Well-known host Zhu Dan: Two marriages and two children, happiness in humble circumstances

On May 7, 2012, Zhu Dan posted on the social platform, "I succeed, I fail, that is mine, mine, understand?"

These words are fierce. If he is angry, he seems to be a different person from Zhu Dan, who is always intellectual and lively in everyone's impression.

At that time, it was Zhu Dan who decided to leave Zhejiang Satellite TV and jump to Hunan Satellite TV. Familiar fans advised her not to be impulsive.

Zhu Dan still ignored it and left Zhejiang Satellite TV.

Since leaving his old club, Zhu Dan has been constantly negative.

Mispronounced the text message number of an important program, costing the TV station tens of millions;

After returning after giving birth, he repeatedly mispronounced the name of the guest, making the audience question his hosting ability ;

In marriage, you humble yourself to the dust, but you deceive yourself and others and try to create an illusion of happiness...

However, if you understand Zhu Dan's past experience, perhaps, you will I will forgive her for everything today.

"Zhu Dan wants a career rather than a love life"

At the end of 2000, Zhu Dan, who was in his sophomore year, performed well in school and got the opportunity to intern at Zhejiang Satellite TV.

As a new arrival, with no previous work experience, Zhu Dan felt unfamiliar and new to the internship.

When he first started hosting the program "Weather", Zhu Dan was so nervous that he always forgot where the camera was.

Opposite Lin Han always reminded her gently, and Zhu Dan gave her a grateful look in response while being nervous.

The two have been collaborating on a show for a long time and are becoming more and more familiar with each other.

Lin Han and Zhu Dan are in the same year and are alumni, but he has already graduated and is a regular employee of the TV station. Although he has little work experience, it is easy to guide newcomers like Zhu Dan.

Over time, Zhu Dan and Lin Han became good friends who talked about everything.

We have known each other for five years, and colleagues in Taiwan often joke, "Look at how good you two are, or you two can get married."

Zhu Dan thought about it, and it seemed that it was not impossible. Okay, this is how the two established a romantic relationship.

Half a year later, Zhu Dan and Lin Han obtained a marriage certificate. But she didn't expect that within a year of their marriage, their relationship would take a turn for the worse.

Zhu Dan is sunny and confident, with a sweet smile. Her hosting program is deeply loved by the audience, and the station is paying more and more attention to her.

As Zhu Dan hosts more and more programs, she and Lin Han meet less and less.

The two of them used to face each other at the desk in Taili, but now one of them often just gets off the plane, and the other has already flown out for a business trip, and they often don't see each other.

In early 2007, the station launched a new program "I Love Memorizing Lyrics", which was almost tailor-made for Zhu Dan. Zhu Dan was busy reviewing the scripts and confirming the effectiveness of the program every day. Zhu Dan did not notice that Lin Han was becoming more and more dissatisfied.

In the past, the two of them were so close that they would sit hand in hand during meetings. Now that Zhu Dan is popular, during meetings, colleagues will take the initiative to remind her, "Sister Dan, please sit in the first row."

Lin Han had no choice but to sit in the back dejectedly.

In the past, everyone called this young couple Lin Han and Zhu Dan, but gradually Lin Han became "Zhu Dan's husband".

The contradiction became increasingly prominent. After a brief separation to calm down, Zhu Dan took the initiative to propose that he was willing to give up his current career for the sake of his family and could switch to hosting a more leisurely and relaxed program.

Lin Han disagreed.

In his opinion, he is already under a lot of pressure in the current situation where women are strong and men are weak. If Zhu Dan is asked to give up his career, such a big sacrifice will make him even more stressed.

After weighing the situation, the two decided to divorce.

Zhu Dan also didn’t expect that even though he worked so hard, he still couldn’t keep his love.

Regarding the reasons for the divorce, Lin Han said: "Zhu Dan wants a career, not a family life.

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“I thought I would find the right person, and I was ready to marry him.”

In fact, as early as when Zhu Dan and Lin Han were in love, the man’s parents had Strongly opposed.

Zhu Dan was from Jinhua, Zhejiang. When he was seven years old, his father died of severe lung disease. The family, which was not originally wealthy, not only emptied their savings but also borrowed money for his father's treatment. .

My father passed away, leaving behind a pile of debts and the underage Zhu Dan. All the burdens fell on my mother alone.

My mother was a female worker in a textile factory, and she left early and came home late every day. Not to mention the hard work, the income was also very limited.

When Zhu Dan came home from school that day, she heard voices at home.

It turned out that her aunt was here and she was discussing with her mother. Zhu Dan was going to be adopted. She had lost her father and now she was leaving her mother.

She stood outside the door and did not dare to go in. She was afraid that once inside, she would be taken away. My mother really agreed to my aunt's proposal.

Fortunately, my mother refused my aunt very firmly and said, "Sister, I know you are doing it for my own good, but I have to pull Dandan away no matter what." big. "

From then on, Zhu Dan became more sensible. When she came home from school, she took the initiative to help her mother wash the vegetables. When her mother was tired for a day, she would also use her little hands to massage her mother's back.

