The feeling of a bad woman receiving a text message

Say what? Men are not bad, women don't love them? On the contrary, women are not bad and men don't love them? Bad here does not mean that a person is really bad in his bones, but that they understand the psychology of the opposite sex, understand the needs of the other side, and firmly grasp each other by doing the opposite.

Recently, I received a private letter from a reader. She said that she was very kind to her husband. She never worried about family affairs and was financially independent, but her husband had an affair.

What makes her incredible is that the woman is 8 years older than herself and not as good-looking as herself. She asked her husband, such a woman is not as good as herself. Why do you like him?

The man only said,? Because you are not bad enough, your kindness makes me breathless, and I like the feeling of conquest? . She couldn't accept her husband's betrayal and filed for divorce.

She doesn't understand, what does her husband mean by bad?

Every man likes it? Bad woman? However, regardless of his married status, he pursues the feeling of conquest. Such people have no fear of marriage. He is still in the ignorant little boy stage, and his heart is not mature enough.

However, what I want to talk about today is not extramarital affairs, but why do men like extramarital affairs? Bad woman? ? What magic do they have to make people forget all this?

What if a good woman learns? Bad woman? With these three qualities, you can also firmly grasp your husband's heart.

0 1.？ Bad woman? Bad reason makes men feel scared and don't want to leave.

Most wise women have a mature mind. This maturity is not aging, but a rational judgment of things. They will not make trouble at will, but treat it calmly.

They can make or break a person, they can stop, they can turn things upside down.

Liu Fang and her husband have been married for 10 years, and there are very few quarrels between them. It is not that she has always been patient, nor how strong she is, but that she is a smiling tiger in some things.

Once, she found her husband chatting with another woman. She was not angry or exposed. She found a video of a man chatting online. Finally, the man cheated, and the wife put up with it for the children.

When she was having dinner with her husband, she showed him the video and said indignantly, This woman is so stupid. If her husband wants to be coquettish, treat him well. Do you think she will finally accept it? .

Hearing this, the husband immediately smiled and asked, If you were this woman, what would you do? ?

She immediately said: once you are unfaithful, you don't have to use it for life. Get him out of here at once and clean the house. However, it won't happen to me, because you love me so much, how can you do anything wrong to me? .

Her husband swallowed a mouthful of saliva and his face was ugly. After that, he never dared to speak again. She held the family's economic power in her hands and secretly hid the evidence.

She said that she loved her husband very much, but she loved herself more. Her love is a combination of reason and sensibility. Every woman wants a happy marriage, and a happy marriage can support a happy marriage and needs wisdom.

02.？ Bad woman? A bad sense of mystery always puzzles men.

The so-called mystery is an attraction. You won't tell men all your thoughts, but let them see you through the veil. To put it bluntly, it is playing hard to get.

You know, men are conquering and possessive animals, and they are full of curiosity and yearning for the unknown. When a woman controls the mystery moderately, it will arouse a man's strong desire, and he can't help approaching you.

Why do many married men know the dangers of extramarital affairs and even touch them? Just because the women outside are unknown things, and the women around him, he knows too much, is familiar with, and is not challenging.

Just like the husband of the reader above, doesn't he know that the women outside are older? Don't you know that woman is ugly? Of course I know, but why are you still obsessed with her? Because of mystery.

Mystery is a weapon for women to manage their feelings. When you use it properly, you will firmly attract a man. In his every exploration, you can neither let him know everything, nor fully reveal it, which is also a test of women's ability.

Most women who are mysterious about life are highly emotional. They know under what circumstances to remain mysterious, and they know how to make men explore in time.

03.？ Bad woman? Charm is not good, know how to practice both inside and outside, and let men take the initiative to approach.

What is the real charm of women? External attraction, internal promotion Many women think that men are visual animals, and as long as they see beautiful women, they will not be moved.

In fact, so do women. Seeing the ideal type in their hearts is sometimes stronger than the ideal type of men. This has nothing to do with vision, but everyone likes beautiful things. This is our human nature and no one can resist it.

External attraction, accounting for 30% of the real charm value, women please themselves. Dressing is a respect for others and a magic weapon to attract men.

Intrinsic attraction accounts for 70% of real charm. With the increase of experience, women will show their mature beauty more. The easiest way is reading. Reading will increase your knowledge, make you completely internalized and become another kind of intellectual beauty.

Gradually, you will find that external attraction can attract men, but you can't hold them firmly, because everyone has aesthetic fatigue, and internal attraction, like a magnet, will make men approach you actively.

When a man is with you, he feels like a spring breeze man, which makes him relax and enjoy, and he will feel happy because of him.

Really? Bad woman? Exquisiteness, temperament and personality are not good. In a word, you must be a happy woman when you master these three points.