to accompany him for a weekend without knowing it. What should I do? There must be order. Now that you have made an appointment with your colleagues, you can't break it. This is a man's principle. Don't abandon your principle of being a man, let alone your colleagues and leaders. If you break your promise, you will offend many people. What do people think of you? Do you still want to get along in the company? Interpersonal relationship is not important, or what? Tell your girlfriend well, and she will understand. After all, this matter is a basic cognitive problem. If your girlfriend is not sensible, you have to teach her a lesson, besides, she is not your wife. If your daughter-in-law breaks your promise, then your excuse is "something at home" and "something with your girlfriend" are two concepts. The former will forgive you, while the latter will think you are dishonest.

So no matter whether your girlfriend is a temper or not, since she has an appointment with someone else, unless it is a big deal, she can't break her word or break her promise to others. Of course, this problem is not that serious, but seriously, it will be a man's credibility problem.