What if the secret admirer says he bothers you every day?

Look at your problem, you are more troubled than this girl. You haven't made it clear about your relationship with this girl, so I'll assume you're still chasing her.

Your troubles stem from the fact that you have too few topics with her.

Why do you say that?

1. 1500 SMS doesn't mean anything. Three months, 1500 text messages, 500 text messages a month. How come? Not much, actually. If you really chat and tell stories by SMS, you can write 1500 articles a month.

You always ask her questions. Why do you always ask her questions? Because you don't know what to say to each other, what they like, and don't care about their current dynamics. So, you change from active to passive, don't take the initiative to tell your own life and story, and throw the problem to the other side.

3. "Boredom" is actually a manifestation of mentality. A person is upset, and everything is annoying. I think, she just lives a dull life, day after day, three meals a day, and one night's sleep. Every day, you greet "What are you doing?" Put yourself in others' shoes. Are you so bored every day? A boy always sends me the same message, no jokes, no fun, no surprises, no excitement, nothing, just let me tell him what I ate and slept. Aren't you bored?

So, you like to say that you are bored, which is a sign. You should pay attention to the way you chase girls.

The solution is simple.

First of all, you should think clearly, observe and think:

Your ultimate goal is to win the favor of girls and be willing to associate with you.

-& gt； First of all, you should let the other person know more about your good, that is, show your life (life here is not only to express your aesthetics, knowledge and expertise, but also to share with the other person the interesting, irritating, distressing and happy things that have happened in your life). Don't always ask some nonsense. It's like saying "Have you eaten?" Just as boring.

-& gt； Secondly, we should observe what the other person likes, likes, likes, and takes something by surprise. You can buy two movie tickets that she likes and ask directly if you have time to go to the movies together. Take the initiative and be strong. Or treat her as an intimate elder sister, tell her troubles and troubles directly, and let her become a listener again. Deepen your communication through this transformation of multiple roles.

-& gt； Finally, it depends on your determination and sincerity. It is basically impossible not to refuse things that are smooth sailing. You should show your frankness and generosity. Don't lose information or get depressed because of her temporary refusal. You know, giving him a healthy and happy image is more effective. At the same time, you should refuse her appropriately to show that you have a colorful life, just like the upstairs saying "playing hard to get", which is used at this time to make her curious about your life (not your unilateral curiosity). At the same time, inspire her to want to integrate into your life.

Good luck. Don't be upset.

Hope to adopt!