Love, what should I do?

You have to be mature and steady. Don’t confess your feelings from now on. Let her know that you care about her, like her, love her, and care about her more in life. This can also be reflected in text messages; in terms of food, clothing, housing, transportation, and work. Just really care about her. Don't be afraid that your initiative will offend her. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative either, and it will gradually fade away. If your initial confession is rejected by her, that's normal. Don't be discouraged, who knows what this girl is thinking? The most important thing at this stage is not to be in a hurry, and not to make things so clear that people can tell at a glance that you are chasing them. Think about it, most people will not fall in love with you at first glance, but they will also not dislike you at first glance. Think about it from the perspective of a girl: if you rush over to find someone so directly, the girl will definitely There is psychological pressure. If I find out that I don't like you after being in contact for a while, wouldn't it be like playing tricks on you? So if you come out with a determined attitude from the beginning, you will basically be put back immediately. ?To start with a low profile, you must first position the relationship as a "friend". It is originally an "ordinary friend". You want to be a "good friend". If you have good taste, you can also ask the other party to become a "confidante" or something. In short, never say "Chasing you". Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then the girl will have less chance to "reject" you - how can she reject you if you don't pursue her? ! This can reduce the psychological pressure on girls and enable you to have a smooth relationship. Don't imagine that you will agree to marry you after only three days of knowing each other. You need to fully communicate and understand each other. Feelings do not arise out of thin air. ?Don’t be too impatient in the process of dating, be relaxed, and don’t pester others all day long. You will get tired of anyone who treats you like this. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing a girl is eight words - "hot and cold, playing hard to get" (this is the culmination of many years of hard work by my classmate). Naturally, they won't think well of you if you keep pestering them all day long. If you cool off for a day or two, the girl will remember the benefits of your presence. Also, don't have the ambition of "I won't marry you unless you". It's not good if the price is too low. Sometimes you can use some tricks. ?Create opportunities appropriately. As mentioned earlier, don't make things immediately turn into "you are chasing someone else", and you need to get the opportunity to get close to girls. At this time, it depends on your creativity. You can collect intelligence and find ways to turn waiting around into an encounter; you can also pretend to be casual and find the most sufficient reasons to invite the other person to do something with you. In short, this is the most technical place. If it doesn't work, you can ask your seniors for advice. ?Be careful not to give gifts to others casually. It is impolite. Some people are eager to chase girls and like to buy things and give them to others. However, they do not know that this is the most taboo thing for chasing girls. As the saying goes, "No reward for no work". If you give things to others like this, you are putting pressure on them. People will feel that they owe you something, so they will try to pay you back. If they can't pay you back, they will try to stop interacting with you. So as not to always owe you favors. If you want to show your sincerity, you might as well ask a girl to spend money together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat, or finding an expensive place to play together. Girls can naturally see that you spend a lot of money, but after all, money is Two people spent it together instead of turning it into something to take home.