How to save the cold war man

Method 1: Do housework in front of him by hands. Experiments show that more than 7% of the boys will feel pity for the jade, talk to you again and even take the initiative to finish the housework with you. If you are a girl who is usually stubborn, taciturn and doesn't like taking the initiative, then you can choose this method during the Cold War. Method 2: Repetition. Repetition refers to the second day after the Cold War, when the two sides meet, they reproduce the scene of yesterday's quarrel and find out the reason of the Cold War. Like the police handling a case, analyze the case, dissect every sentence and thing clearly, find out the problem and solve it. But using this method requires a premise that you have already set this rule, just in case. Method 3: Help-seeking method If you have a cold war with your boyfriend and he hasn't been looking for you, you can take the initiative to send WeChat or text messages to tell him something. But it should be noted that what you want to say can't be about your quarrel or the cold war. You'd better choose to say something about your work or friends to let him know that you don't want to talk to him actively, but you are forced by the situation. The purpose is to restore your relationship first. When you can communicate and talk normally, you can communicate with him further. This method applies to every woman during the cold war. Emotional message: As long as you study and use the above tips, the Cold War can also save each other and warm up your feelings. Of course, it is best not to have a cold war, and what can be solved on the same day will be completed on the same day. After all, more cold wars and a long time will hurt each other's feelings. How to save the man in the cold war 2. First, refuse cold violence, take the initiative to speak, and break the deadlock in the cold war. The beginning of all cold violence is that the husband began to stop talking, and the woman stubbornly felt that the man did not realize his mistake and would not pay attention to the other party, so the scene was "cooled down" like this. But in fact, a woman should put down her so-called worries and dignity and say to him directly: We are now in a cold war, which can't solve any problems. Of course, we don't really have to lower our posture to accommodate him, but we should take the initiative to tell each other the consequences of the cold war now and what his purpose is, so that he can take the initiative to think about what the final consequences are because of your reminder. For example, tell him that even if you really want to separate now because of the cold war, once this cold war model becomes normal, it will not change and will still affect the development of your next relationship. Second, to warm his heart with the idea of agreeing with him. Many times, the reason why a man will solve problems in the way of the Cold War is that he feels that the woman doesn't know him at all, so he feels that it is useless to say more, so he simply doesn't say anything. Or the woman's personality is too strong to let her husband express his thoughts effectively, so after a long time, she no longer wants to express her thoughts. At this time, only when we realize that we are wrong and confess to each other, can we break this barrier and get closer to each other. However, recognition does not mean admitting mistakes, otherwise it will make the other party directly blame you, and the scene will once make you humiliating. Third, take the initiative to solve the main contradiction that caused the Cold War. Many times, the way women solve problems is a bit strange. For example, when the cold war broke out, we would directly ignore what the original contradiction was. Jumping directly to her husband's attitude towards the cold war, even if the cold war ended, it only solved the state of the cold war and did not handle the real problems that led to the cold war. Therefore, if we want this kind of incident not to happen again, we must solve the fundamental bit problem. For example, because the mother-in-law quarreled with her daughter-in-law, her husband was pulled in. Then, as a sandwich biscuit, he didn't want to "offend" either side and chose the cold war. Then the first problem to be solved must be the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Fourth, finally turn the cold war into a fierce hot war. Finally, the most effective way to break this cold war state is to detonate a hot war and tell the other party directly that the cold war state is unacceptable to me and I don't want you to profit from it. This will directly make him sit still and want to argue with you directly. But before this hot war breaks out, you must first be mentally prepared and confident. At the same time, it is necessary to clear up the organization and find the key points of the problem, so that when communicating positively, it can convince the other party reasonably. After such an emotional catharsis or positive communication, the problem will naturally be dealt with. In my opinion, the cold war is an emotional consumption and a precursor to the breakup of the cold war, which must be paid enough attention to. I have met many cases of breaking up at the end of the cold war. If you don't pay enough attention to it, when you really lose each other, it's too late to regret it. So how should you crack it? When many people encounter the cold war, they will wait for the other side to apologize, thinking that they will decide each other's status by apologizing. This is a very wrong practice, even if it continues to be maintained, it will accumulate to the extreme with one party's overwhelming grievances and then break up. Is your idea that "whoever breaks the cold war first is equal to who compromises first, and the one who compromises is the loser, and the winner in the end of the cold war?" "But, have you thought about it? The cold war has made you gradually adapt to each other's living habits, feelings of interdependence and experiences together. Is this really the result you want? What I want to say is that there is not much difference between asking the other person to satisfy you in the way of cold war and crying to let your mother breast-feed. Because you are really naive, of course, the only difference is that your mother can accommodate you and love you unconditionally, but the other person can't. So, how should we resolve the current crisis so that this cold war will not expand and affect your feelings? My suggestion is to take action, even if you take the initiative, but don't use such low-level operation methods as making peace and apologizing, which will only make your cold war last longer and make you even more worthless.