A divorce letter to her husband

Every marriage is different. Some couples didn't come to the final fate, and they announced their divorce at halftime and lived separately. Below, I sorted out the model essays written to my husband by divorce. Welcome to read!

Divorce Letter to Husband Fan Dear Husband:

Hello!

I want to say hello to you. Your 12-year long and bumpy divorce road has been very difficult.

I didn't want to write to you, because I didn't want to recall the past, but you forced me to divorce so hard that I couldn't communicate with you (I was afraid that the conversation wasn't as good as you thought, so you attacked me again), so I had to turn on the computer to sort out my thoughts. Because my hand hurts, I can't hold on to much typing time. I want to simply answer the difficult question you gave me.

Looking at the computer screen, although I don't know how to write it, I have a firm determination: to carry our marriage through to the end! In order to give my son a complete home, and for me in my forties, I will carry our marriage to the end!

I know you are not satisfied with this answer. Divorce is really hard for you to live with me.

Just say you don't love me and don't want to live with me. Then why did you marry me twice? ! After the divorce in 2005, the house was sold and you said you would hold hands with me again. I want to go back to my house and remarry with you, and now you want a divorce. Don't you think it's too deceptive? ! Don't I have to do nothing to accompany you all my life?

You only think about the bright future after divorce, and I must also consider the hard journey after divorce. I've been beaten black and blue by you many times, and my arm bone grafting is still recovering. My two broken ribs often hurt, and now I can't take care of myself. I have to do an operation without medical insurance, and I have to pay high medical expenses. You won't let me go to work to take care of my family. You said that there are many other people's wives who don't work. Are you hungry? For this reason, I also lost my business to make a living. I specialize in cooking and washing at home to take care of your father and son's daily life. I have to pay four or five thousand old-age insurance every year, and my child's college tuition is 20 thousand a year. Once you and I get divorced, I will think about my future life.

You let me think again today, and you must let me answer it before it can be fulfilled? Your divorce wish, please pay me120,000 cash (because I want to have surgery to treat your injury), and buy me old-age insurance every year until I retire, and you will bear two-thirds of my children's college tuition. Otherwise, no way! I know this is nothing to you with an annual income of more than 100 thousand, because after divorce, I have to stand on my own feet, and I have to consider my medical expenses, living expenses and children's tuition. After 22 years of marriage, I have devoted my youth and all my energy to this family. In this way, I am also helpless and reluctant to open our home. Even if you break the contract, you should compensate for the loss.

Maybe you want to scold me mgb, dxd, grd over and over again after seeing this. Then I will silently bring you a cup of warm water, just like the day before yesterday, and advise you to drink some water, so don't get angry. Being angry is not good for your health. That's it. Let's not get divorced. Let's have a good life together Be careful that your blood pressure will rise. Honey, don't break anything, these are all household items that we have worked hard to make. You can buy it if you kick it out. How painful is your leg? You always say I'm smirking at you. Don't you want to see your wife smile at home every day?

You said you would go out to live, but I will still tell you how warm it is to live at home, how cold it is outside, and how comfortable it is to live at home without hot water to take a bath.

You are always angry and say, how do you live? ! I will still tell you that you go to work every day and go home for dinner after work. I cook at home and take care of each other in life. I will take care of all the housework after my arm and rib injuries are healed. You take out your salary every month to treat my injury. We will plan the living expenses, the children's tuition and keep accounts together. The rest should be saved to buy a house for his son, find a job and provide for the elderly. That's it. Sometimes I think that if I marry another husband in the future, I will live like this.

Honey, you are 50 years old. How many years do we have left when we are old? When we first got married, we used to have a bungalow and a bicycle. Now we have no worries about food and clothing. How can we get by?

All disappointments will pass quickly, and so will all bad moods. Remember? You texted me last summer and said, I reiterate: I never thought about divorce at all, and I will never mention these two words again. What is before us is to cherish and manage it. ? I still leave this beautiful message, and I still believe what you said is true.

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Divorce Letter to Husband Fan Husband:

I can still call you that, but my heart hurts. Maybe I can't call you so soon. Now I can't imagine anyone who will call you husband in the future. I only hope that the woman you choose again can love you more, be smarter, be more capable and tolerate you more than I do. Maybe then you will give her the love you didn't give me, the tenderness and care you didn't give me, and I hope you can be really happy.