< p> The little Zhu Dan secretly vowed to study hard to get ahead and give her mother a better life.

When she graduated from high school, Zhu Dan applied for Zhejiang University of Communication and came to Hangzhou from Jinhua to attend university. , she met Lin Han.

Lin Han’s parents worked in a government unit. Although their family was not wealthy, they were well-off. They hoped that their son would find a girl with similar family conditions and get married early so that they could hold her in his arms. Grandson.

In their eyes, Zhu Dan is obviously not satisfied with his family background and complicated family relationships.

However, seeing that Zhu Dan is working hard and making progress, there is more and more room for improvement. Da, they finally agreed to the marriage.

But unexpectedly, they finally accepted Zhu Dan, but their marriage came to an end.

After the divorce, Zhu Dan even more so. Focusing on work, she not only hosted "I Love to Remember Lyrics", but also hosted many TV programs such as "Extraordinary" and "Love to Sing to Win", becoming the most popular female host of variety shows in China. < /p>

In 2011, Zhejiang Satellite TV launched "China Dream Show", and Zhu Dan became the host. Her partner was Zhou Libo, who switched jobs from Dragon TV.

However, the show was not over yet. , there were rumors that she and Zhou Libo were at odds, and Zhu Dan also personally confirmed that "their values ??are different."

Zhou Libo comes from the big city of Shanghai. He is a realist. He feels that any dream will not be realized if it is not possible. It’s not worth persevering.

But Zhu Dan said, “I come from a small place, and I think if you have a dream, you have to work hard, no matter whether it can be realized or not. If you have dreams, you will be happy. "

Not long after, some viewers discovered that Zhu Dan was hosting the "Daily Entertainment Report" on Beijing Satellite TV, which also confirmed the rumors that Zhu Dan had left Zhejiang Satellite TV.

From Zhejiang TV to Beijing TV , it is her new boyfriend Song Ke who connects Zhu Dan.

Song Ke is the boss of a well-known brokerage company. He is mature and stable. He can not only give guidance and help Zhu Dan in work, but also be careful and considerate in life. , also made Zhu Dan excited.

Song Ke hoped that Zhu Dan would settle in Beijing and continue to host on Beijing Channel.

Zhu Dan wanted to stay in Zhejiang, but she also felt that her hosting work was over. There wasn't much room for improvement. She wanted to act, but Song Ke was too aware of the complexity of the industry. He didn't want his girlfriend to be an actor.

The two of them refused to give in. The only thing they wanted to do was break up.

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Regarding this relationship, Zhu Dan responded: The breakup happened so suddenly that you didn’t have time to accept it. I thought I had found the right person and I was ready to marry him. "

After breaking up with Song Ke, Zhu Dan settled in Beijing and realized his dream of becoming an actor, where he met Zhou Yiwei.

"I have always had low self-esteem and cannot say anything profound or philosophical."

When she broke up with Song Ke, Zhu Dan admitted that the relationship made her very hurt.

Song Ke wears a white shirt all year round, which is what Zhu Dan likes. He is 16 years older than Zhu Dan. His career success has made him confident and confident about everything.

In front of him, the confident and sunny Zhu Dan in the show became a little ashamed of himself. He even felt that he was superficial and could not even say a few words of depth when talking to others.

However, Zhu Dan's inferiority complex is wrapped up in her self-confidence and is not easily revealed to others.

In 2012, Zhu Dan left Zhejiang Satellite TV amidst opposition and went to Hunan Satellite TV, the "dead rival" of his old club.

As a variety show star, Zhu Dan came to Hunan Satellite TV, and the station also gave her full sincerity and let her host "China's Strongest Voice".

This is a music talent show competing with Zhejiang Satellite TV's "The Voice of China", and Zhu Dan is a master at hosting it.

However, in the most important game of the final, Zhu Dan mispronounced the voting SMS number as the number of his old club Zhejiang Satellite TV.

After the show was broadcast, it was said that this small mistake cost the title sponsor tens of millions, and Zhu Dan became the target of public criticism.

Zhu Dan responded that she did make a slip of the tongue and read the wrong number when recording the program, but she immediately made up the correct one afterwards. She didn’t know why the wrong one was played when the program was broadcast. One edition.

Zhu Dan’s response was very aggrieved, but he was indeed wrong in the first place. As a result, her relationship with Hunan Satellite TV has also become tense.

A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise. After leaving Hunan Satellite TV, Zhu Dan just realized his dream of being an actor.

In 2013, when the movie "Embroidered Spring Knife" was launched, Zhu Dan met Zhou Yiwei, who was in the same crew.

Zhu Dan has also participated in some urban dramas before. This is her first time in a costume drama. Not to mention fighting scenes, Zhu Dan, who has always been cheerful and relaxed in variety shows, seems to be difficult to get into dramas. .

As a veteran actor who has been in the industry for many years, Yiwei Yi is quite handy, and he can give guidance to Zhu Dan from time to time.

Over time, Zhu Dan was fascinated by Yiwei's confident and daring temperament, which was exactly what Zhu Dan, who had always been cautious and cautious, lacked.

