People with high emotional intelligence ask people to do things.

1. Use honorifics when making requests.

2. Asking questions can express due respect more than statements. Asking questions is more likely to make the other person feel respected.

3, let the other party make a decision, it is easier to achieve the goal. Although you are eager for a positive reply from the other party, you must give the decision to the other party when making a request to avoid ultra vires behavior.

4. Grasp the timing of the request and realize your wishes. For example, if the other person is doing something else, don't ask for it at this time, it will disturb others and make people bored.

5. Understand and face others' responses calmly. If the request is rejected, you should also learn to understand and think that the other party may have difficulties. After being rejected, you should try to ask others for help instead of complaining or making noise. Stay calm, you can try again, and if you are still rejected, you should say thank you and show proper manners.