We have said countless times that it is not easy to get together. How can I give up easily? Love, marriage, buying a house, decoration, everything has come, just a child, but we have come to an end; Maybe you think you have paid more than me, maybe you think my ability and economy are limited; But I feel that I didn't ask you like other women, and I didn't ask to marry you unconditionally. When I got married, I took off my wedding dress and didn't even have to change my new clothes. I want to have a baby with you willingly, even if I want to bring it myself.

We used to cherish each other's feelings. Although I am willful, I have paid for your feelings without reservation. I am confident that you will cherish, love and tolerate me forever, but I didn't expect our fate to be so shallow. I've only seen other people's feelings come quickly, and you were so sad when you went. I never thought my feelings would be like this, and they were all empty in the end.

Along the way, I feel that I have lost my dignity. I trust our feelings too much. I think you will love me, protect me, miss me, be afraid of my sadness, and won't let me be wronged under any circumstances. Always believe what you once said: I am the one you are looking for; You fell in love with me at first sight. So I can live my life now. This is my own choice and responsibility, which has nothing to do with others, but time flies and I can't turn back. I am too blind and emotional, but I don't know that our feelings have changed. Now I understand that everyone has their own inner world, even people in love can't completely belong to another person. When you are in love, you will ignore many things that you care about very much. The reason is that you want to completely conquer each other. For example, you used to care so much about each other's financial conditions that you couldn't bear to write my name when buying a house. But because you cared about me at that time, you were tolerant for the time being. I was a fool when I was in love, and I was never rational until now. When you don't love, everything that was tolerated before is magnified, and it becomes so embarrassing and intolerable that even the other person doesn't like it. Walking in the street, every woman may force her wife to be fine. Perhaps this is the cruelest reality. You have to accept it if you don't accept it.

Just don't want to see each other have new feelings before divorce, just like rubbing salt on the wound; I only hope that each other can respect their true feelings, and don't make the once beautiful things so ferocious that they defile their feelings with others.

Since there are too many things that can't be changed, whether it's personality, views on certain things or other ideas, don't force yourself. If I really don't think about it, it won't change anything. If I persist, I will only harm myself and others, and I will continue to hurt people around me. It doesn't matter what I can't do I know you cherish this house more than I do, so I thank you for writing my name in that complicated state of mind. But for me, without love, how can I run this family?

My thoughts are very traditional. I have always believed that the family belongs to two people, and it has nothing to do with who earns more money and who earns less. Maybe this is also the gap between us. In your heart, you may always think that you earned this home, so you didn't say so until the night I left. Call me sad or call me desperate. Maybe I'm still dreaming.

I have been in love for four years and a half, and I have cooked for you countless times. You've only cooked a few times since my first miscarriage. After four years of love, I washed your clothes countless times. You bought a new washing machine and washed it twice. I have cleaned the room countless times. In order to spend the weekend with you, I basically wait for you at home every weekend, basically isolated from the outside world. Maybe you will say that I have no friends, but you have brought my heart back to my family. After four years of love, I shed too many tears for you, and the tears of sadness and despair are far greater than the tears of happiness; After more than two years of marriage, I called your parents countless times? Mom and dad? You seldom call my parents; After more than four years of love, I have basically recovered your constipation and stomach trouble, but mine is serious; We have been in love for more than four years, and we haven't even played in South Kyoto. After four years of love, Doni only sent me flowers once; I have loved you for more than four years. I have two children, one has miscarried and the other is stunted. I was hospitalized for the first time in my life, but you were not with me. You said you would make it up to me, but you just said it. Married for two years, never had two anniversaries, and never had a honeymoon like others; After two years of marriage, you didn't accompany me back to my mother's house in the second Spring Festival, and because you broke my parents' hearts; Married twice, and my first birthday after marriage was also my thirtieth birthday, so you didn't give me a good life; I have been in love for more than four years, and my colleagues and friends think I am very happy. In fact, my heart is more depressed than anyone else?

You don't have to hate me so much. You have to face what you have to face. Since nothing can be changed, choose to end it. Don't let this heavy marriage affect your bright future. I can't continue this life without care, consideration and dignity. If one day you think of it, let me know. As for the procedure, we'll discuss it.

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