Not long after the filming of the movie started, news spread that Zhu Dan and Yiwei Yiwei were dating. However, Yiwei Yiwei was not well-known at the time, and Zhu Dan was the top star in domestic variety shows.

Especially in 2014, Zhu Dan entered the Forbes China Celebrity List as a host, which is beyond the reach of Zhou Yiwei.

In the eyes of outsiders, the two people are so unequal, and it is because Zhou Yiwei is so high-ranking.

However, Zhu Dan is very happy with this relationship.

"I hope that in the future he will be very tolerant of me and have a strong heart"

After breaking up with Song Ke, Zhu Dan felt that she was not mature enough. If she meets her partner again, she hopes that he will Not only can you tolerate yourself, but you must also be mentally strong.

It turns out that she finally found her satisfying partner.

In 2017, after four years of dating, Zhu Dan and Yiwei Zhou got married in a low-key manner and gave birth to their daughter in September of that year.

After the birth of his daughter, Zhu Dan had almost no work arrangements. He only produced a cultural and travel documentary "Dan Xingxian", and the rest was a guest on variety shows, occasionally showing his face.

After getting married, Yiwei Yi worked more and more, and well-received film and television dramas such as "I'm Not the God of Medicine" and "The Twelve Hours of Chang'an" also made him more and more famous.

During this period, someone discovered that Yiwei Zhou was talking, laughing and behaving intimately with the female assistant in private. The two of them even used a straw to drink a cup of milk tea.

Many people expressed dissatisfaction with Zhou Yiwei's behavior, thinking that a married man was too careless about his words and deeds, and more people were unworthy of Zhu Dan who gave up his job to take care of his children at home.

Zhu Dan personally responded in an article, not appreciating the netizens' consideration. Instead, he believed that the media deliberately painted Zhou Yiwei as a bad guy.

A few short lines of words blocked the mouths of the melon-eating crowd.

Not long after, Zhu Dan posted photos of his second son on Weibo.

A few months after her son was born, Zhu Dan also fully resumed work. However, as she said herself, she attracted countless criticisms because she was not very good at talking.

When hosting the show, Zhu Dan called "Guli Nazha" "Dilraba", "Li Wenhan" "Li Wenhao", and "Chen Linong" "Chen Linong" "Zhao Linong"...

Such frequent slips of the tongue do not look like an excellent host with long experience, and also make people question Zhu Dan's professional ability.

In the program "Men Doing Housework", everyone shared their family life. When talking about how to solve the problem when the other half is angry, Zhu Dan's statement was surprising.

Zhu Dan said that every time she was angry, she never argued or reasoned. She felt that was too ungraceful. Her method is to keep a cold war, not speaking, and ignoring people.

Faced with Zhu Dan like this, Yiwei Yi also treated him coldly. He waited for an hour or two before taking the initiative to speak.

Although Zhu Dan was still in an angry mood, Yiwei Zhou did not coax her or say soft words, but told her, "Now we are going to let you go down the stairs. If you don't come down, you will not even come down." There are no more steps.”

Zhu Dan’s face was full of happiness when he said this, while Li Dan and other guests who were watching the same show looked puzzled.

Talking about the moment that he thought his partner touched him the most, Zhu Dan said that after giving birth to his son, Yiwei Yi once cooked a bowl of wontons for her. Zhu Dan was deeply moved when he discovered all this.

She didn’t dare to say anything because she didn’t want to ruin the beauty in front of her. Instead, she picked up her phone and recorded the scene that moved her.

This was an ordinary act in family life, but in Zhu Dan's view, it was unprecedentedly touching.

This provoked Li Dan, who was standing next to him, to say without hesitation, "Sister Dan, we are also such a well-known female host, how can we not be so humble?"

Still immersed in Zhu Dan, who was in happiness, pretended to be angry and said to Li Dan: "Are you going to smash my happiness with your own hands now?"

When the program was broadcast, many viewers expressed the same confusion as Li Dan, who was confident and generous Why was Zhu Dan so moved by such a small gesture, and why was he so humble?

Zhang Ailing once said: "Because I understand, I am compassionate."

The environment in which he grew up made Zhu Dan particularly cherish opportunities and become cautious. At the same time, in order not to be hurt, she established a defense mechanism on her own, using superficial self-confidence to cover up her inner inferiority.

Zhu Dan was already 36 years old when she gave birth to her first child. People who have not experienced the hardship of having two children in a row cannot understand the hardship of being a mother.

People say that one pregnancy makes a fool of three years. People who have not experienced it may laugh at her, but people who have had the same experience will only sympathize with her.

As for some people who say that she is humble in marriage, she always creates an illusion of happiness, burying her head like an ostrich to deceive herself and others.

Happiness is like drinking water, knowing whether it is warm or cold.

On February 2, Zhu Dan posted a new look for the New Year online. Her son was playing by the window, her daughter was doing her homework seriously, and she and Zhou Yiwei were filming the video with smiles on their faces.

Everything is quiet, peaceful and beautiful. Isn’t this a kind of happiness?