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How to say no is never embarrassing?

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Smile indifferently.

It's embarrassing to be rejected, whether it's seen by many people or just the two of you. But in any case, you have to continue this "confession", don't you? You can't finish what you started. If the other person refuses you, don't become angry from embarrassment, let alone act sad, which will make you feel uncomfortable when you think about it. It is better to smile at each other, smile mysteriously, and then turn away when the other person is confused, or talk to each other like that. In short, let the other person feel that your confession just now is like a dream.

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Hurry and comfort each other.

Confession made the other party refuse? Never mind, turn around and try to comfort each other, so that they don't feel sorry for you, let alone feel sorry for you, just think that you are sleepwalking. Rejected, you should be sad, but you turn around to comfort each other, so that they don't quite understand your true psychology, then you avoid a lot of embarrassment. Think of it this way: a person confessed to us, and we refused, but ta tried to comfort us. Besides wondering if ta is crazy, you will be confused. What was the confession just now? What exactly does ta mean? Are you kidding? Wait a minute. Or the person who refuses you will still think you are generous, and you may not know it when you turn around and accept it.

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Tell each other that you are making ta happy.

The person you want to confess will definitely be someone you know very well. Even if the other person doesn't know you very well, you will certainly know each other. Otherwise, how can you know others? When you finally get up the courage to confess but are rejected, if you want to resolve the embarrassment and continue to associate with ta, then you must find a way to resolve that embarrassment at the first time. I'll teach you a way to solve the embarrassment of two people at the same time. You can laugh heartily, then pat each other on the shoulder and tell them whether the joke is funny or not. You know, it is embarrassing to be rejected, and it is also embarrassing to refuse a person's courtship. If you resolve the embarrassment in this way, the person you profess will feel more relaxed, and you won't be embarrassed.

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Ask the other person how you express yourself in this way.

No matter how you resolve the embarrassment, the other party can know what is going on, even if your "acting skills" are no matter how good, the other party knows. But in order to "cooperate" with your "performance" and not to embarrass yourself, you will pretend not to understand. Then you can ask the other person the first time you are rejected, if your confession room is ok, because you like a girl/boy, but you don't know how to confess, so you want to have a try. Then you look at each other with innocent eyes. I just want to tell you that if a boy does this to me, I will beat him with a smile, and then continue to associate with him and tell him how to express himself, although I will understand the truth in my heart.

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Tell ta that you also think it's more appropriate for you to be friends.

The easiest way to tell you is to nod thoughtfully at the moment when your confession is rejected, and then tell the other party that you always think it is most appropriate to keep friends between you, that is, some people don't understand whether your feelings for ta are friends or love, so they try their best to express them. When you first refused, you knew that your feelings for ta were really friends, not love. Then you tell each other with a smile, it's a good thing you refused, otherwise what should I do if I'm sorry for you in the future? In this way, you resolve your embarrassment and tell the other party that you don't want to be a stranger with ta. In this way, we can continue to communicate in the future, so there is still a chance.

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Just pick a topic and cross it.

This is the way I am willing to solve some embarrassment. Of course, I have never confessed to anyone since I was so big, and I have never been rejected (hehe). When your confession is rejected, you are extremely embarrassed, and the other party will feel embarrassed and will be as embarrassed as you. If you become angry from embarrassment at this time, then you will definitely never see each other again, and they will look down on you. You, on the other hand, will put yourself in a more embarrassing situation. What does it matter if the confession is rejected? To disagree is to disagree. Just find an individual topic and change it. Even if you feel uncomfortable, don't show it, so that the other person will be more uncomfortable with you and you will be uncomfortable yourself.

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Humor once with the attitude of "being wronged"

Even if you are a big boy, you can occasionally show an expression of injustice. But the moment you get up the courage to say no, you can look at each other with innocent eyes and say no, then you don't agree. Anyway, we are friends now, but why don't you just say no? Oh, dear, you should consider the feelings of the confessor. If that's the case, I think people who refuse you will laugh, too. So, what's the embarrassment between you? When you see the other person smiling, you can also add, Hey Goddess, if you are single in the future, think about me or your love. Wait, wait, wait

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Run away as quickly as if frightened.

I asked my good friend, is it embarrassing to be rejected? Answered that it was embarrassing, so what would you do? I can't laugh at the answer, but there are also many ways to solve the embarrassment. Then run as fast as you can to make the other person react quickly. It's right to laugh and think at the same time. It's embarrassing to stand there and look at each other without running. If you are flustered, you can't think of all the words to solve the embarrassment. Just standing there, it's embarrassing. Why don't you run away, then find a place to reflect on yourself, find a good way, come out again, pretend as if nothing has happened, or explain, and so on.