I have taken care of my grandson for three years, and my daughter-in-law never gives me living expenses. what do you think?

I took care of my grandson for three years, and my daughter-in-law didn't give me a dime. On her birthday, she made a circle of friends and I burst into tears.

I am an ordinary rural woman, my wife left early, and I raised my son alone. Fortunately, my son has lived up to expectations. After I entered the university, I found an ideal job in the city. A few years later, I married my daughter-in-law and bought a house. Everyone in the village praised me for my good luck when they saw me.

Although the wages of sons and daughters-in-law add up to more than 10 thousand a month, they are expensive in the city and frugal. After my grandson was born, I left him in my care to save money and because I was busy with my work.

I am a tough guy. Besides bringing my grandchildren, I also grow some vegetables in the backyard. Grandson is very sensible and seldom cries, and my life with him is quite happy.

Besides eating my own vegetables, I also choose to go to town to buy them, but most of the money I earn is spent on my grandson, paying his tuition, buying clothes and snacks. My son sends some money back occasionally, but I never ask them for it. On the one hand, they are short of money, on the other hand, I am willing to make money to spend on my grandson.

But sometimes I feel depressed. I also help my son take care of his grandson. Aunt Wang, the village chief, doesn't pay a penny. Her son sends back 2000 yuan of living expenses every month. It's not that I'm greedy, but that I envy seeing another son's filial piety.

Although I occasionally have small opinions, I never mention them to my son and daughter-in-law. I just complain to my neighbors. Aunt Wang sometimes laughs at me: "Look at you, you are a big old man. When you were young, you devoted all your efforts to your son. Now you should enjoy your old age, but you still have to earn money to support your grandchildren! " Once I couldn't help it, I retorted: "Yes, your son is very filial and sends you money every month, but they don't come several times a year, but my son comes to see me every three days!" Giving money is not necessarily filial, and not giving money is not necessarily heartless! " .

A few days ago, my birthday happened to be the same day as my daughter-in-law's mother. That morning, I was studying geography. I suddenly received a text message on my mobile phone. When I went to pick it up, my daughter-in-law actually sent me a birthday red envelope of 3000 yuan through WeChat. She also wished me a happy birthday and a long life. I look happy. My wife still has me in her heart. By the way, I asked her if she would come back for dinner tonight.

After a while, my daughter-in-law sent back a message: "Mom, I want to come back, too, but the company has to work overtime today, and I really can't leave." We'll go back and reissue your birthday another day! " Finally, my daughter-in-law also said that I had a hard time with my children! I quickly replied that it doesn't matter, work is important, in fact, it doesn't matter whether they come back or not, as long as I have this filial piety, I will be very gratified. As for taking care of my grandson, I don't feel tired at all. My grandchildren are so cute that they can take me, trust and understand me. After all, my grandson's company gave me a lot of joy and comfort.

After I finished my work in the field, I went home to cook. I was in a good mood at noon, and specially made braised pork for my grandson. I am very happy to watch my grandson eat two bowls of rice. After tidying up the dishes, I took my grandson to blow at the door. The air in the country is good and the breeze is comfortable. Open a circle of friends when you are idle and see the dynamics sent by your daughter-in-law an hour ago.

There is a paragraph of text and two screenshots of red envelopes in the dynamic, one is a red envelope for her mother to transfer 1000 yuan, and the other is a red envelope for me to send 3000 yuan. The text is: I wish the two mothers a happy birthday, good health and all the best!

Many people in the village added their daughter-in-law's WeChat, and they commented in the circle of friends: "What a bias!" "Mom 1000, mother-in-law 3000. Is that all right? " "You are better to your mother-in-law than your mother!" My daughter-in-law also replied to everyone. "She doesn't care how much I give my mother. My mother-in-law has been helping me with my children for three years. She paid for living expenses and tuition. Give her more red envelopes, and my mother won't have any problems. It is really hard for her to take care of the children! " Afterwards, many people praised and agreed with their daughter-in-law.

After reading it, I quietly turned off my mobile phone and felt warm in my heart. I didn't expect an unspeakable daughter-in-law to be so considerate and understand my feelings. Thought of here, I think everything is worth it. I will take better care of my grandson in the future!