I liked a girl very much and I pursued her normally. She didn’t say anything and directly told her family that I was harassing her. This incident shocked me very much.

You are wrong.

Because you have not behaved like an ordinary friend at all, and I am sure that your words and methods are not those of an ordinary friend.

‘Come out for a meal, who should I go with?’ ‘What’s wrong? OK! Then another day~’

The word casual is used to describe the connection between ordinary friends. You are too affectionate. Although you have never said it out loud, people’s feelings are very sensitive, especially women.

'I happen to be working in your city. I'll leave the day after tomorrow. If you have time, call me and come out. If you don't have time, I'll owe you~ha'

A lot of this If you say anything, she will let you see her, but she is afraid of you now. Really, it's not that she doesn't want to see you but she is afraid of you.

It has become very embarrassing now, so it is difficult to recover, but it is not impossible.

After a while, you can send her a text message to tell her that you have a partner and are about to get engaged. or have already met her parents

Then if she replies, don’t send messages and chat continuously. You can stop replying halfway through the conversation, and then send a message the next day, “Sorry, something happened yesterday. No reply, haha" and then ended with a few words, don't chat

After a month or two of such a simple and short communication, your impression will change

Haha, It's a bit far to say. If you can really get to this point, you can come to me again and I will tell you how to bring the relationship closer~

This is not a shadow at all. Really, people are growing. You will encounter countless setbacks, misunderstandings, regrets, and embarrassments on the road. These are just your experiences. Remembering them and understanding them is enough, isn’t it?