My girlfriend of four years almost cuts off contact with me whenever I go on vacation.

Let me also say a few words. Your situation is the same as ours, maybe like many people said, she also has a boyfriend at home. But I believe everyone has their own unspeakable secrets. I hope you can learn from my situation and understand your girlfriend. Sometimes there is really no way, and it’s the same when I go home. I may not make more than three phone calls during a holiday, and text messages are only occasional. I remember when I was in my freshman year, he traveled a long way to call me during the first holiday. His mobile phone was in arrears and he paid the bill. It was still snowing. But when he got through to me, I was eating at home. At that time, I just said casually that I would call you after dinner, but later I forgot about it, so he kept waiting. This happens many times during the holidays. Maybe my husband can understand your current mood best. The reason why I don't get so affectionate with him when I get home is because our family is quite conservative to begin with. Besides, my family doesn't agree with us, and my mother keeps asking us to break up. On one side I have a mother who loves me, and on the other side I have a husband who loves me. How should I choose? So I can only leave all my normal time to him and leave my vacation time to my family. Maybe this will hurt them in the end, but I really can't think of what else I can do. Now that I have graduated and I have to think about a job, my mother is still at home trying to find a suitable partner for me. What should I do with my boyfriend? In order to be with me, he ran from home to the city where I went to school. He said he hoped to see me every day. We are still in a long-distance relationship when we are in college. This year is already the fourth year.

A lot There are many things that we need to face and solve by ourselves. Maybe you can't understand the real pain in her heart. I never want to tell him these things. So what if I tell him? He will only be more stressed. I hope he is happy. . Similarly, I can't tell my mother about us, and I don't want to make her sad. So I can only keep everything in my heart.

I believe that there is nothing wrong with those who give in love. As long as you are sincere, can you control others? As long as you do things right and uphold your conscience, you will have no regrets. Hope you can understand each other! ! ! ! Love love love! ! ! ! ! ! !

In fact, if we think about it clearly, every step we take now is just a small step in the long river of our lives! ! !

The best way is to find something meaningful to do by yourself, so as not to miss others all day long and be disappointed. People must learn to take care of themselves! ! ! ! ! !

The words are a bit long, I hope it can help you.