Dear Love once exploded the circle of friends, which three cruel facts about love were revealed?

Family background determines a person's view of love.

Han and his childhood have completely different personalities, depending on their origins. Gun's parents died young and lived with his stepmother since childhood.

Without a complete family, no father loves his mother's love, and no matter how good his stepmother is to him, his heart is hard to be complete.

Growing up in such a bumpy family made Gun feel sensitive and inferior. His cold appearance is actually a way of self-protection. Only this hard and cold shell can make him look strong.

He is 30 years old and has never been in love, and he is very concerned about his personality.

What does love mean? This means opening your heart and showing yourself to each other.

In addition, there is a fusion of life and emotional ties.

All these are what Okada longed for, but he can't do it.

Contrary to Han, Tong Nian was born in a happy family, with loving parents, good education and his own strength, which made Tong Nian full of confidence and confidence.

Therefore, when she meets Gun, she can be desperate to pursue this unreachable idol. She can't afford to lose even if a moth puts out the fire.

It is understandable that Gun will fall in love with Tong Nian, because the light and heat on Tong Nian are what he yearns for.

His relationship with grandpa has been a little tense. Grandpa doesn't understand what he is doing or how to make him accept it.

However, mindfulness has a magical power. The moment I got along with my grandfather, his gentleness and thoughtfulness made the gun very moved.

It can be said that childlike innocence makes up for the missing piece of the gun heart. As for her childhood, she received enough love from an early age. Seeing Gun's loneliness and fatigue, she wanted to share it with him.

Although Tong Nian is smaller than Gun, it actually plays the role of Gun's inner parents. In fact, being born in a family will affect a person's love view and direction.

02

Women are more likely to be happy if they take the initiative.

Traditional education always tells women that in love, if you take the initiative, you will become fall in price and men will not cherish it.

Actually, it's not like this. Taking the initiative doesn't mean losing, but you are the protagonist of the story.

To tell you the truth, I admire children's thoughts. It was love at first sight when I met Gun. She can face up to her inner feelings and strive for what she wants.

If the average girl meets an idol, she only dares to hide her love silently in her heart, feeling that she is not worthy, and even dares not stand on tiptoe to try.

But tong nian is different. In order to get close to Gun, she can often send him messages on her own initiative, regardless of whether the other party replies or not. She can try her best to watch his game and show her love generously. ...

Childhood finally deserves to be with Han and be happy.

I think many women should learn from children's thoughts. If they meet someone they like, they will fight for it. If they win, they will have no regrets even if they fail.

I never think that women who strive for their own happiness are mean, but they are brave and powerful.

Many women often fantasize that their prince will come on a white horse, but love comes not by waiting, but by hard work.

When something good happens, let the other person see his own advantages, express his inner feelings, and leave the rest to the other person.

In love, what I fear most is regret and missing.

Watch Heartbeat Signal. In the signal cabin, two girls are interested in the same boy. One of them is very active, will take the initiative to talk to each other, and will hint at each other's own thoughts.

The other girl just sat in the corner and looked at the boy silently. What's the final outcome?

This boy is certainly closer to a more active woman.

In fact, a lot of love is spent in waiting. Women should not always care about initiative and passivity. They might as well be brave once. Maybe the next gun is yours.

03

In love, respect and communication are more important than love

In this play, I not only pay attention to Han and Tong Nian, but also pay attention to Wang Hao and Ai Qing.

Ai Qing fell in love with Wang Hao at first sight, and later joined the team to fight alongside him.

After two people are together, they also have a very sweet life. Later, we broke up because Wang Hao's predecessor gave birth to a child. Because the child had a problem with his ears and his predecessor was unable to support him, he brought the child to him. Wang Hao accepted the child without saying anything.

From the father's point of view, Wang Hao is a good father. In order to take care of his daughter, he sacrificed his career and life.

But from the perspective of love, he is not responsible enough.

Years later, Ai Qing recalled this relationship. She said that the breakup was not because Wang Hao had a child, but because Wang Hao had never discussed it with her.

In fact, it can be seen that Ai Qing loves Wang Hao very much, but Wang Hao only thinks about himself and never considers Ai Qing's feelings.

Respect and communication in feelings are more important than love.

Imagine that if Wang Hao and Ai Qing had discussed it, Ai Qing would have accepted the child, and they might have been married long ago, instead of making this situation today.

There will always be some ups and downs in intimate relationships. The most important thing is to let the other person know his heart, so as to adjust each other's mode of getting along.

Similarly, when encountering problems, only communication can reach a solution.

The other is respect. Each of us needs to be respected. In our relationship, if there is any intrusion that will affect our feelings, you should ask me what I think, instead of going it alone.

In fact, Wang Hao is a good father, but not a good partner. When he accepted the child, he completely ignored Ai Qing's feelings. Perhaps in his heart, he also acquiesced that Ai Qing would not accept it and their love would end, but all this was unfair to Ai Qing.

"Dear Love" lies in the fact that this drama is not a simple sweet drama, it shows a lot of truth about love, and it is more worthy of our consideration.

The three items summarized above: family background determines love, women will have a greater chance of happiness on their own initiative, and the importance of respect and communication in love. I hope you can all be inspired.

Love is the most important course in life. In this process, we love each other and exercise ourselves.