Talk about materialization and life.

Have you ever had such a scene in your life? Whether it is primary school, middle school or university, the goal of discussion or efforts may be whether we can get excellent exams, get higher grades, whether this major can bring huge money in the future or whether we can find a well-paid job after graduation. All these are what we expected, or the result of our efforts.

But have we ever thought about why we want these, what is the significance, whether it can bring us happiness and happiness, and whether it is what we really need? More directly, what is the value and significance of your pursuit of happiness and life?

It is normal for people to pursue material satisfaction. There is nothing wrong with living in a good house, driving a good car, wearing beautiful clothes and jewelry. But don't end up as a house slave or a car slave, let you become a material slave.

Of course, this is the social environment we live in now!

Society needs progress and economy needs development. Only when production and consumption bring about economic growth can the social environment become better. But at present, the causal cycle brought by the production and consumption of our society is very terrible, and it is still in a vicious circle!

In the past, people may only buy a commodity when there is a real demand. It is the basic material that people must possess. However, what people are pursuing now is brand, high-grade and luxury, whether they really need it or not.

Comparison psychology is like an opened Pandora's box, which has invaded the whole society and formed a system. Society is full of the establishment and indoctrination of human ideology. We can't be independent, and we have no way or ability to stop it and fight it. But we can balance this consciousness and balance the development of this power.

First of all, from the most fundamental point of view-the values that the education mechanism should maintain. In recent years, crimes with high academic qualifications are on the rise, which is by no means an individual incident. The problems behind it deserve our deep thought.

People with higher education are often respected in society and regarded as role models. They are outstanding in personal ability, technology, psychological quality and even IQ. They are highly educated and use what they have learned to harm society. The bad influence is very great. Because their crimes will get more attention than ordinary people.

For example, on March 3rd13rd, Lin Senhao, a graduate student of Fudan Medical College, put the highly toxic substance N- dimethyl ammonium nitrate into the water dispenser, and his roommate Huang Yang was poisoned after drinking the water in the water dispenser, and died several days after emergency rescue. The day Lin Senhao was poisoned was the eve of April Fool's Day in the West!

In the court of first instance, Lin Senhao confessed to the fact of poisoning, but he called himself an April Fool's joke. Another roommate, Ge Moumou, indirectly took Lin Senhao to court. After the poisoning case, the physical symptoms discovered by Ge Moumou were very similar to those of experimental mice. Then Ge Moumou used SMS to remind people around him. Finally, the police arrested Lin Senhao.

Three people who should have a bright future and a high degree have completely changed their fate. Life is gone, and it is the lucky man who is waiting for legal punishment. I think they all had regrets and confusion at the last minute. In fact, it is no accident that the incident happened. Society, schools and families all have certain responsibilities. On the contrary, I think they are innocent.

When we talk about education, we are talking about "educating people", that is, guiding students how to behave and helping them establish their correct values. Everything should be people-oriented, not taking people as examination machines. Perhaps this is a long-standing problem in our education mechanism.

For example, students can get full marks in subjects, but they can get zero marks in morality, personality and emotional cultivation. From primary school to high school to university, this ideology has been deeply established on the parties. They don't understand the nature of life and sin at all.

Although they have a high level of education and knowledge, knowledge does not mean that they can be completely transformed into wisdom. You can't simply say that it's only their own fault. Their own education was not complete enough, which led to the later results.

The formation of values needs a process!

Causality. Fruit is the result of formation, but it is a process. We need to pay more attention to this "cause", which is what we need to study most.

Only by promoting social, economic and humanistic construction can we establish a correct and healthy concept of social development. When it comes to values, what I want to say is not personal values, but the values of the whole society. If the whole society is "mercenary". Then everyone's values will only be the word "profit", which is a terrible thing!

Everything in our society is commercialized. For example, TV programs pay attention to whether there are advertisements and whether they can be sold, which forms a child's value judgment: everything can be bought and sold. Society is making and consuming commodities, and people may become commodities. Encouraged by commercialization and consumption, there will be an indifferent ending to the destruction of life, which I think is the sorrow of mankind.

As long as it is profitable, you can despise life and ignore the constraints of morality and law. The fundamental problem is that society only cares about the development of materialization, but lacks attention to people. This development is unbalanced.

This phenomenon should be reviewed by the whole society, not individuals. In a mercenary society, everyone becomes a victim in the process of objectifying himself and others.

We should develop in a balanced way, not go to extremes. I think happiness comes from two places, one is material happiness; The other is spiritual happiness. They are two extremes and need to be balanced, because there is no absolute material happiness and no pure spiritual happiness. It is unhealthy to be partial to any extreme side.

For example, if you have a house and live in it, you can feel happy, because the house can bring a sense of security in life, you feel spiritual satisfaction and happiness, and you also have material things!

On the contrary, if you want to own a house, it is because the location of the house is a potential business district and a high-value urban area. You think it is worth investing or the money is getting better and better. This is materialized, and you don't need it at all.

The dilemma between matter and spirit has existed since ancient times. We can balance the two.

Maintaining the diversified development of society is the power to balance the materialized development. Society needs progress, but ultimately it serves people. Everything is based on human happiness. Capital is the driving force to promote social development, and humanistic care is the orientation of social development. The purpose is to meet people's needs. In such a cycle, only by * * * building * * and enjoying the society can sustainable development be achieved!