If one day you meet your ex who you haven’t seen for a long time, what will you say first?

I saw a video online two days ago. The video said: "If one day, your ex who you haven't seen for a long time suddenly appears in front of you, if you can only say four words in the first sentence, What would you say?”

Regarding this question, netizens gave their own answers. The answers of netizens are roughly divided into the following categories:

The first is still Those who never forget: I miss you so much, please come back, I still love you, I can't forget you, don't leave me, hug me, wait for me, do you still love me, wish you happiness, are you married, don't marry her Ah...

The second type is resentful: I haven’t finished hating you yet, I regret it, it’s impossible, stay away from me, never see me again, you’re in the way, let me go. , Still alive, please get out of the way, walk slowly without seeing me off, you betrayed me, I don’t love you anymore, I’m married, get out of here...

The third type is polite: Long time no see , Stay safe, are you okay, Hello, what a coincidence, Hello, goodbye, the world is so small...

The fourth type is funny: Come on, brother, buy insurance or not, give me inheritance, Pay me back my money quickly...

There are also those who choose to remain silent.

But no matter what the answer is, whether you love it or hate it, these answers actually project the same point - that is, you can't let go completely yet.

In fact, this feeling is normal. "Ex Guide" says: "Not everyone can be called ex, and ex is not just a certain person, it is the trace left in your heart by everyone who has passed by."

Since that Someone has left traces in your heart, and the traces may be very deep. Of course, it is difficult for you to let go of them easily.

"Crown of Thorns" said: "Every ex is a growth."

I believe that no matter whether your ex has brought you joy or pain, he will definitely teach you Got you something.

In the book, the author Dukou said that she was once rejected for a manuscript until she cried. However, she remembered that her predecessor had said that you must have professionalism at work, so she gritted her teeth and persisted. Gradually, she discovered that she was originally Things you thought you couldn't do can actually be done.

She said that she hated being like a fool in front of her ex, so she worked hard in order to one day be able to talk to him on an equal footing.

My friend Xiaoya broke up with her boyfriend of three years a year ago. After the breakup, Xiaoya was very sad. At this time, her colleague Xiao Hao walked into her life. She was so moved by Xiao Hao's kindness to her that she soon agreed to Xiao Hao's pursuit.

But after getting together with Xiaohao, Xiaoya found that she would always think of her ex-boyfriend from time to time. No matter how she tried to forget, the voice and smile of her ex-boyfriend could not go away from her mind.

As a result, her relationship with Xiao Hao only lasted two months before breaking up.

Afterwards, she told me with enlightenment: "When you haven't dealt with the last relationship well, you really can't start a new relationship too quickly, otherwise it will be harmful to yourself and others. Such harm."

My sister's friend Lily got divorced some time ago. My sister said that Lily's marriage failed was expected.

Because long before Lily got married, her sister advised her not to be so hasty and to think carefully before speaking.

Because her sister saw that the relationship between Lily and her ex-husband was not very deep. It was only because Lily saw that all her friends around her were married and she was already old that she was anxious to get married.

This kind of marriage for the sake of marriage will certainly not be a happy one.

After the divorce, Lily said: "Rather than endure this torturing marriage, it is better to remain single."

So no matter what the ex has brought to us, he must have taught us Something about us: what makes us regretful teaches us to cherish the people in front of us, what brings us pain teaches us to keep our eyes open to see people.

No matter what, the past has passed. From the moment you broke up, you became the most familiar strangers in the world. If it's irreversible, you have to learn to let it go. That way, you will be happier!