I saw a short message on my husband's mobile phone saying I love you or something … I asked him, and he said that a friend used his mobile phone. Is this true or not?

First of all, I tell you, don't ask your husband again, don't read his cell phone text messages or anything that makes him think you are suspicious of his behavior. That's playing dumb. If you continue to investigate this problem in depth, it will only irritate your man. It's not good for you either.

This kind of farfetched perfunctory, is generally cheated by the man. As for the intention behind the derailment, there is still no conclusion. So it's fake,

But you should learn to play dumb. It doesn't matter whether it's true or not. It's important that you keep your relationship. Playing dumb can give you enough time to adjust your mentality and objectively analyze what your husband will do in the future. You should give yourself some time to keep silent and calm down. Don't lose your temper and show him your cards. Just hold back.

Then you will find your own problems, whether you have changed since you got married, and so on. Or your husband can't stand loneliness or something. In short, we should calm down and analyze the factors of both sides. I don't know about you, but I want to tell you that you must hold your horses. Maybe your forgiveness will bring him back to life.

Just pretend nothing happened and do what you have to do, but keep your eyes open, watch his actions and pay attention to his behavior. I guess either you have changed, become less gentle and have a bad temper, or he has changed. But you should change your behavior appropriately, be romantic appropriately, or create some small setbacks, so that he can understand that home flowers are the most reliable harbor and his reliance, although there are no wild flowers. It doesn't matter if men are not sensible sometimes. Just play dumb and do something to make him understand that his wife is always the best for him. Bring him back.